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Last to Eat, Last to Learn

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Pashtana is an inspiration to all!! With her father, she fought for her right to be educated and for other girls as well!! Pashtana shares how the outside solutions did not work and focused on local real change. The dangerous conditions and genuine fight for education reminds all how valuable education is to changing the world.

Pashtana is still young and has already gone on to start a non-profit and attended Oxford. I hope to hear more about her peace work and advocacy in the coming years. We are the same age and I cannot wait to follow her through the years!

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I can wholeheartedly recommend for everyone to read this book, it is important for us all to be reminded of the plight of Afghani women - & hopefully, to then find a way to do our bit to help them. Although I have read other books on the subject, there was still more to learn here (I never visualised palaces in Afghanistan! Or learning Hindi via television...) It is very well-written, & should come with a warning : allow enough time to read it in one sitting, as you will not want to put it down! (I even found myself reading it to my husband - & he listened!!) I don’t know how Pashtana Durrani kept her sense of humour throughout, but she is also a woman of utmost courage – truly her father’s daughter. 5 stars plus, for an exceptional book which really spoke to my heart.

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This review will be posted on March 2, 2024 to: https://instagram.com/amandas.bookshelf

This is an amazing memoir of resilience and determination, coupled with an account of growing up a third generation refugee. (Let that sink into your head: three generations of refugees.) Durrani was raised to see her own inherent worth as a girl and woman. Her father was devoted to her and the cause of girls education. This memoir spins a tapestry of childhood reminisces, geopolitics, and Afghan culture. As a teen she turned her back on Oxford so she could start @learn.afg by delivering curriculum to rural girls on tablets. Pashtana Durrani is a remarkable human. (When she virtually met with a cohort of @reeatablishrichmond volunteers that included myself in June 2021, I had no idea she'd recently lost her beloved father to COVID nor that she was in the process of securing herself as the interim khan of her tribe until her bother was of age. She was doing all this while still running LEARN and living in hiding from the Taliban.) Do be sure to add this to your TBR and keep up with her work. (Peep my stories and link in bio to learn how to donate to LEARN's GoFundMe!) #LastToEatLastToLearn Rating: 😍 / loved it

This book is scheduled for publication on January 23, 2024. Thank you Citadel and @kensingtonbooks for providing me this digital ARC via @NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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What amazing story how this woman named pnamed PASHTA. Had to come over a lot of different obstacles in her life. Her father was a tribe leader , but he believed in education for the women in the family.. The girls in Pakistan and the refugee camp from Afghanistan were not allowed to go to school. And what shocked me the most was? There were not even allowed to have food. The men and the boys had to eat first. It was a very hard life for these girls. But her father insisted she would go to school. There came a lot of obstacles and she went to private schools which was very unheard of. She was offered a scholarship to go to oxford and she said no , she wanted to go to afghanistan. She had to get grants and stuff and she started a program for Girls through the digital and help pay for the Teachers To help then learn. This was pretty remarkable especially when her father died. The uncle's came in and took everything but she became the tribal leader through perseverance. This woman showed a lot of courage and helped other girls and women succeed in a very male dominant society. She was also a great letter and complaining as well. And her life sometimes was at risk. This book should be read in schools to show how much education is so important to people. Especially when you cannot go to school because you're a girl. I learned a lot this book about how tribal and how people depend on each other. Her grandmother was very pioneering as well. She left her husband and took the children with her. She had servants and everything, but she became a maid and saved money to send her children to school as well.. These women have a lot of courage to do what they had to do. And this is remarkable in a man's society.

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As Miss Durrani leads us through her life, I find a heartwarming family that embrace love and education for everyone and that kindness and helping others was their goal. After Pashtana Durrani described the risk and strength her father had not only in his own life but in helping others, it made me wish that he would have lived long enough to watch his daughter succeed, but I think he still did. I also think that what she learn from her family was perseverance and doing whatever it takes to succeed, good for her. However, I was a little on her mother side when she didn't go to Oxford for an education, thinking that staying in Afghanistan would help her be closer to the women she wanted to help. I wondered the how many connections she would have made if she went to Oxford and if it would have made her mission more successful and not so hard.

