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My Sister, Daisy

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I think this book was good for the age level, although I would have included more aspects of trans-ness such as dysphoria, which would make the readers actually /understand/ trans-ness instead of just accepting it. I realize that most of the kids reading this book will then be able to go ask their parents any questions they have from the book, but not all parents are equipped to answer those questions, and this author is. I also think not all children will automatically think of these questions.

I think it's so important to be covering important subject matter such as this in children's books, and I love seeing diversity on children's bookshelves these days :)

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When Your Brother was Never Your Brother

This is a sweet story that we find out at the end of the book is based on a situation that happened in the author's family. The story is told from the perspective of an older brother who welcomes a younger brother into the family. When the younger sibling nears school-age, she discloses that she is a girl, not a boy. While the older brother isn't cruel or unkind, he is confused at first and at a couple of points along the way. But the confusion resolves sometimes from his own sense of what is happening (and what lies in his heart) and sometimes with direction from a parent. The story is gentle and accepting, of both the transgender girl and the at times befuddled and jealous sibling. It truly would be helpful to a family of a transgender girl with an older brother, though it may work well for any combination of siblings where one is transgender. If only the entire world was as understanding as this family, it would be a much better place. Highly recommended if this fits your family.

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I loved how this book is made for children (and adults as well) to understand and learn about gender identity. It is based on a true-to-life story and I loved the author's note at the end and the intention for writing this book. I would highly recommend this to all children to read. It is very informative in a way that children at a young age can comprehend well.

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A light touch for a serious topic - gender identity and how it affects siblings.

Sweet illustrations help to clearly depict some of the concerns a sibling has with such a big change in family dynamics.

How does a child deal with the increased attention a trans sibling gets? How does the child honor their relationship before and after?

This book is a gentle, positive conversation starter for teaching all children about gender identity.

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This is such an important book. It was simple in its message but even adults can benefit from this book. The artwork is also beautiful. Would recommend it to all families, trans or not.

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A beautiful book about a little boy who becomes a big brother to a new baby. He enjoys showing the baby his toys, making them giggle and teaching the new baby things, and thinking he had a brother to play with! But then one day she tells him she is a girl, her parents and everyone got it wrong! Gradually everyone learns to accept that a child is just a child regardless of gender and they are just the same as before.

A great book about dealing with transgender from an early age and accepting children for who they are and loving them regardless.

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Rating: 5/5 stars.

“My Sister Daisy” is a beautiful and heartwarming story about a boy learning that his younger sibling is transgender. The storyline covers a lot of important topics related to LGBTQIA+ issues for young children. It also handles issues that can sometimes be overlooked, with the focus being on how younger people react to a sibling or friend coming out as transgender, and the effect it can have own their own identity (as a friend or older brother/sister) and their own life. The art style is simple but suits the story well. I loved that the author included illustrations showing racial diversity as well. The author note at the end of the book was very touching and inspiring. I recommend this book for all children ages 4 and up to enjoy, with the help of an older reader or parent.

*I received a complimentary copy of this book on NetGalley and have provided an honest review.*

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I think this picture book is very cute, and definitely gives a voice and story to those who are underrepresented in kids literature. I think this book takes part in a larger cultural shift towards trans acceptance, which is amazing. That being said, I think the book uses some tougher words when it could simplify without losing the meaning. The text is a bit dense, and the book doesn't really focus on the reason for trans-ness (dysphoria/euphoria) which won't be helpful for kids who are trying to understand trans-ness. I think the parent will have to do a lot of explaining to help their child understand the book, which isn't a bad thing, but the book could definitely be more explanatory and easy to read for young readers.

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I love this wholesome story. It's so encouraging to see more and more picture books for children that focus on the experience as a whole of being a trans child, as opposed to just the fact alone that the child is trans. It shows a shift in cultural thinking that gives me hope for the future.

That said, this book is a little heavy on text and explanation, and might not hold younger kids' attention as well because of it. However, it does offer easily-accessible lessons and ideas, and touches on a lot of the feelings and concerns that can arise when a sibling or friend starts exploring their identity.

I think this is a great book for children, and can be a true resource for a lot of caregivers and teachers.

