I loved this book!! This book made me cry, as it walks us thru how someone handles dealing with the loss of a loved one. It shows you how people can get so wrapped up in their own grief they forget about those around them and what they are going thru.

Julie has life after high school all mapped out, but those big plans are all over when her boyfriend, Sam, dies after a car accident. Heartbroken Julie calls his phone, just to hear his voice one more time, but instead of getting his voicemail, Sam picks up. They continue to have regular phone calls, but Julie can’t tell anyone without risking losing the connection. So when she sees his friends and family struggling in their own grief, she is torn between giving them the opportunity to connect with Sam as well and risking never being able to talk to him again.

Wow, what a book. It’s taken me a while to gather my thoughts on this book, because it gave me all the feels. This is such a power story about love, loss, and the impact grief can have. This is definitely a tough read, and I recommend making sure you are in the right headspace when you read it. When you are ready for it, it is so beautiful and heartbreaking.

Thank you yo NetGalley, and Wednesday books for the advanced copy.

We all experience grief in different ways. After reading the synopsis, I was curious to see how this book would make me view things through a teenager's eyes, while suspending my reality. And maybe break me emotionally, because sometimes I need to be put through the wringer.

You've Reached Sam is all about Julie's journey in how she deals with the death of her boyfriend, Sam. The author takes the approach of telling her story in the present and throwing in the past so we can connect with the two characters and see how their relationship grew over the 3 years they were together. But the uniqueness lies in that while Julie may have lost her boyfriend at 17, she can still talk to Sam by calling him. This is the part where you have to suspend some belief, but it's also a way that touched me and made me follow along with Julie and how she did or did not deal with her loss of this special person in her life.

This is truly a YA book that was unique and I liked the premise of it. I did have a few issues where the calls were concerned and the way Julie treated those around her that just wanted to care for her. I was disappointed in a few actions that Julie took where Sam and his death were concerned, but again, we all deal with grief differently, so I'm glad the author took the time to show ways that aren't always so perfect and pretty. Even if Julie frustrated me, I could still understand her. Maybe not connect with her, but I could still follow her on her path.

Overall, I didn't feel emotionally attached to the characters and their story like I wished, but the story still flowed well for what it was. I liked that it was different and included kids from all backgrounds. I think had I been able to connect with the characters that I would have been more emotionally wrecked and therefore could've rated this higher. Still would be a book I would recommend to a teen. 3.5 stars

I went into this book expecting to feel like my heart got ripped out of my chest and I'll admit I did cry for a few minutes during the end but overall I felt underwhelmed. I liked how the book explored grief and shows the different ways in how people cope but that's honestly all. It's not that this book was bad but it's not very memorable.

For a debut book, I would say that the plot was good but the novel just started to feel very repetitive after the 40% mark. I felt very detached from Julie and I didn't really care about Sam. I don't know I guess that the writing was just too simple for my taste.

Overall I wouldn't say that I didn't like this book but it's not something I'll remember reading at the end of the month. Would I recommend it? Yes if you're looking for a simple book that could potentially make you cry then give it a try!

Julie is grieving for her boyfriend, Sam. So she calls his phone number. And amazingly, he answers.

This is really tough to read, and it tore my heart. It goes deep into grief and saying goodbye. It's beautifully written and very powerful and emotional. It feels older to me than a YA book, despite the main characters being in high school. I read it in a single sitting, and I don't know the last time I cried so hard.

This is a short review because there's not much more I can say. I recommend you choose the moment when you want to read this carefully.

Thank you to Wednesday Books and NetGalley for the advanced reader copy. These opinions are my own.

