As a 6'2" dreadlocked Black man, Tyler Merritt knows how to write a relatable, hilarious, inspiring book, and I say that as a 5'7" tattooed white woman. His story has something for everyone, truly. Even if you don't know Counting Crow's hits or have never heard a number from Miss Saigon - this book is for you. Even if you fear bursting into flames every time you find yourself having to frequent a church or are whiter than a white teen talking back to her mom for not having enough extra caramel on her PSL - this book is for you.

Honestly, I was briefly concerned about the religious talk as someone who is deeply NON-religious, but Tyler shared every bit of himself - and big pieces are his faith - without being the least bit preachy.

I absolutely loved how American History was woven throughout the book as needed. The lessons were succinct, impactful and flowed perfectly with the larger story so that you forgot you were actually *learning* beyond Tyler's narrative.

This is easily in my Top 10 favorite books of 2021 (and this is book 70 for the year so far), maybe Top 10 favorites... ever. I am grateful that Tyler Merritt was willing to be so vulnerable and share his story with the world. He's right - proximity DOES breed empathy. This book is a great place for so many people to begin very important conversations that can help build bridges of understanding.

Note- I received an advanced digital copy of this book. These opinions are my own.

I Take My Coffee Black: Reflections on Tupac, Musical Theater, Faith, and Being Black in America by Tyler Merritt is an important book that I think everyone should read. What does it mean to be a black person in America? I was blessed to know Tyler back in his college years. When I saw that he was writing this book, I knew I wanted to read it because he is one of the most genuinely kind people I have ever met. He's the real deal. To know Tyler is to be fully embraced and accepted as you are. That's how he has always been. Tyler somehow wrapped up his incredible personality and delivered it in the form of a book. Reading this book is like sitting down with him for a life giving, life changing conversation. Come as you are. Listen to his journey. Be willing to challenge your expectations and listen with your heart. You'll never see things the same again. Tyler opens your eyes with his experiences but he has a way of lifting the reader up with his encouragement and honesty. I highly recommend this book to readers of all ages and backgrounds. We need to read it in order to truly understand each other. I received a digital copy of this book from the publisher with no obligations. These opinions are entirely my own.