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While the topic for this book is good, the type is hard to read. I think the book could've used better layout and graphics to convey the story.

I also think that the book misses the topic by a bit. I understand the author wants to convey that you will make mistakes with pronouns and understanding gender dysphoria. I wouldn't recommend this book for children -- I think there are others on the market that are better and I am sure there are others that will be on the market that would be more appropriate for an LGBTQIA+ collection.

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Thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for giving me the opportunity to review this picture-book.
A heartfelt story of a boy’s thoughts and worries towards his brother who one day tells him he is a girl. A truly beautiful story of sibling love and the support of a family. This story comes from a place of experience and this is explained by the author towards the end of the book. This story fills a valid space in the picture-book market and it has been written so well.
Linus Curci’s illustrations are adorable and almost childlike and I love the palette and textured affect used on each spread.

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Review: An important book for children, especially siblings or close family members, of transgender or were questioning gender identity. It can be challenging for families to deal with learning a new name, new pronouns, and maintaining the relationship between siblings and this does a wonderful job about showing the process. A note from the author gives some additional details regarding the story's background and her own family's part in creating it. A must-read book for helping children feel accepted and welcome, even when embracing their true identity.

Note: I received a free copy of this ebook from the publisher via NetGalley. My review is my own.

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What a gorgeous, heart-warming little book.

The story is about a young boy who loves his brother, they do everything together and they’re partners in life. When kindergarten starts, his sibling tells him she’s actually a girl, and that her new name is Daisy. The boy has lots of questions, he fears that everything will change! But soon he realizes that Daisy is the same sibling he’s always loved.

Based on a true story, this book warmed my cold, pessimistic heart. I love seeing LGBTQIA+ kids being represented in literature, they deserve to see themselves in the stories they consume. Besides, it’s a great read for classmates or siblings of trans kids because is a great conversation starter. It poses the questions that lots of kids may ask regarding Daisy’s identity and answers them in an honest and loving way. Also, the illustrations are simple yet beautiful.

My Sister, Daisy, would be a great addition to our local library, and I can’t wait to buy a physical copy to read with the little ones in my family.

* This review will be posted on my IG account closer to the release date. *

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This book was incredibly beautiful and well done. I read it with my nephew and he had lots of questions but was very interested in this story and learned a lot. Books like this are more important than anyone can realize. Books like this save lives. Highly recommend reading this to children to give them a better understanding of what being trans could look like.

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My Sister, Daisy is a wonderful and easily accessible story exploring the growth and struggles of a brother supporting their sister's transition.
The story is a brilliant way to support other's in similar situations but is also an excellent way to help any children understand more about those in the LGBTQ+ community, giving the important message that nothing has really changed and they are still the same person they were before they opened up about their transition. Covering common misconceptions in a way younger children are able to understand.

*Early copy received from NetGalley'

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Thank you to NetGalley for providing me with an e-arc
I found this story very captivating, beautiful and it made me cry. It tells a story of acceptance and growth. I love how the story showed all different identities in a respectful way and I would definitely show this to younger kids someday.

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This is a good book discussing gender identity and telling the story of the big brother to a little girl who was born a little boy. It’s told in a simplistic, straight forward manner that children can easily understand. The illustrations are very nice too.

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An extremely touching book. Like the author mentions, we lack literature to support parents and siblings when one of the children is transgender. It is important to make distinctions between instances where “kids are being kids” and when they’re asserting things about themselves that are critical to their identity and development -- as is the case with gender identity and expression.
The images, messages, and the questions the little one is considering when he notices that now he has a sister and not a brother are vividly represented by the author and the illustrator.
Transgender children are more likely to experience anxiety, depression, and at greater risk of substance abuse and homelessness when their immediate caregivers are rejecting or hostile. That is why this kind of books help and offer a support that is much needed in these situations.

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THIS BOOK. This book is so pure and important. My Sister, Daisy needs to be read by as many people as possible. It is an important topic and could help countless people and families. I am grateful it exists to be put out into the world!

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This book was so beautiful, and it's a good way to kids to learn about transgender people and other LGBTQ+

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