TW: debilitating grief, car crash

4.5 stars rounded up

*Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for providing me with an e-ARC of this book*

Well, it's safe to say I am currently a sobbing mess. I just finished this book about 5 minutes ago and have to say I was really moved by this story. This story follows Julie, a high school senior, who is trying to learn how to navigate the world after her boyfriend of three years, Sam, dies tragically. In one of her more desperate moments, she tries calling Sam on the phone, and surprise, surprise, he answers! Throughout the story, Julie learns how to cope with his death, and tries to find a way to say goodbye to Sam. I was worried it would feel hard to connect with Sam since he's dead before the book even begins, but Dustin Thao does an amazing job of giving you enough of the past and present to connect you to Julie and Sam's love story. It was heartbreaking, raw, and real, and the exact book you should pick up if you are looking for a good cry. It's not an action-packed or fast-paced book by any means, but it's real life and I really enjoyed it.

You’ve Reached Sam is the story of a teenage girl who’s boyfriend but she discovers a way to be connected to him still, through calls to his cell phone.

I loved the premise of this book but really struggled with the fact that Sam couldn’t answer any questions other than what it looks like where he is “one giant field”. I suspended my disbelief but just wanted more from Sam’s side of things.

It’s a good YA book and one I wish could be true…who would you like to remain connected with through phone calls?

Thank you NetGalley for the ARC of this book!

You’ve Reached Sam focuses on difficult topics such as loss and grief. I have to say the concept of this book was very unique and I enjoyed the story overall. I found myself hooked and I wanted to keep reading to see what the conclusion would be. I liked the book but it fell flat for me at times. Still would recommend.

I initially thought the premise was incredibly interesting: the ability to communicate to loved ones passed on and getting a second chance to say goodbye. The use of flashbacks helped develop the backstory to flesh out the relationship, but I didn't find myself emotionally invested in the characters or the plot shortly after the beginning.

Julie is really frustrating as the main character. We all process grief differently but she came off as incredibly selfish. And maybe that's the point? But the way she treated her friends and family, who also lost Sam, was so disrespectful I was shocked. The purpose of Sam being able to connect with her was so that she could learn to move on and live life without him without regrets, but I found that even by the end, she was more and more reluctant to let go. The climax of the story didn't fit in with the book as it was focused on Sam's little brother instead of Julie and while I'm sure the moment was meant to be a revelation for her, this felt incredibly forced as we were reaching the end of the book.

I thought the author wrote really well, so I have no complaints there. Although the flash forward/back/dream sequences were confusing, I expect they were meant to be. Not a bad debut but for a while there I thought Sam was going to end up as the antagonist of the story simply because there was no explanation as to how they were able to connect and Sam just not being a present character. He doesn't have any answers but somehow they knew their calls were dwindling down, to which the only reason Julie finally said goodbye was because it was the last call. I would've liked a little more explanation for this rather than just Sam saying "I don't know..." every time it was brought up.

I expected to cry during this book but the emotional impact wasn't there for me. I do hope to see other works from this author as the writing was lovely.

You've Reached Sam had its moments, but ultimately disappointed me. Julie recently lost her boyfriend to a car accident, and amidst her journey of grief she decides to call his phone -- and he answers.

This is a super unique, exciting premise that, this and between the gorgeous cover, /really/ built up my hype for this book. I was ready to feel like I had been hit by a train throughout my entire reading experience. What I received was... not that.

I really like how the book handles Julies grief: she's messy, she's justified, and while she makes some selfish decisions that ultimately ignore those around her who are also grieving, it's incredibly realistic.

Unfortunately, I felt as I was reading that the plot was very repetitive and stagnant. It felt like nothing was happening, even though lots of things were "happening." The book did a lot of telling, not showing, about Julie and Sam's relationship, which led me to not understand or care about their romantic connection, which is basically what you need in order to care about this book AT ALL.

Moreover, Sam was a total manic pixie dreamboy. We learn nothing of him throughout the book except what he did in relation to Julie. Perhaps this was the point, as Julie could be interpreted as an unreliable narrator based on her perception of her relationships to those around her. However, how am I supposed to care about a main, central character and his relationship to the protagonist when I know virtually nothing about him?

