This debut has a clear, strong voice. But, I found the story incredibly depressing and (as a caregiver), too triggering to finish.

This is an interesting look at figuring out who you are when you think you should already know. We are all learning and growing and I think that is a big theme in this book. I liked the diversity also within this book.

Thanks NetGalley for this ARC

this reminded me of a combination of a lot of books I've read recently: Wahala, Midnight Library, Eleanor Oliphant, and a few others. Our main character struggles with being her father's caretaker due to Parkinson's, while trying to also enjoy the independence and freedom of being 25. We then really dive deep into topics of depression, grief, sexuality, cultural identity, and others which I found genuine. Overall, I found this to be a very heavy book, and the ending wrapped up in a way I found to be inauthentic. I do think there is a lot to unpack and discuss here, which would make this a great book club book!

I adored Maddie's narration, hilarious and heartfelt, albeit improbably naive. Its slow pacing and one-dimensional supporting characters made the second half much weaker for me. Still, I will definitely be watching out for George's future work. 3.5 stars.

Thank you for the advanced copy, St. Martin's Press!

This was such a beautiful coming-of-age story of a young woman, Maddie, and her life in London. The portrayal of loyalty, family strife, grief, dating, and love was so beautifully written and depicted that there were many times I felt overwhelming grief and sadness for Maddie's story. Even though her background, culture, and experiences were completely different from mine, Maddie is still incredibly relatable. I really enjoyed this book and Maddie's charachter - would love to read more about Maddie as her life unfolds!

Thank you NetGalley for the arc. This review is wholly my own.

What a powerful & moving story about the struggles, joys, failures, guilt and growth in starting over in life. You will fall in love with Maddie and her journey in finding herself and seeing herself & her family in new and different ways.

Unputdownable! Very well written and inspiring. You will laugh & cry repeatedly throughout the book, but by the end you will be smiling and glad you gave this story a go.

I will be honest, I sat on this arc for quite a while because it didn't sound like "my kind of book," but I am so glad I finally read it. There are few books that I give 5 stars to these days, but this was one of them I would highly recommend you get yourself a copy by whatever method you desire and start reading it NOW!

I'm a sucker for a good coming-of-age story, and this was absolutely phenomenal. I plowed through the first 50% in one sitting, after intending to only read a couple of chapters. Fast-forward to the following day, when I neglected all of my household chores in order to read the second half. I loved this book so much. Maddie is endearing and such a well-written character. The entire book, from start to finish, is worth your time. So many life lessons and messages involved, and since I don't want to spoil anything, I will just say that I'm sad for you that it doesn't come out until February 2023 because you all need to read this right now so that we can talk about it.
I plan on recommending this to everyone!

Thank you to NetGalley and St Martin's Press for the ARC!

This was so much more than I expected it would be. I loved it so much as it spoke to my heart and soul. I'm certainly not Black or Ghanaian, but boy did I easily identify with Maddie. Which further emphasizes the fact that we are all just people, struggling to get through life without hurting others while trying to carve out our own piece of happiness. This is about finding out who you are, where you fit, and learning that not only is it okay to take up space in this world, but you should puff yourself up and claim just a bit more space. Maddie touched me and resonated deeply. She is quiet, introspective, a bit naive and innocent, unsure, funny. Watching her come into her own and claim her place in the world was a joy. When she finds her voice and stakes her claim, I celebrated with her!!

I would like to start by saying thank you to Netgalley and St Martins publishing for an ARC of Maame in exchange for my honest review.

Maddie is the youngest of 2. In her mid 20’s, she is the main caregiver to her father who was diagnosed with Parkinson’s. Her mother travels to Ghana frequently and her brother can’t be bothered to help. Her mother has given her the nickname “Maame” since she was a young girl. Woman. The responsible one.

I found this book very relatable. Only I was fortunate to have all 3 of my siblings and my sister-in-law to help take care of our parents when they got older. . We lost our father 4 years and 5 months ago. And our mother 13 months later. Our father was the sole provider for years and our mother was in charge of tending to us. Throughout my childhood, I really never heard my dad say “I love you”. I know he loved us. He just never said it. I would say I love you and hear a grumble in response. As time went on, they got older, and the tables were turned. My mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and my father was diagnosed with Cancer. We became the caregivers. I began to see a different side of my dad. A nurturer. We would understand the “I love you” response, not just a grumble. Maddie attributes it to the way her father was raised. The same way we attributed it to the way ours was raised.