I liked how she took us on her journey from the refugee camps to parts of Afghanistan and Pakistan and what she had to do to complete her education and find a way to start her mission in life., it is very colorful and descriptive. I was very impressed when the elders of her tribe chose her to succeed her father as elder until her brother came of age, and it must have given her a wonderful feeling.

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"Last to Eat, Last to Learn: My Life in Afghanistan Fighting to Educate Women" by Pashtana Durrani, with Tamara Bralo, is a powerful and poignant memoir that offers a deeply personal look into the struggles and triumphs of advocating for women's education in Afghanistan. Pashtana Durrani, a relentless advocate for female education, shares her journey with raw honesty and courage, painting a vivid picture of the challenges faced by women and girls in a country torn by conflict and oppressive regimes.

Durrani's narrative is both inspiring and heart-wrenching, providing insight into the resilience and determination required to pursue the cause of education in the face of overwhelming obstacles. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of education and the impact that one individual's unwavering commitment can have on their community and beyond. Through her eyes, readers gain a nuanced understanding of the cultural and political complexities of Afghanistan, especially regarding gender roles and education.

Co-author Tamara Bralo plays a crucial role in bringing Durrani's experiences to a broader audience, skillfully weaving together Durrani's personal reflections with broader socio-political context. The collaboration between Durrani and Bralo ensures that the narrative remains accessible without diminishing the gravity of the issues discussed. Their partnership enables the book to resonate with a wide range of readers, from those familiar with the plight of Afghan women to those new to the subject.

"Last to Eat, Last to Learn" does more than just recount Durrani's life story; it serves as a call to action, highlighting the urgent need for support and solidarity with women fighting for their rights and education worldwide. The memoir is not only a personal account but also a critical commentary on the international community's role in advocating for and supporting women's education in conflict zones.

The book's title itself encapsulates the core message: in many societies, women and girls are often the last to receive resources and opportunities, including education. Durrani's work challenges this status quo, advocating for a world where women are given the priority they deserve in all aspects of life, including learning.

In conclusion, "Last to Eat, Last to Learn: My Life in Afghanistan Fighting to Educate Women" is an essential read that sheds light on the courage and perseverance of women in Afghanistan. Pashtana Durrani's story is a powerful reminder of the ongoing struggle for women's rights and education in the face of adversity. It is a moving tribute to the spirit of Afghan women and a compelling call for global awareness and action.

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Well written about how Pashtana wants to educate and provide women in Afghanistan which always concluded as people who "Last to Eat, Last to Learn". Many sacrifices she made and gone through. I think one of them that brought me into liking this book is the way she wrote her emotions so 'raw'. Also, as a person living in a third world country, I can somehow relate to the situation, although the situation I experienced is nothing compared to what Pashtana's has had experienced.

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I was floored by the courage, ingenuity, and huge-hearted action taken by Pashtana Durrani in LAST TO EAT, LAST TO LEARN in securing education for women in Afghanistan. Offered the rare opportunity to leave Afghanistan for advanced studies, Durrani chose instead to remain in her repressive, controlling culture to work for other women to be given the same chance to study, to learn, to think for themselves as she was given by her loving father. I was inspired, taken aback, and roused to cheering the incredible journey undertaken by a young woman with a passion for education and leadership in her country. This book might well be under consideration for high school students taking for granted the hard-won victories of Durrani in securing learning for women. I received a copy of this book and these thoughts are my own, unbiased opinions.

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Wow!!! I loved this book. Pashtana Durrani is such an inspirational woman!! I highly recommend this book!! I will pray for her fight to educate girls and women in Afghanistan becomes a reality. We need more humans like her dad and herself.

Thank you so so much Netgalley, authors and Kensington Books for my arc!!!