Overall, this novel definitely had it's moments of emotional intensity and high quality, and I really enjoyed watching Julie's development through her journey of grief, however her relationship with Sam left much to be desired, as did the writing style. For a book that takes these general themes and executes them much better, read History is all You Left Me by Adam Silvera.

while it was a great debut book I don't think this was for me, I'm always interested in books with grief, in a way it helps me deal with my own, and even though I know people go thru grief in many different ways there's still a thing that bothers me when I see representation for it and it is the time, when a character goes thru grief too quicky it doesn't feel real to me and makes me wonder if the author really knows how it is, so that made me get dettached from the story. While the idea of being able to say goodbye to a loved one who has passed away is incredibly sad and hopeful I feel this book didn't cut it for me

**Thank you to Netgalley and St. Martin's Press/Wednesday Books for the eARC in exchange for an honest review. This in no way changed my rating**

I really wanted to love this one after I kept hearing how good it was. Unfortunately, it fell just a little bit flat for me.

You've Reached Sam is about Julie Clarke, a high school senior whose boyfriend has tragically died in a car accident after they get into a fight. The book opens two weeks after his death, where we find Julie sullenly throwing away all of Sam's things. However, she later is able to reconnect with Sam through her cellphone and goes on the hard journey of having to let him go, even though she's given this second chance.

Allegedly.

To begin with, I immediately thought "Oh, this is Rainbow Rowell's Landline but for a YA audience." I will say, I liked the idea of Landline better when it was giving the protagonist some agency. Georgie, the protagonist in that story, was able to alter her choices and the phone helped her to put her current life back into perspective. It allowed her to CHANGE the trajectory of the story. This is not that. The phone calls are just prolonging Julie's denial and dependency on Sam. I never got the feeling that Julie was learning to let go or that she was going to have to continue living on without Sam or without making plans that included Sam because she's STILL DOING THAT through the second to last chapter in the book. So the ending feels INCREDIBLY abrupt like she just skipped through the other stages of grief straight to acceptance in a very short amount of time. Every time she has a moment that's supposed to signal "time to let go", she can't bring herself to do it. There are moments where she risks her connection with Sam, which I guess is supposed to be the development, but it falls very flat for me.

Additionally, the book is just capital D depressing. The entire book is depressing. I actually discussed this book with a friend who also read it (and felt similarly) and my analogy was that it was like the book starts with the reader's head underwater and doesn't ever let you breathe. There are not any real moments of levity because the times where Julie isn't talking to Sam, she's with friends and moping because she's thinking about him and can't go home to talk to him. It really could have benefitted from some moments of humor to break up the constant state of somberness for the reader.

The writing of the book was good in the sense of writing as a craft. Thao clearly is talented as a writer, which is even more frustrating to me. I feel like it's another Rory Power situation for me where I can objectively acknowledge that the author is a good writer but there is just some disconnect for me between the talent on a sentence level and the story the words are trying to tell. I just don't ever get the sense that Julie really went on a character arc even though I also think the prose Thao uses to tell her story is beautiful.

I don't really have strong feelings of "dislike" to justify a rating lower than a 3, but I also don't have strong feelings to recommend it or rate it higher. This felt like a very middle of the road, emotionally one-note story about a girl who really can't handle the feelings of grief. And once again, I'm VERY much in the minority here because so many people love this book and it's so highly anticipated as a release. I just didn't get what I thought I would out of this story, which left me a little disappointed. That said, I'd be interested in trying another of Thao's books at a later date to see if I can experience that connection between talented craft and also an amazing plot.

3/5 stars

This book is for fans of Gayle Forman’s If I stay and Rainbow Rowell’s landline.
Julie is heartbroken over the tragic death of her boyfriend. Since Sam’s death was accidental but occurred on his way to see Julie, she is shunned by her classmates as the ultimate cause for his untimely death.
Julie discovers by accident that she can contact Sam on the “other side” by calling him on his cell phone from her cell phone. There are issues of guilt and not wanting to let go of this connection which only delays her processing of the grief she has been avoiding.
The book switches from present to past to her futuristic dreaming of what life would have been like for Sam if his death had not occurred. Sometimes these areas were a little messy and I didn’t always catch which tense we were in (past, present, or future) until I read further ahead.

