I'm sorry, I cannot finish this story. The religious trauma is the literal front-and-center and it is making me dread picking this up. If you can push through that, I can say the writing is fantastic and the characters are interesting, but the content isn't it for me.

**Thank you NetGalley and Dial Press Trade Paperback for the eARC**

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Soila lives with her mom, her aunts and her grandmom in Kenya. They are from a wealthy family due to her mother's success running a business. Her father died when she was just a little girl and her mother is very controlling of all of them, but especially of Soila. We follow Solia's life as she grows into a teen and then a young adult who moves to New York City to escape her controlling mother. Once she gets to NYC, she meets many friends and loves her new life, but mother is still trying to control her. The rest of the story is about how Soila tries to balance her new life with American ways and her old life and Kenyan traditions. It was an interesting book that made me see things about racism that I didn't realize. I thought the end of it was a bit drawn out but overall I enjoyed this story. Thank you for the advanced copy to read!

I was initially interested in this story due it being a fight for independence from a mother who is also a person of color. I love diversity in my books and this also was a beautiful story.

Although the story is fictional, it reads as if it could be a memoir. The main character, Soila, goes from Kenya to New York City for college. The story focuses on how she tries to integrate the culture of her homeland with American culture, with the further challenge of trying to honor and respect her mother and the values she has instilled while also trying to become her own person, which means questioning or even going against what she has been taught. Particularly interesting was the discussions between her (as an African immigrant) and black American friends about racism and obstacles to advancement by minorities.

The first chapter of Lucky Girl was hard for me to get into, but once the establishing elements were in place, I had difficulty putting this book down. Soila was raised by her highly controlling mother, her aunts, and her grandmother in Nairobi. When it comes time for her to attend college, Soila wants to leave the country and escape her mother’s control. She enrolls in college in New York City in the 1990s, and finds that the reality of life in New York City is very different from what she imagined.

The pacing and character development was excellent. Soila confronts issues and questions that are as relevant today as they would have been in the late 90s. Highly recommend this book for readers who are fans of coming of age stories, books focusing on familial relationships, and those just looking for a compelling way to spend an afternoon or weekend.

I received a copy of this book from the publisher for an honest review.

In many ways, this book felt like a memoir - a journey filled with exploration and resilience and finding peace with oneself. I adored this book and found myself relating to Soila in many ways, even though our lives are vastly different. Soila moves to New York from Kenya to pursue an American college education; I am a native New Yorker. Soila's mother struggles to show the love the feels for her daughter and inadvertently suffocates her daughter in an attempt to keep an iron grip on her; my mother is loving in gentle yet fierce ways and understands the need to let go. Soila is given rigid parameters of success when it comes to relationships and careers; I am encouraged to pursue happiness and fulfillment on my own terms.

However, I deeply resonated with Soila's struggles to navigate the world at a WPI such as Columbia and the various interpersonal and familial trauma she experiences throughout her life. I greatly appreciate the discourse and insight into cultural differences and how finding one's identity within unfamiliar terrains is shaped by the complexities of these cultural differences, Soila's growing pains made me ache in a familiar way, and the crossroads she finds herself at between honoring her homeland while yearning for a future on her terms is a dilemma all to familiar to me, immigrants, and children of immigrants worldwide. It felt like my own redemption when she is finally able to be at peace with the life she has created, a blend of her cultural roots and the future she has dreamed of.

Thank you to Netgalley and Random House for this ARC!

I was pleasantly surprised at how good this book was! I haven't read anything by this author before and I will be looking for more books from her! I would definitely recommend this book.

Although the story is fictional, it reads as if it could be a memoir. The main character, Soila, goes from Kenya to New York City for college. The story focuses on how she tries to integrate the culture of her homeland with American culture, with the further challenge of trying to honor and respect her mother and the values she has instilled while also trying to become her own person, which means questioning or even going against what she has been taught. Particularly interesting was the discussions between her (as an African immigrant) and black American friends about racism and obstacles to advancement by minorities.

Soila was raised by a strict mom who ruled the actions of her and her aunties in Kenya. To create her own distinctive life, she moves to the US for college. But she still listens to her mom's voice and studies business rather than photography. She even dates men her mom would approve of. Until one day she must decide if she's going to truly go her own way or remain in her mother's grasp.
I appreciated the insights into one Kenyan family's life. The discussions about race were also somewhat interesting.
I couldn't connect emotionally with Soila or any of the other characters, though. And some of the content is preachy.

I loved this book-- it was really meaningful as a survivor of a lot of trauma and did a good job entangling cultural influences into those events, if that makes sense.

