Talking about Sex, even with sexual partners, seems to be a bit taboo.  I have had guys surprised I want to discuss things before we dive in, but I have found that discussing things beforehand and both of you being able to manage expectations of what is going to happen and what is and isn't on the table makes for a much more enjoyable time.  The book definitely touched on that so it seems like I am on the right track in wanting to talk things through but even takes it to the next level with a lot of quizzes about different things to find out where you and your partner may differ on things like what turns you on and how you feel about how sex is initiated in the relationship.  The author even has her partner talk about his side of things as well and how things aren't always wild and kinky in their sex life and how they have had to work through their own issues in the bedroom as well.  Definitely a must read for anyone in a sexual relationship.

I received a free e-copy of this book in order to write this review, I was not otherwise compensated.

10/10 I can not recommend this enough. I swear it's changed the way I look and perceive sex. There's so much in this book that shows you how normal you actually are. And that other couples are going though the same issues or similar ones as you. Definitely helped break the stigma for me when it comes to discussing sex. If you have ever struggled with sex, this is a must-read. You don't even need a partner to take in all that there is in this book!

Thanks to Simon Element for the free book.
If you don't know, these authors run a popular Instagram page where they talk about relationships - with a focus on intimacy and sex. This book will be great for couple who feel like they need or want guidance on how to be more open with their partner when it comes to communicating about sex. This book explores many different facets of this topic to help people to better understand themselves and also to work together to better communicate about sex/intimacy with their partner. I do think this book will benefit the people who need help with communication around this topic. If you're already pretty open with your partner, there may be a few or a lot of nuggets you walk away with, but a reenforcement of what you already do could benefit you, too. I do applaud this couple for opening up these topics and making it less taboo so everyone can experience more satisfaction.

This book gives no nonsense advice on how to open up the “sex” conversation with your partner(s). I follow Vanessa and Xander on social media and the same laid back style that they have on IG comes through in this book. I like that Xander provides the male perspective. There are stories from others that you might be able to relate to. I’d recommend this book to anyone that needs a little help discussing a topic that sometimes causes cringe moments.

Straightforward, down to earth, and inclusive advice that nearly everyone could benefit from. I love that the authors keep it real and don’t take themselves too seriously. I also found the scenarios from past patients both interesting and helpful.

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin presents a thorough, well-organized look into how communication breakdowns in relationships can lead to a lack of physical and/or emotional intimacy. By providing clear outlines for how partners can approach difficult topics related to sex, Marin effectively breaks down barriers for conversations that are often seen as culturally taboo. But the heart of the matter remains: if you are having sex, you should be able to talk about sex with your partner! This book will help readers plan conversations, work through the anxiety, and potentially repair intimate connections.

Thank you to NetGalley for supplying an ARC.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the advanced copy!

Enjoyed this book a lot. Definitely gave me a lot of ideas for how to approach conversations with future partners, and helped me to reflect on some of my past relationships as well. The advice and suggestions were down-to-earth and realistic, and the book was inclusive of different types of experiences and relationships. There’s such a stigma and shame around talking about sex in our society still, and I’m so glad books like this one are coming forward to help smash those barriers.

Sex Talks is an excellent book written by sex therapists in an effort to improve readers' sex lives. The idea is that every couple should have five conversations to truly have the sex of their wildest dreams. The authors go into each of the conversations, why it is helpful to have, and how to have the conversation more easily. Highly recommended!

Its difficult to really write a review of this? But I read this and really enjoyed the perspective. The author duo are both sex therapists so it was a good perspective!

I had no idea what to expect when I received this ARC but was pleasantly surprised how invested I became in the words of Marin. Marin takes a very culturally taboo topic and addresses how you can actually communicate your needs to your partner. Most sexual issues are a result of a lack of communication but after reading this practical book. She breaks it down into 5 conversations that are a must in order to prioritize the best sex life imaginable. Marin even discusses how to keep the fires burning when you feel as if the flame has long been burned out. A must-read for all who are in a sexual rut and those who are fearful they may be headed in that direction.

I believe every relationship needs this book. Sex is the foundation of a good romantic relationship, and being able to have meaningful discussions about it, and what you or your partner thinks/needs, is extremely important. So important, but no one really has ever taught us how - until now. This book will be my go-to book for my own life, and I will definitely be buying this for all my friends! Thank you to the publisher!

Despite how much sex permeates our culture, we don’t often have open discussions about it. Yet, so much of having a fulfilling, healthy sex life comes from communication outside of the bedroom.

Sex Talks proposes 5 lines of dialogue every couple should have about sex, in the areas of connection, acknowledgment, desire, pleasure, and exploration. Written by a sex therapist + her husband, they really peel back the layers of vulnerability, but also provide a lot of structure and practical insight into how these conversations can be applied or had in your life. A great mix of theory and practice.

Thanks to @netgalley + @_simonelement for the review copy!