The Things We Do to Our Friends starts out as a dark academia novel, but it really isn’t. Instead, the University of Edinburgh serves as the meeting ground for a clique of well-to-do psychopaths and a new girl Clare (the narrator) who desperately wants to join the group. While the clique is shiny on the outside, like an overripe fruit the inside is godawful. Much of the novel is taken up with the story of Tabitha, the apparent head of the clique, whose father has cut her off financially so that she is forced to come up with a number of unsavory schemes to raise money. But what is the story with Clare? Why won’t her parents speak to her anymore? Why would she find this clique so attractive? The characters are all thoroughly dislikable, but the plot is so well-paced and keeps you guessing which makes the book hard to put down.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with a courtesy copy of this book.

This book took me awhile to get through. Most of the book I felt as if I was just reading a general fiction book and I wasn't sure of the plot or where the book was even headed. I guess you could say I was bored. However, I felt the tension of something major about to happen, so I read on.

Unfortunately, I don't feel like it ever came to fruition the way I'd hoped. Sure, there was a mystery to be revealed of Clare's past as well as the scandalous work of the present, but nothing felt like a pinnacle or a peak.

I can't say I really loved any of the characters. They were well written, but I just didn't find any of them interest.

Overall, this one didn't meet my expectations.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for the advance copy of the book to review. This was a really inventive thriller.

I received a free copy from NetGalley. Dark with unlikable and unreliable characters, it dragged a bit.

Date made up. I feel behind on reviews.

I enjoyed the writing and the setting of this one. The moody Edinburgh setting and the dark academia vibes immersed me in the story. In addition, I thought the story was well constructed, carrying the thread of mystery through to the end with some twists.
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This was a solid 3.5-star read for me! It felt like a debut at moments, meandering a little or feeling less tuned than I hoped for, but I'll be eager to read more from Darwent.

Clare has a past and when she goes to the University of Edinburgh, her hopes are to reinvent herself. There she is pulled into a circle of friends that groom her for their future prospects.

I wanted to enjoy this but it didn't click the way I wanted. It has an excellent opening scene that had me riveted and excited for the path of the plot. But where things go isn't the route I had thought. Things drag along slowly and a lot of what is being expressed is repetitive. I found myself waiting for things to wrap up.

The characters are highly morally grey and I found each one unlikable in different ways. They do have interesting backstories and the author builds intricate character depth throughout the book that I did enjoy.

Though this wasn't for me, I recommend checking out other reviews because it may be one you end up highly enjoying. Thank you Random House Publishing-Ballatine for the gifted digital copy in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.

Creepy and disturbing (mostly in a good way), and definitely enthralling.

Edinburgh felt like a great place to set a novel like this, though be warned: the University and the characters’ connection to it is minimal at best. In other words, if you’re looking for Dark Academia, look elsewhere.

While it employs a lot of the same psychological elements and strange relationships as, say, The Secret History, it has neither the atmosphere nor the academic bent of that book or others of its subgenre.

Still, I can’t help but think this book would be compelling to the same audience, and it certainly felt wryly eerie and sharp in a way that makes for a compelling novel. This probably isn’t the book for you if you need to truly like the characters of a novel, but it’s an excellent piece of sharp Literary Fiction that is delightfully disturbing and macabre.

Here we go again. Awkward girl goed to college (always a girl here) and weirdly gets in with a group she thinks is the coolest. Most people thing they are the weirdest. Or most obnoxious. But awkward girl is just happy to be involved. This is a group of fake people. People who don’t have anything to offer. Somehow this awkward kid is always poor and, obviously, taken in by the rich kids. The rich kids are always damaged, too. Because having momey means you don’t care about your kids. So does having no money. The message-Stay middle class, kids!

This book was entirely atmosphere which isn't bad at all, but wow. I did not particually care for any of the main characters. They should've have been engaging but to me, I didn't feel it.

The plot felt like it both dragged and then sped up as we got closer to the end. The "twist" (either of them technically) were well done I guess, but by the time we got to them, I did not care.

I ...maybe dark academia isn't for me. I don't think this was dark academia but it was dark and there was academia. Either way, not the thriller I went into the book expecting.

Lovely cover though!

Thank you to Bantam and NetGalley for a copy to read and review.

2.5 rounded up to 3

From the description to the beautiful cover, I so couldn’t wait to dive in to revisit the beautiful city of Edinburgh. I will say it is well written, descriptive and disturbing at times. But the story itself left me cold and unable to connect with or like any of the characters.

Clare is headed to college to find herself and find a group of friends where she can belong. She feels like an outcast and always on the outside looking in at the beautiful people. But, looks are often deceiving. She thinks she found her people, and falls in head first ready to please. What happens is a crazy ride that might just leave you shaking your head.

This debut novel just wasn’t for me, but I would be interested to see what the author does next. The writing is so well done that I’d read her again.

Thanks to Random House/Ballantine for this ARC. Opinion is mine alone.

This is just not the right book for me. Maybe I'm too old. I don't feel a connection with any of the characters, but I do remember meeting mean girls like the ones in the story. Maybe that is why I have no interest in reading any further at about 20% of the novel.

