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How We Love Matters

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This is a very personal account. Tate begins by explaining his motivation in writing the book. He was with his family at a scenic overlook in the California foothills, enjoying the view, when a police car drove in the lot and parked some distance away. The policemen were just chatting, taking a break. Soon Tate's nine year old son went to their own car and sat in the back. When questioned, the boy said he was afraid of the police. “I could die.” Tate realized there was a new generation already marked by racism. He wrote this book to have a candid discussion on the issue.

Tate combines personal experiences, stories of racial injustice, and biblical injunctions to help readers understand the reality of racism and what we can do. The book is very enlightening as to how Blacks feel in danger in so many situations that would not concern us whites. He also drew my attention to the difference between equality and equity.

Part memoir, part enlightening account of racism experienced in the past and today, this is a good book for Christians to understand the situation. It is also a challenge. Tate writes, “Our connection with God fuels our connection with one another because it is through our love of Jesus that we're able to love our neighbor...” (249/3180) That's a challenge to really evaluate our relationship with God. And the challenge that stopped me short. “You don't get to love me in whatever way is most comfortable to you.” (880/3180)

I received a complimentary egalley of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.

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