The Beautiful Words is the third book I've read by Australian author Vanessa McCausland and probably my favourite to date.

All three books consider complex issues and draw on themes around family and friendships, around hopes and aspirations as well as discontentment and regret.

This book unfolds in three timeframes though much of the focus is on Sylvie and Kase - in the past and present. We learn their childhood friendship was that of kindred spirits. As soul friends...

And this theme of friendships - their strength and fragility - is also reflected in a third timeline. One long before Sylvie and Kase were born.

"But sometimes it is friendship that is our true life calling, our true soul connection. You two have that soul connection, I see it plain as the nose on my face. These are eternal and rare and mystical and as such they burn the brightest. Most of our relationships, even very loving ones are revealed to be only temporary. Soul connections are forever." p 218

Ultimately this story however is about secrets and lies. We're given snippets of the events of 1996 (in the lead-up to and aftermath of) the tragedy that changed Sylvie and Kase's lives forever. Of course, at the heart of this story is how it impacted on their lives.

Sylvie knows she's living a 'small' life and though it's by choice, there's still a sense of resentment towards her old friends who've moved on. Perhaps there's a sense of irony in the way her lost memories are protecting her, but at the same time stopping her from truly living life.

The present here is playing out against a backdrop of grief. Although Kase's brother died over two decades earlier that sense of loss is very strong. And we're introduced to Holden who lost his own teenage daughter and is struggling to endure life, after...

Although McCausland offers us a great cast of characters and - ultimately a number of twists to the secrets being kept - the strength for me here is in her writing. 

We're told that Sylvie loves words and she jots down words that she wants to remember or hold onto - particularly given the memory issues she has. McCausland intersperses the book with definitions - both common words or those that relate to the plot in some way. 

"Lilo (n.) - a friendship that can lie dormant for years only to pick right back up instantly, as if no time had passed since you last saw each other." p 55