This book hit in my weak spot for grief and it hit HARD. While I felt like there were certain elements of the story that were underdeveloped (especially understanding how on Earth Sam was able to take calls from Julie), I enjoyed this book from start to finish. So in terms of writing it’s more of a 3-star book but the vibes/experience was 5 stars so I settled on a 4-star rating overall.

The characters felt kind of flat and I felt like there was supposed to be some sort of plot twist coming that never came but the way Thao wrote Sam and Julie’s love story had me SWOONING. It had a certain movie magic feel to it. The before parts of the story were where I felt Thao really hit his stride along with the grief that Julie felt as the present-day part of the story was occurring.

It physically pained me to see her going through this grief and trying to navigate how to hold onto Sam while figuring out how to let go and refocus how she thinks her future is going to pan out. Thao really nailed the way that people grieve in different ways and have to find their way back to themselves as they try to piece their lives together in order to move forward. One of my favorite parts of the story was when Mika acknowledged that Julie is probably never going to let go of Sam, but she has to find her own balance between allowing herself to remember the past while actively participating in the present part of her life.

The stream of conscious feel to the story was something that I enjoyed, but there were times where I was getting confused as Julie was slipping into a dreamland state.

Thank you to NetGalley and Wednesday Books for providing me with access to an advanced reader copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

DNF @ 20%

Even though this book has such a gorgeous writing style, I couldn't bring myself to continue reading this book. I'm just not in the right mindset right now to read this book. So, if you lost someone close to you, and that wound is very much still raw, I wouldn't recommend reading this book. But if not, then please read it because this book was so well written.

Since I didn't DNF this book because I didn't like it, but because I couldn't finish it for personal reasons, I'm giving this book four stars here, but I won't rate it on Goodreads.

Thank you NetGalley and publisher for the e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.

3 stars

This is a challenging read for anyone, but I expect it will be a much more difficult experience for those who have faced loss. As the world continues to burn around us, who can say - at this point - that they haven't?

Julie, the main character, is a high school senior who has arrived at that age appropriate cusp: where a major part of her life is ending and a whole new phase is about to begin. While she's looking forward to starting this new chapter with her partner, Sam, that dream cannot become a reality when Sam, who is the same age, dies in a car accident.

This book is devastating and in some ways torturous to read. For me, it sort of read like gratuitous emotional poking. I may return to this one in a few months and see if I have a similar sentiment or if this reaction is (as I largely expect) somewhat situational in this moment.

What readers will get is a lot of processing of grief, and they'll see this in various shades. Julie's experience is unique because there is a supernatural (or perhaps imagined) element included. Other characters all have their own methods of processing. The opportunity to see many different reactions to grief could be helpful to the audience.

No one should come to this book looking for a light YA read. Readers dwell in a space of despair from cover to cover, and while that isn't quite what I needed to read in this moment, it might be just the cup of bummer tea you've been seeking. I'll be looking forward to Thao's future work on a lighter topic (or at least approaching future work with a lighter mind).

❝ Julie . . .” Raindrops patter against my ear. I become aware of the sound of my own heart beating against the earth. I turn my face up slightly toward the sky and keep listening. “. . . Are you there?” That voice. Faint and raspy like the murmur of the ocean in a seashell. I know it. I’ve listened to it a thousand times before to where it’s become as familiar as my own. That voice. But it couldn’t be. ❞



It genuinely breaks my heart to give this book such a low rating but I can't help it.
This book jumped at the top of my TBR from the minute I read the synopsis and then the beautiful cover. It sounded amazing and felt like it was going to be a heart wrenching ugly cry. Unfortunately, it wasn't.

Was this is a sad book? Yes, but I was hoping more of a rip-your-heart-out-at-three-in-the-morning and I ended up with "well, that was sad" and went on my merry way to read the story.



