The Lifestyle turned out to be a little tamer than I thought it would be, but I appreciated the more serious moments, as it added a little more depth. However, I didn’t really feel connected to Georgina and Whittaker’s relationship. I would’ve liked more details of their past - maybe dual timelines. When they ended up together, it felt forced. This was an entertaining read and I would read more by this author.

Thanks to netgalley and the publisher for the free digital copy!

Uhhh...what did I read? I'm not big into reading about swingers (though this was timely -- #MormonMomTok), and tbh I DNFed this.

I'd read Taylor Hahn's books again, this just wasn't me.

Thanks for the ARC!

Great book and interesting concept. At first I hated the ending, but after I thought about it, it was clearly what the characters needed to end up together. Except it doesn’t explain Georgina’s open ended ticket to Thailand and Nathan ending up with Alina.

A retelling of Emma that centers around a group of friends who decide to try swinging. Definitely one of the more interesting additions to the Emma retellings.

This is a very unusual book, and if you are looking for something different, then you should definitely read this book. This book explores the swingers lifestyle. Georgina Wagman thinks she has it all, until she discovers that her husband is having an affair. When she makes the decision to try to get the spark back, they begin a new direction in their life. Will this solve the problem, or create new ones?

I did not finish this book. It was not my cup of tea. The story was slow with too many unnecessary details. I found it difficult to like the character and did not find the comedy in the story.

Georgina has it all…until she walks in on her husband sleeping with her mentee. After drinks with a client, Georgina is introduced to swinging, and told how it has fixed her clients marriage and sex life with her husband. With her husband and friends on board, Georgina dives into the world of swinging. Will it be what it takes to fix her marriage?

Swingers. Not usually my type of story. However, what do we learn if we don’t read outside our comfort zone? I will say I found this book pretty fun. Obviously Nathan sucked, so I kind of loved that Georgina took back her own power and started focusing on herself (while still trying to work on her marriage.) I thought this book was so interesting and quirky, while being insightful and pretty fun. If you are wary of starting this one for the same reasons I was, give it a chance!

I was doubtful about this book. Mainly due to the subject of the book. I must say I was entertained reading it. I did like seeing the purpose behind everyone’s decision to go along. I thought I knew how it would end up and was surprised it wasn’t what I thought. I think you can take from this book how desperate we become to fulfill a vision of what we see for ourselves and how far we’ll go to see it through rather than admit it’s ok to see it’s not working and change the plan.

This is a fun and fast read! I completed it in two settings. The characters are relatable even though their activities aren’t things I’d necessarily partake in. I’ll say that that spice level on this book is pretty mild considering there are sex clubs and sex parties!

I so wanted to like this book but I just had a hard time getting into it. I’m sure there are people who will love it but it just wasn’t for me. Thanks for the ARC

This book turned out to be much different than I thought it would be and I love being surprised with something better than I expected. I didn't anticipate there being so many reasons to enter The Lifestyle that indicate a desire to facilitate positive changes in relationships. The characters were well-written and I enjoyed the writing style. This is a unique story of love and friendships that just may surprise you too.

This is the second Austen-inspired book I have read this year (the first being The Murder of Mr. Wickham) and let me tell you….the two couldn’t be more different, and I definitely preferred The Lifestyle. I was a little sceptical when I read the synopsis, but once I saw it was picked as a BOTM I was intrigued. Is this an Emma retelling? Yes. Are there swingers? Yes. Was it as bizarre as it sounds? Sort of, but I really liked it in the end. Honestly, whether or not you are put off by the premise, I think it’s worth pushing through if you are looking for a fun/smart summer read. Just trust me!

I really really really wanted to love this, as I love a taboo situation. However, I think Emma retellings are just not my thing. Which is okay because a lot of people love Emma!

This book was incredibly well written, interesting and I was never bored. However, the MC got under my skin a bit too much and I think it's because I can't stand Emma as a character lol.

This is the first book I’ve read where the plot is based around swinging. I had no idea what I was getting into so I started reading with little expectation. The author makes Georgina likable, but human. She has her flaws of trying to fix everyone’s problems and not focusing on her own. So when she catches her husband in an affair (and that was a well-written, emotional point in the plot), it’s almost no surprise that she wants to “fix” it by joining the swinging lifestyle (and bringing her friends along in the process to help fix their problems!). And from there, we find that it works for some and not for others. Plot twists here and there (like meeting your college ex that you never should have let go at one of the parties) spice up the story. I was always interested in what was going to happen next and there was just enough humor throughout. I did expect a little more plot about the actual lifestyle, but overall a good read. I’d recommend it.
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Loved this book! Thought it to be totally different than so many novels out there. I was rooting for the characters - especially Georgina, Norah and, surprisingly, Meredith. Love this!

I'm obsessed with stories about swingers so went into this with high expectations and it kept me entertained. I didn't love the main characters but some of the secondary characters were great and I would definitely read more by this author.

Thanks to Knopf and NetGalley for the copy to review.

while this was a book about possibly the most interesting and dramatic topic there could be - swinging! - there was almost no tension or complexity at all. each and every character was completely understanding, to the point of perfection, even as they were experiencing trauma or being treated terribly or what have you. it made for a very hard to invest in reading experience.

Emma is my favorite Austen novel and this was a very interesting take on it. Probably the most fun reinvention of the story that I’ve seen since Clueless! I really enjoyed this story and look forward to reading more from this author.

Tame for what I expected.

A book focused on couples getting involved in swinging sounds like a unique take on relationships and the lives of married couples. The story itself was really tame. Or underwhelming is a better description.

I didn't see the connection to Jane Austen's Emma. Calling it a retelling was an interesting choice in my opinion.

I thought one of the character's backstories was far more interesting than the story itself. Being raised on a "hippie commune" and homeschooling would've made such an interesting stand alone story.

The writing itself isn't bad. I can see myself reaching for another Taylor Hahn book.

I ended up really enjoying this! More contemporary fiction than romance this was an intimate look “the lifestyle” without getting to explicit or spicy. I really enjoyed the group of adult friends and how their dynamics played out. I thought the main character was very likable and relatable and found myself laughing out loud a few times. It all wrapped up a little too neatly for me & not gonna lie I was expecting for swinger content but overall an enjoyable read!