This book made me cry. It made me chuckle. It made me think and reminisce. I found it hard to put down once I started reading it.

Coming of age story about Maddie, a young English-Ghanian women. Even though she is in her mid-twenties, she hasn't lived much of her life until she finally moves out of her house and begins dating and thinking more about her career. She has a lot of her shoulders, including a death of someone beloved, meeting men who just aren't right for her, and dealing with her own struggles with being the only Black woman at her work. I loved Maddie and was rooting for her throughout. I think people will enjoy reading this book. It touches on many topics, including depression and racism, and I think it will be a hit.

CW: grief, loss, racism, anxiety, depression, family struggles and separation, alcohol, drug use, sex and more.


Thank you to Jessica George, St. Martin's Press, and #NetGalley for the opportunity to read this arc in exchange for an honest review.


This is the beautiful story of 25 year old Maddie, a young Ghanaian Londoner who is discovering herself outside of her caretaking role put upon her by her family. She wants to put herself out there, try new things, and bust out of her responsibilities, but they keep calling her back.

I'm so grateful I was able to read this novel (I was also in a bit of a physical reading rut and it helped me get through it!). Maddie's voice comes across so strongly in the writing; her perspectives and inner monologues are smart and funny, and you can feel the pain of growth right along with her. I wrote down several little poignant moments, like this one:

"A band whose songs make me think of summers that don't belong to me; of new Converses and cold drinks, short dresses and barbecues, and fleeting bursts of perennial freedom."

It's poetic, emotional, and personal. A wonderful debut by Jessica George!
4 out of 5 stars

I just finished Maame by Jessica George and was blown away with this debut novel.

Maddie has been called “Maame” since she was young. In Twi, this means woman. The nickname has made her feel a responsibility since she was a little girl and has carried that with her into adulthood.

Growing up, Maddie’s mother would spend every other year in Ghana, leaving her to feel unwanted and alone. Maddie was never able to move out on her own because she took on the familial duty to care for her ailing father. When her mother comes home, she urges Maddie to move out on her own.

What comes out of this is a journey of grief, guilt and self growth. Jessica George did an incredible job of making Maddie so relatable. From the insecurities and awkwardness to the honesty of her subconscious thoughts, I felt like Maddie could be any one of us.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

This was such a powerful debut novel! Thank you St. Martin's Press and NetGalley for sending me this ARC in exchange for my honest review.

Look out for this moving Women’s Fiction novel February 6th, 2023

A beautiful and moving story centering around Maddie, also known as Maame, as she find her way through difficult circumstances and life changing events toward a fuller and more authentic life. Jessica George weaves an engrossing, nuanced and fresh tale of a woman coming to terms with her past, reimagining her future and learning to love herself and others better. It's the sign of a great book when you come to consider the protagonist a beloved friend and can't wait to catch up with them again when the next book comes out.

Thank you to NetGalley and St.Martins press for the Arc copy, what a fantastic read!

Thank you NetGalley for the advanced e-book for review.

Right away, I’m drawn to Maddie as she talks about how Black people are raised to keep their home life their business. You don’t talk about what’s going on and what’s happening in your family. To be sad, depressed, have anxiety or any of that is something a person who doesn’t have faith should feel. And feeling, who does that. One is to get on with life and taking care of your family and self.

Maddie is the youngest person in the Wright family, the responsible one. Her mother and brother have left the care of Maddie’s dad exclusively to her. He has Parkinson’s. Maddie loves her family but she has grown up way before her time.

It broke my heart that she Google’s everything. She doesn’t know she’s depressed. But I suppose that’s something people do these days. Especially young people.

Overall, there was a lot to like about the genuineness of Maddie’s experience with her father and upbringing. But there was several things I didn’t enjoy about the book but I suppose is the sad reality of the generations coming behind mine.

The language, f-word so randomly dropped. Expand your vocabulary and google a word that can intelligently replace and reflect your feelings.

