3.5 stars

In Maame, Maddie is a 25-year-old woman who is the primary caregiver for her father, who is suffering from Parkinson’s disease. Though she has a demanding home life due to her father’s illness, she feels that she has missed out on many of the experiences that her peers take for granted, such as moving out of her family home and dating.

Throughout the book, Maddie grows as a character as she explores intimate relationships and work situations. She also examines her complex relationship with her mother, who has been periodically absent as she spends extended periods of time in her native Ghana.

There were some decisions that Maddie made that didn’t make sense to me, but that is all part of growing as a person. I appreciated the discussions of mental health and how historically, many people were raised to just “get over it” instead of seeking help.

Maddie’s quirky and introverted nature makes her an interesting protagonist. George’s writing is strong with well-developed characters, and she touches on a lot of important issues without getting too heavy-handed.

What an incredible debut novel! This hits all family issues straight on with well written characters and a rollercoaster of emotions. You want to cheer on and support Maddie the entire way through this book!

A very emotionally read that will have you crying, laughing, feeling joy and loss. Truly a moving debut!!

Thank you to NetGalley and the publishing team for this free ARC in exchange for my honest review.

Note: I received a review copy of this from the wonderful NetGalley. Still and all, the opinions here are mine, and nobody else's.

With one small caveat, I loved Maame, Jessica George's debut novel (and I look forward to seeing a lot more of her work).

To get the small caveat out of the way, I have been noticing a trend among younger writers that I dislike very much. Now, this may just be because I'm a tail-end Boomer, but it still bothers me. When faced with problems that most adults face in life, many younger writers have other protagonists turn to the hive mind of the "Interwebs" or they have the protagonists discuss the issue with everyone except the other person(s) involved. To me, this often seems like a retreat from actually tackling the problem, whatever it is, and either failing or succeeding but growing either way. Maddie does it here a lot, which takes away (for me, anyway) from the idea that Maddie is an actual adult.

Other than that, this is a lovely book. Maddie's turn as caretaker for her dad, and actual truly responsible caretaker for her widely scattered family strikes true (my sister and I have each had to assume that role in real life). The representations of how much of her life has been eaten by this role, and by her family's expectations that she will always fill these set, specific roles is heart-breaking. Maddie's saving grace, however, is that she really is a survivor, with the core of steel she does not see in herself but recognizes in her mother and aunt. She spends the time we are with here growing -- sometimes willingly, sometimes unwillingly -- with great hopes that things will turn out for the best, even while she acknowledges the possibility they won't. It's also interesting to see how the values she has learned in her country of birth mix and blend with the Ghanaian values her parents spent a great deal of time installing, and where those mixed values both propel her forward and hold her back.

Despite the above caveat, I think you will enjoy spending time with Maddie, her family, and the other people in her life. The writing is excellent, which is always a plus for me.

I loved this book! Maddie was my
Favorite character of the year. How she grew from the beginning of the book to the end, was remarkable. I felt for her throughout her story. I loved the relationship she had with her father. My heart broke for her but also I had so much respect for how she cared for him. I appreciated learning about Maddie’s culture, the relationships in their family, the pressure Maddie felt to take care of everything when her mother was in Ghana and her brother was never around. Her mother and brother drove me crazy throughout the book but I appreciated how Maddie was able to stand up to them eventually.

Thank you St. Martin’s Press for my advanced copy of this book!

In this stunning coming of age story we meet the bright, vivacious Maddie who is struggling to make her own way in the world. With her mother constantly away in Ghana and her brother doing his own thing, it is up to her to care for her father who is in the advanced stages of Parkinson’s. When her mother returns from her latest trip though Maddie sees this as her chance to branch out, move away from home and start experiencing life. Heartbreak, racism, grief and love, Maddie quickly learns some of the biggest lessons but most importantly she learns where she truly belongs.

Compassionate, empowering, tender and engaging. I was mesmerized by Maddie’s story from the start and know it is one that will resonate with so many people. @jessicageorges style of writing is captivating and made for such a resounding read. This book touches on many tough subjects in a way that is utterly moving yet you can’t help to feel charmed while reading about Maddie. I urge everyone to read this powerful masterpiece when it’s out in January!

Read if you:
- Want a beautiful coming of age story.
- Ever had to find your true self.
- Have a complex relationship with your family.

Maame is a beautifully written, emotionally charged debut novel. It's a compelling coming of age story exploring grief, depression, and racism. The book is moving and relatable on so many levels. Highly recommended!

4.5 stars

A beautiful, moving debut, this novel tackles grief, guilt, coming of age, friendship, romance and complicated family dynamics with nuance and grace through the lens of a twenty-five year old Ghanaian British woman named Maddie (whose often irresponsible mother calls her by the nickname Maame, which signifies Maddie as the responsible one, an identity that has become unbearable for her to sustain). If I've maybe read similar stories of a daughter cracking under the pressure of intense responsibility while still forming her own identity separate from her family, I've never read it with this fresh and touching perspective.