For whatever reason, this was not on the top of my books to read...hence why I'm reviewing it now rather than 7 months earlier!
While I did not love the book as much as I was hoping to, I also didn't hate the book. If that makes sense. I did feel as if the book was a little all over the place to me and that the ending was rushed. Amost like it was a good book but the author started running out of time and decided to wrap things up as quickly as possible. Not that the ending was bad, but it did leave me with a lot of unanswered questions.

Thank you again to NetGalley for the ARC

Lucky Girl by Irene Muchemi-Ndiritu is not just a book; it's a journey, a revelation, an awakening. Following Soila's path from the sunbathed streets of Nairobi to the bustling avenues of New York in the 1990s, this book is an odyssey of resilience and self-discovery.

Soila is a symphony of strength, her spirit unyielding like a lighthouse steadfast in stormy seas. Raised in a conservative household, she clashes with her mother's rigid ideals. However, her world turns upside down following a traumatic experience, propelling her to seek refuge in the unfamiliar terrains of New York. This city, far from the golden dreamland she envisioned, confronts her with harsh realities – the stark divide between wealth and poverty, and the raw, unfiltered face of racial injustice.

As Soila navigates this new world, her journey is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Muchemi-Ndiritu crafts a narrative that's as much about finding one's identity as it is about understanding the complexities of a world divided by cultural lines. It's a coming-of-age story that resonates with anyone who's ever searched for their place in the world.

Soila's romance with a free-spirited artist adds another layer to her saga. It's a crossroads between honoring her cultural roots and embracing a future she yearns to create. 'Lucky Girl' is a mirror reflecting the dilemmas faced by immigrants, torn between the land of their birth and the land they grow to love.

Honestly, Lucky Girl feels like a love letter to every young woman carving her path in the world. It's a story that's as much about the places we come from as it is about the places we go. Irene Muchemi-Ndiritu, in her fierce and tender debut, invites us to contemplate the lives and loves we choose and the indomitable spirit of a young African immigrant at the turn of the millennium. READ IT!!!!!

Thank you so so much to Random House Publishing Group - Random House and NetGalley for the advanced reading copy in exchange for my honest review.

I will be honest, I don't think this book fits the description it comes with. I expected it to be a little bit lighter than it was, and much of the emphasis was placed on the 90s setting and nostalgia, where there was almost none to speak of.

That being said, I loved it. I was deeply affected by the racial over and undertones, I learned a lot and was truly invested in the love story at its center. I just think the description could have been a bit more spot on.

Lucky Girl by Irene Muchemi-Ndiritu is a tender and evocative debut. It's a coming of age story that covers themes of immigration, identity, and belonging. I'll look to read more from the author in the future.

Many thanks to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for sharing this book with me. All thoughts are my own.

What a wonderful novel. Soila shares her entire life with the reader—her heartbreaks (and omg there are so many), her coming of age and beginning to make her own decisions, her assimilation into a foreign culture, her struggle with the differentiation between Black (mixed), Black American, and Black African, and how each sees being Black in America, and what the history of oppression means to each. We also see a guy-wrenching perspective on 9/11, how she tries to find love, and every way that love is tested when a parent gets sick.

She is both a lovable and hateable character, and sometimes I wanted to thump her in the head for her decisions. But it was a wonderful book, the writing was almost lyrical.

What a poignant, meaningful, thoughtful book about family, relationships and culture.
The characters are so well developed. The plot follows Soila as she has to make life altering decisions and we get to accompany her on her journey to self discovery. Loved it.
Thankful for the ARC

Without saying too much this book is also about survival about trying hard and fighting for what you are and believing even if an entire country or culture wants to erase your story or not let you shine..

this book was a mood swing i spent most of the time feeling sad for the main character and what she was going through but at some times I felt like she was empowering


Thank you, NetGalley and Random House Publishing Group - Random House, Dial Press Trade Paperback, for the advanced copy of Lucky Girl in exchange for my honest review.

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! No spoilers. Beyond amazing I enjoyed this book so very much. The characters and storyline were fantastic. The ending I did not see coming Could not put down nor did I want to. Truly Amazing and appreciated the whole story. This is going to be a must read for many many readers. Maybe even a book club pick.

This coming of age story was a welcomed break from my normal reads. It was hard to get into, but I soon found myself rooting for a happy ending. With many characters to keep track of it felt like not all their plots were fully developed. The characters emotions were described in such a way that the reader does not feel them, it is just words on the page. The ending felt rush, and as if the happy ending was forced.

I want to thank Netgalley and Dial Press Trade Paperback for an ARC of this book.