I went certifiably feral when I noticed I got approved for this in netgalley. My most anticipated romance novel for the last half of the year and my lord it did not disappoint!!!

Lovingly dubbed “The Milf Book,” Mistakes Were Made is the unlikely love story between Cassie, a college senior who is best friends with Acacia and Parker, and Erin, a supposed-to-be one night stand who just so happens to be the mom of aforementioned best friend Parker. After meeting in a bar and hitting it off, they hook up knowing they’ll never see each other again. The next morning Parker asks Cassie to join her at brunch with her mom, Erin, who happens to be the woman she hooked up with not twelve hours prior. The rest of the story is dual POV with Cassie and Erin deciding if what they feel for each other is real or if it was just a fling that they need to put behind them.

I really enjoyed this book! I love the cast of characters so much. Most of it felt like I was just reading about old friends but I wish we had slightly more bulk to their personalities. I would kill for spin offs of Acacia and Parker! The way they interacted was some of my favorite character interactions ever in a book. It felt familiar and comfortable and it was super enjoyable to read.

My biggest issue is that it felt a bit too long for as little substance as there was. I love a good, fluffy romance so I’m not knocking a book with a shallower plot. My problem was a quantity over quality one. A good chunk of the exposition felt kind of dry and like it was just there so the whole book wasn’t straight up erotica. It felt like the plot was written in a way that didn’t add to the plot, just got us to the next sex scene. Speaking of sex scenes, like I said before, I feel like there was an issue of amount of scenes vs quality of them. At some point it felt redundant to describe Cassie “entering” Erin. Again. The ratio of meaningful plot that adds to the story to good, steamy sex scenes was off but it was such a fun read that it didn’t stop me from completing and enjoying the book.

I was also sent the audiobook and thought the voice actors did a great job bringing Cassie and Erin to life! I would switch between listening and reading and particularly enjoyed Cassie’s voice actor.

Overall, I really loved all the characters and their dynamics with each other, I was rooting for Cassie to be able to keep Parker as a bestie and keep dating Erin the entire book, and even though I wish the book as a whole were a bit more full bodied, it was great. Solid 4.5⭐️ rounded up!

CW for explicit sexual content

Mistakes Were Made is Disaster Bisexuals: The Novel, and I love it. It's equal parts sweet and spicy with characters who shouldn't work together, but totally do. Definitely worth a listen.

4.5 stars

I really enjoyed Wilsner's _Something to Talk about_, so I was thrilled to read this latest queer romance from this author. It is another great read!

Erin and Cassie share perspectives and a whole lot of other stuff (including but not limited to great sex and emotional connections) in this engaging and speedy effort. Their meet cute turns meet cringe when - after a steamy intended one-off (do with that what you will) in the opening scene, they reconnect in the most awkward circumstance the very next day. The upside is that this reconnection gives them many opportunities to stay in each other's lives...if they want to do that.

This romance feels like it's being experienced by two aware, reasonable, and relatable individuals. It's also relatively uncomplicated, which is refreshing but also did make me wish for a little more strife at times. What I loved is that the struggle they do encounter does not come in exactly the way readers predict it will. Both characters enjoy reminding readers of exactly what the challenges are in their pairing a little too often (as is so frequently the case, we accept their circumstances before they do), but this reinforcement avoids falling into exhausting repetition.

I was really fortunate to engage with the audio version, and the narrators add a lot. If possible, I recommend readers snag this one.

Wilsner continues to be a favorite for realistic queer characters who have brains and are seeking healthy relationships. I enjoyed this one and am already looking forward to the next!

A reverse age gap, dual POV Sapphic romance between Erin, a divorced single mom, and Cassie, Erin's daughter's best friend. These two meet and hook up in a bar only to discover the next day how they're connected. This trope could have been tricky to get right but I think the author did a good job navigating all the complexities in a believable way. Good on audio too and recommended for fans of authors like Karelia Stetz-Waters. Much thanks to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for early digital copies in exchange for my honest review.