Maame is an excellent book. The writing is clear and moving. I enjoyed Maddie and getting to see the world through her. This book covered a lot (grief, family/friend/romantic relationships, racism, work) without feeling overwhelming. I look forward to seeing what Jessica George comes out with next.

A couple formatting notes:
- It was sometimes hard to distinguish text messages and articles from other parts of the story. Italicizing, indenting, etc. to differentiate would be useful.
- There were a few letters mistakenly left in Chapter 11 - "our first catch-up lastedha much longer"
- In Chapter 33, I think there was a missing quotation mark before "on my first day back"
- In Chapter 36, I think there was a missing quotation mark in this part:"...if you feel guilty," she says quietly, "for missing one birthday"

I did not enjoy this book. I think the story
Was flat I wasn't interested in Maddie's life. Thank you netgalley and publisher for allowing me to read this arc in exchange for a review.

An easy read that kept me engaged with thoughtful characters and storyline - I’ll keep an eye for this author, no doubt!
Thanks Netgalley and the publisher for the ARC opportunity!

Nicely written portrayal of a girl juggling life, between newly found happiness and the depressing feelings of guilt. Sometimes happy yet sometimes sad, but I was always rooting for her!

5 stars- this is a book I definitely will read again. thank you netgalley & the publisher for the ARC, in exchange for an honest review.

A touching debut novel about a young woman struggling to figure out who she is and where she belongs in the world. Maddie (known as Maame to her family) is a 25 year-old Ghanaian-British woman who is still living at home in London and working at a job where she's not valued. Maddie is far from being a carefree young adult. Her life is dominated by responsibilities as she's the primary caregiver for her father who has Parkinson's Disease since her mother spends more time in Ghana than London and her older brother is unreliable. When her mother unexpectedly announces that she's returning to London for at least a year, Maddie has an opportunity to move out and prioritize herself for the first time since she was a young teenager.

Maddie is a naive but relatable character learning to navigate young adulthood (with the help of friends and Google). Like any young person, Maddie is dealing with friendships, flatmates, dating/relationships, and finding the right career path, however, she also deals with racism and microagressions at work, mental health issues, loss and grief and balancing her family's Ghanaian traditions with her life as a Londoner. Maame is a well-written, enjoyable read about a young adult coming of age and "finding herself" - a story as beautiful as the book's cover!

Thank you to NetGalley for the digital ARC.

First off, how beautiful is this book cover? It's one of the things that drew me to requesting it (Thanks NetGalley). But besides the cover, I honestly really loved this book. It discussed so many different topics that so many women (maame) deal with.

I really loved the character of Maddie. I feel like some of the struggles she went through (moving out on her own, making friends, finding her place at work, romantic relationships etc.) are things that most young women can relate to and have experience with.

The author also discusses topics like race (racism in the workplace, fetish etc) and while I cannot relate to this myself (as a white woman) I can appreciate the conversations Maddie had with her close friends. It honestly felt like I was listening in on their conversations.

At times I felt bad for Maddie, due to her family duties and role within her family. I honestly am still not sure if I like her mother (lol).

I also really loved how Maddie often asked Google questions about topics she had no information on. I thought this was a nice touch by the author, and made the character even more relatable.

I also had this sense of impeding doom for the majority of the novel, that something bad was going to happen - and while many 'bad' things did happen to Maddie (one being the worst of all - no spoilers though) she always came out on top and continued to move forward.

Finally, I appreciated the topic of Mental Health being covered and discussed throughout the novel, especially with Maddie having the feeling of "lots of bad things happen to people all the time, why am I having such a hard time'.

To conclude, I think this is such a great 'coming of age' story in a sense for young women and girls and really appreciated the story Jessica told.

I'm looking forward to reading anything else by this Author!

Maame is a book about a Ghanian family that lives in London; except for the mother who lives in Ghana. The two children of the parents, who are grown adults now, have a familiar relationship of siblings arguing at times. The parents are indeed married, however, the relationship the mother has with her two kids is somewhat unusual. This can be gathered from the beginning of the book. But as the book continued the author built on those relationships and I grew to really dislike one character for sure. It gripped me and wanted me to continue reading to find out how this situation would play out. I must say I was a little surprised by the ending, but the author took her time at revealing the ending, so it didn't abrubtly end. I ended up loving this book, and started to see a little of myself in Maddie (the main character and narrator of the story). I was very sad for Maddie when she was no longer ever to see her father again. And just like anyone, she felt guilt, even though she did nothing wrong. She struggled with her friendships, and intimate relationships, but in the end, she learned how to better function in those relationships. I would like to think she became a tough woman, independent, and not willing to let anyone run over her anymore. This was sensational!

I will be writing a book review on my blog www.sweenolia.com. The link to the blog post is below and will go live on October 11, 2022 @ 6am central time. I will also promote it again before the release date. I will also promote it on my Instagram page @sweenolia and my twitter page @sweenolia. Thanks and great job!! Libby

Thank you to NetGalley for the ARC of this book!