“With friends like that, who needs enemies”

The Things We Do To Our Friends by Heather Darwent hooked me from the chilling opening scene. It is not a fast-paced thriller, but a slow, intense build up to a surprising conclusion. The many alarming twists along the way make The Things We Do To Our Friends unputdownable.

“Keep your friends close and your enemies closer”

Clare, the story’s narrator, is a young woman who has just started university in Edinburgh, and it is clear that it is not just the start of a new school, but also a fresh start to her relatively short life. She is withdrawn to the point of being reclusive until she meets Tabitha, Ava, Imogen and Samuel. Clare is drawn to their confidence and strong bonds, and she is desperate to belong. She refers to the foursome as “The Shiver”. The group does give off a questionable vibe from the start, making her nickname for them feel very appropriate.

As the story progresses, secrets are slowly spilled, relationships strained, and alliances questioned. It is not until the story’s zenith that we readers see just how twisted the tale has been. The Things We Do To Our Friends is a chilling tale that suspense lovers will devour.

I recieved this book as an eARC from netgalley.
these are my honest opinions.

I loved this story! I genuinely enjoyed reading about the characters, which were well written. I felt connected to the story and found myself losing track of time while reading!

I cannot wait to see what this author has in store next!

Clare narrates the story from her POV as she begins college in Edinburgh. There is a group of girls who she desperately wants to become friends with, though the draw isn't overly clear. Clare has a secret past that she wants to keep hidden, a mention of violent tendencies, but it seemed disjointed. The group she befriends, the Shiver, are all mismatched and quite unlikeable. While many enjoyed this book, it wasn't for me. I did enjoy the writing style, and would likely try another book from Heather Darwent.

The story seemed to drag on with limited progress. I had high hopes for this book, but it was truly a struggle for me to get into the story and I was left wanting more than it could give me. 3 out of 5 stars.

Things We Do to Our Friends is a time-twisting story that explores how one’s past actions or self, are always with us, for better or for worse. I struggled to deeply connect to the main character, although I’m still trying to decide if this was a deliberate move, as it definitely kept me on my toes throughout the read. I often found myself imagining each scene clearly in my head, as if I were watching a Gatsby-esque film. I definitely recommend if you are looking for a read that will leave you feeling uneasy, in the best way possible.

Many thanks to NetGalley, Random House -Ballantine, and Heather Daewent for this ARC.

This is a dark story with shades of dark academia. I say shades because there is minimal schooling involved. The atmosphere is a main character throughly this book and quite often dominates the chapters.

Heather is a talented writer. She creates a dark and lush story that feels like a hazy nightmare in a gothic setting. Clare is a great character but the side characters are rather thin and unformed. There’s a twist at the end that I really appreciated. I think that the pacing and plot would have benefited from a more strategic editor. I definitely would read another story from this author.

Mood Read: dark storytelling, female psychopaths, and female driven narratives.

The Things We Do to Our Friends by Heather Darwent is an amazing read! I highly recommend it and I could not stop reading it, I finished it in one night.

As we first confront the story of Clare, she seems normal—awkward, out of place, desperate for friends. To many of us, that IS normal. But as the story of THE THINGS WE DO TO OUR FRIENDS progresses, the truth of her unfolds like a train wreck: close enough to affect us, but just enough out of reach that there's nothing we can do.

Clare is trying to make a life for herself in Edinburgh as a college student when she finds herself in among a new set of friends. Nicknamed "the Shiver" (after a grouping of sharks), they're led by Tabitha: beautiful, confident, a big dreamer. And very, very convincing. Orbiting her are Imogen, Samuel, and Ava—each strange in their own ways, but compelling. Clare finds herself part of the Shiver, just on the edge of this orbit. And before long, she's pulled all the way in.

Giving away too much more—what they want with Clare, why they want her, and where it leads—would be to give away the most important part of this book's experience: the discovery. THE THINGS WE DO TO OUR FRIENDS is all about watching the truth of a person come to light in slow steps. Darwent's pacing is impeccable, as we find ourselves on a journey of our own that mirrors Clare's. At the end of it all, though, as we've been craning our necks to find out more about the mysterious Tabitha, we discover that we've been double-bluffed... perhaps even triple-bluffed.

Certain readers, myself included, will find aspects of this narrative all too familiar. If you've ever been pulled into the orbit of a compelling, narcissistic personality; if you've ever questioned your motives; if you've ever ached for acceptance; you may see a sliver of yourself in Tabitha's little constellation. For better or for worse. It's one of those reads that's uncomfortable, but compelling in its discomfort. Darwent depicts these personalities far more acutely accurately than much of modern fiction, and spins it out just right. It's a gripping, all-too-real must-read.

A unique and complex story of a toxic friend group and the lengths they will go to get what they want. It took a few chapters for me to figure out what was going on in the book. I believe the author did a great job developing atmospheric scenes, but the plot and character development were lacking.

Read if you like:
- unreliable narrators
- toxic female friendships
- dark academia-esque

When I received the pitch for this one, I was so excited. This book has everything I usually seek out: a thriller with strong female characters. I am absolutely obsessed with the cover; I knew I’d be hitting the widget link the moment I saw it.

I am saddened to report that I did not jive with this book at all. I found it slow and repetitive and did not make it past 12% either time I tried to read it. I will not be recommending to my followers.