The need to fit in, Maddie’s list of things to do when she moved out to live on her own for a bit. I hate and despise that the world we live in makes a person think and feel the pressure to conform to zero standards of morality and self respect/esteem. To try drugs or smoke, to loose your virginity because you think it’s what’s you are supposed to do by a certain age. I really wanted to step into the pages of this book and be a friend to Maddie and tell her you don’t have to do this. Figuring out who you are apart from the responsibilities you’ve carried shouldn’t be this list.

But I digress. At times it just felt that the author threw in everything you could think of, I especially hated the predatory relationship Maddie started with the older white man. Yuck. Again, someone to have helped Maddie see him for what he was.

I’m giving this 3 stars although I think it could have been 4 or 5.

Great book! Such a wonderful story!
You hear, "I could not put it down"? Actually true for me with this one.
This book will stay with me for a long time.

Maame was an incredibly moving book. It was a refreshing novel to read, as Jessica George tackled familial love in a way that connected readers to her characters without compromising the mood of her book. Maddie, living in London with her father — whom she is the main caretaker for because he has Parkinson’s — is a relatable character who feels confined by familial and cultural duties to help out her loved ones, while also struggling to stay afloat in a demanding and racist world that takes pity on no one. When her mother arrives in London, after being away in Ghana, Maddie takes that chance to leave her childhood home and try to discover who she is. Maame is almost like a late-bloomer, coming of age story, but it’s so much more than that. It is a book about first love and heartbreak, tragedy and grief, racism and familial/cultural duty; but truly above all else, it is about the journey of self-discovery amidst the turmoil of the world.

I highly recommend Maame by Jessica George. It goes on sale February 7, 2023.

This is a beautiful, powerful but heavy story. It's about family expectation and how that can shape who we become. It's about grief and loss but also about growing up and finding your own way. Maddie is a powerful character because she is stable, quiet and comfortable. She is the one in the family that is the foundation. She's taking care of her father, continuing to put her life on hold as she lives at home and commutes to work. She is fixing meals and spoon feeding her father. Even though she has back pain, she is lifting him in to bed at night.

It isn't until thing start to unravel - the job, the family, her father - that Maddie begins the see the cracks in her life. She's not happy, why isn't she happy? Why can't she just continue to smile through it all? It's only through the love of friends, the work through guilt and the forgiveness and accpetance of family that Maddie finally starts to dig through it all to see who she is. It's raw and real and so moving to read. And every time she said "okay?" to her dad, I couldn't help but smile. This one was so good!

A huge thank you to the author and publisher for providing an e-ARC via Netgalley. This does not affect my opinion regarding the book.

Maame is me and i am here!! My God did this novel gag and read tf outta me!! I think almost every first/second gen child of immigrants can relate the hell of out Maddie and her complex relationships with her parents and siblings. I am just blown away by the writing and these fleshed out characters! Maame’s not perfect and never claims to be but she has suffered under the immerse pressure of being the present child! Of being the present daughter! Of carrying her family’s burdens and problems and ignoring her wants and her desires and her need! A people pleaser! A classic case of high functioning depression! Maame is raw and honest and i loved when Maddie decided to move out and live her life! Her awkwardness, anxiety, dealing with micro-aggressions in interracial relationships, her professional life and that of her flatmates. I am very bias hence the 5 stars. Im rooting for all my Ghanaian sisters especially those who can write their ass off. Miss George has written a relatable novel that inspires hope, flesh out grief and leaves you feeling seen! Maame, to me, is an unforgettable novel, that also humanizes parents and their sacrifices without taking away too much from the points that need to be driven! Overall an amazing and enjoyable novel that I highly recommend!!! Cannot wait to see what else Ms.George has in store!! Thank you Netgalley for the ARC for an honest review!!

Thanks so much to the publisher and to NetGalley for giving me access to this book. Great book! It is so well written! I loved the character -Maddie. This book checks every box for me as a reader. I will be recommending this book. Thanks again for letting have a chance to read it.

Maddie, a young naive black woman, works and cares for her dad with Parkinson’s so.she has very little time for herself. She starts building a life for herself by speaking up at work, finding girlfriends to go out with, and having a sexual relationship with Ben. She uses ‘Google’ to ask questions about relationships,etc.

This book does not have enough plot and is very slow. There is too much focus on planning a funeral and on negative social experiences.