Maame by Jessica George focuses on Maddie, a late-bloomer in London in her mid twenties who decides to finally start living. At the start of the book, she spends most of her time taking care of her father, who has Parkinson's, living at home with him while her brother rarely contributes and her mother spends most of her time in Ghana. Maddie is stuck juggling a job that treats her poorly, repeated racism in the workspace and broader world, very limited support from her family, and the emotional challenge of coping with her dad's illness. Her nickname, "Maame," means woman in Twi, and represents the way that she has had to step up and care for her family financially and physically, with little thanks.

This book does a fantastic job at portraying the realities of grief and the difficulties of breaking out of your shell. When Maddie's mother returns home, Maddie decides to move out and gain the life experiences she's been missing out on. This includes making new friends and flatmates as well as beginning to date. Her experiences with a variety of love interests portray a heart-wrenching reality that reminds her of why she didn't date in the first place.

While the dating and romantic aspects of this book show Maddie working on the manifesto she creates (a list of things to do to make her "live" more), where this book really shines is in Maddie's response to her father's death. Her father has been the only constant in her life for such a long period of time, and when she finally agrees to leave his care to her mother, he ends up dying. We later learn that Maddie's mother was out with another man at this time. This leaves Maddie's world shaken, and causes her to intensely doubt her decisions. If she hadn't moved out, would she have been there to help? If she hadn't gone out with her flatmates the night before, would she have made it to see him on his birthday the next day?

Maddie lashes out at her flatmate, a reaction which feels incredibly realistic for what she's going through. The flatmates could have benefited from being a bit more fleshed out, but, the resolution with the flatmate she lashes out with is done beautifully and genuinely. Maddie also learns that the person she's been seeing has been dating a white woman as well, who he has been introducing to his family, giving gifts to, and bringing out on dates in public. Maddie is also facing hardships at work, where her ideas are used, but she isn't being credited.

This book would have been even stronger if the grieving section was a bit more prolonged. This was, by far, the most powerful and gripping part of the book, making me wish the reader had been let in on even more of that journey. So much of this book was setting up the backdrop, with Maddie moving out, going to her old job, getting a new job, etc. This part could have been a bit shorter to make room for the emotional growth that happens in the final piece. Additionally, Maddie realizes that her two closest friends have been incredible all along, and she doesn't need to befriend her new flatmates. This could have been strengthened as well by incorporating these two friends just a little bit more into the start of the plot.

Her family was another strength. The dynamic felt so realistic, with the love that she has for her family members despite the many times they fail to be there for her when she needs them. This book demonstrated a complicated and nuanced family relationship, where there were no villains.

Overall, this book was beautifully written and spoke to an experience that felt powerful and genuine.

Maame is an absolutely amazing debut novel from Jessica George. This is the type of book where the story and the emotions stay with you long after you turn the last page and you just want to tell everyone you know to read it so that you can have more people to talk to about the book. The story is written in a raw and emotion laced way that makes you feel like you are really inside of Maddie's head sensing all of the conflicting feelings fighting for air. Maddie is the glue that keeps her family together even if it means putting her entire life on hold and making sacrifices for people who would not do the same in return. When she is given the chance to finally step out on her own she is forced to ask her self who she is and who she wants to be, without her family. A series of life lessons hit her all at once with tremendous force and threaten to destroy the hope she had for becoming someone new, but its in this darkness that her true self begins to shine through. Maddie is a beautifully complex character that I am sad to leave behind but I'm also happy because of how much she has changed and grown.

The cover art sucked me in right away.

Maddie is solely responsible for her father who suffers from Parkinson’s when her mother is in Ghana, which is most of the time. When her mom comes home, Maddie steps out on her own to find herself and start her life but then tragedy strikes.

This was a great coming of age story but it was unique due to its diversity and exploration of grief. I loved the main character and how she grew. She was so naive and innocent in the beginning due to her upbringing. I loved how she started to explore the world and herself, but stayed true to herself and her personality.

I absolutely loved this story. If you are looking for a truly heartfelt coming of age story, then look no further!

Maddie, or Maame as nicknamed by her Ghanaian mother, is in her mid twenties and still living at home. She gets by day to day with a mundane job while also looking after her ailing father

Feeling ready to venture out and become a new Maddie, she finally moves out when her mother returns from Ghana to help with her father. Maddie quickly experiences a lot of firsts while on her own and appears to sacrifice herself for what she feels is good for others

Tragedy strikes unexpectedly and now it feels as if her whole life is unraveling. Maddie is forced to reflect on her life and whether she was expected to be her family’s everything, as stated in the meaning of her nickname Maame. Grief stricken and alone, Maddie works to find her way through living with a tragedy and the importance of who ask to come along with you

I truly loved Maddie’s character. This well developed story touches on racism, family dynamics, grief, and mental health. This book made me laugh and cry. I enjoyed learning more about Ghanaian culture. I will remember this story for a very long time

I liked the last quarter of the book. I just had a hard time getting into it. I didn’t really like the main character until near the end. I almost gave up on it, but I’m glad I finished it. Thank you NetGalley for the a to read this prerelease copy for an honest review.