❝ Letting go isn’t about forgetting. It’s balancing moving forward with life, and looking back from time to time, remembering the people in it. ❞


Julie was an interesting character for me. Usually, whenever I have picked a book that revolved around the theme of grief, I've always had the characters crying, thrashing, screaming or just becoming a ball of overwhelming emotions. Julie was lost and like a pendulum, her thoughts, beliefs and actions moved back and forth.

I am so used to reading about the emotional outbursts of grief, I was genuinely stumped by the way Julie acted. I, for a fleeting moment, had the thought of "Is she even grieving?". A very stupid thought, I know. Julie comes across as a somewhat flat character and as I mentioned before, her emotions were like a pendulum and the back and forth of her actions did leave me confused.

However, the way Thao showcased Julie's grief and the way she was dealing with it and then juxtaposing is it the way the others were dealing with the same thing, it was nothing short of beautiful.

One thing I wasn't a huge fan of was how she dealt with Mika, Sam's cousin and one of her closest friends. She had completely shut herself off, so while it is understandable, there was a small part of me that wasn't really happy with it. Julie may come off as "annoying", "unlikeable" and "insensitive" to some readers but it was the perfect example of how grieving works differently for everyone and the way they deal with it.


Sam is a flat character. I think a lot of it had to do with him being dead, and we only got to interact with him when he was speaking to Julie. Even the flashbacks didn't add much to his character depth. He was more like an omnipresent figure rather than a full-fledged character.

Moreover, the romance wasn't all that it was made out to be. The idea of Julie and Sam's romance was this huge once-in-a-lifetime kind of thing when the reality of that relationship wasn't all it was made out to be. To be honest, the romance was barely there. Again, this is also understandable since the main themes are the loss of a loved one and how you deal with it, rather than a budding teen romance.



❝ I love you more than you can ever know, Julie. I’ll never forget the time we had together. So please don’t forget me, okay? Try to think of me from time to time. Even if it’s only for a second. It would mean so much. You have no idea. ❞


Every reader read the same book differently and that is exactly the case ofYou've Reached Sam, but it is also a book that will speak to each of us. This story is beautiful in its portrayal of grief and moving on.


You've Reached Sam is the kind of book that will either hit you right in the feels or just go right past you. For me, it was the latter. The entire time I was reading there was always this want for more — more emotions, more depth, more heartbreak, just more.


While the book as a whole didn't work for the best for me, there were some things that helped me with my grief. I lost my mother 3 months ago and while I have been out of the grief period for some time, losing a parent, as we all know, is not easy. Thao with his words, affirmations and advice brought me comfort in a silent way. The epilogue especially spoke to me in such a personal way and for that, I am so so so thankful.




3 Stars!

You've Reached Sam by Dustin Thao is a real tear jerker, I have a lot of mixed feelings about this book. On the one hand I appreciate the realistic portrayal of the different ways to grieve. On the other hand, the story begins one week after Sams passing so to me it felt like the timing was off.
Over all this is still a good book with diverse character cast and grief representation.

This is the first book this author has written and let me tell you, he hit it out of the ball park!!!!!!! It was a home run & an absolute 5 star. This beautiful story between Julie and Sam made me sob uncontrollably.. Although the story is written in present day, we do get to see glimpses of the relationship between Julie & Sam prior to his death. As Julie mourns the loss of Sam she decides to call his cellphone, just to hear his voice one last time but is shocked when he actually answer his cellphone. Julie & Sam quickly fall back into their routine of talking every day. At some point in time they both realize that this could not continue to go on forever & that it needed to end so they could both move on in life & in death. It was extremely difficult for me to see them make that final decision. Thank you NetGalley & Wednesday Books for giving me an eARC. I 100% recommend this book.

I adored this beautifully poignant story. The author is exceptional good at tugging at the heartstrings. The strong connection between Julie and Sam is felt throughout the novel. This story will linger with me.