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A super interesting book, and such an important story! Grateful to have been given an opportunity to read it.

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Pashtana Durrani weaves her narrative through the conflict, societal norms, hierarchy, and powerful tribal system, navigating the cultural heritage. All this while fully conscious that in her home country, women come last in every aspect of society. I cannot explain how inspiring it is to see her resist, fearless, and hell-bent on to revolt. Actually, through this book, Pashtana is reclaiming everything she holds dear and rightfully hers: the women’s right to education, their right to marry, vote, speak publicly, own property, own a business, or rule.
Her perceptions about the society she is a part of her resistance to tone-deaf policies, and her educational strategies, evolving with the needs and changing dynamics of the region are awe-inspiring. She is not only providing learning tools to help raise her fellow Afghan women and girls, but she has a vision to make education accessible, and she is committed to it, even if that means defying logic, safety, and individual benefits.
I recommend everyone to read this book. It will give you a perspective about Afghanistan you never knew you needed. Also, this book should be translated into regional languages, e.g. Urdu, Pashto, and Farsi (Persian). Highly recommended.

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I would love to interview Pashtana and Tamara on my podcast. I enjoyed reading this nonfiction book about Malala.

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A girl + a part of the world that we do not know much about + education as liberation in its simplest form + a supportive father and a family united.... in a nutshell a heart touching story of a young person going against the odds, against a personal future that was set up for success, and instead taking a path to make a difference to so many lives. When I read such books it really makes me think about how I, and how each of us, is really creating an impact in our spaces. It was a good read, it is well written and relatable.

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Thank you Netgalley and the publishers for this ARC for an exchange for an honest review.

Wow great book, Highly recommend it.

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I received a copy of this book through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

This is an interesting autobiography of Pashtana Durrani and her experience bringing education to women across Afghanistan. She shares her own life and experience with education and why education is important to her. She talks about the role her father played in her educational life and how he helped bring similar experiences to other women and girls. The book ends a bit abruptly which I didn't expect, but overall it's an informative and captivating read.

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After recently rereading I Am Malala, I found this book really interesting as it touches on more recent Pakistani and Afghan history. Very well written and informative which is what you hope from a book such as this one

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Last to Eat, Last to Learn: My Life in Afghanistan Fighting to Educate Women,
By Pashtana Durrani and Tamara Bralo.
Thank you to Citadel Press and NetGalley for an advance reader’s copy of this book.

With honesty and drama, this inspiring account by a young Afghan woman activist focuses on two major concerns of the modern world: refugees and girls’ education in non-Western societies. It is also a love letter to the author’s father, whose progressive, often heroic, views and actions paved the way for her life’s work.

Unlike many grass roots activists, Pashtana Durrani came from the richest family in her refugee town. Her father was the tribal leader of their Pashtun clan. Living in the largest house adjacent to the Afghan refugee camp in Quetta, Pakistan, he used two rooms as a school for girls from the camp. Service to community was a prime value for him. He succeeded almost too well: his eldest child, Pashtana, gave up a scholarship at Oxford in order to commit herself to educating Afghan girls in rural communities.

By her late teens she had founded a non-governmental organization, LEARN, and by her early twenties she had attained an almost unprecedented role of authority in her tribal clan, the largest in Afghanistan. All were left behind when she had to flee the Taliban’s takeover in 2021.

These simple sentences cannot reflect the effort, skill, and introspection that helped her towards success and that have kept her committed to her mission, despite political events that have overturned her world. Nor do they reflect her insight about her stubborn and often headstrong approach to her work, which she wryly acknowledges.

One must travel with her through this book, sharing her struggles and triumphs, to understand and appreciate what she already has contributed to women’s education and health among the poorest of refugees. Her future is uncertain as is that of her beloved Afghanistan. One hopes she will find more ways to help women, girls, and her country, and that she will share them with us.

This would be a fine book for discussion of women's issues, current world events, and leadership.

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More than anything, this memoir is the story of a daughter, her parents, and the people she comes to.value most. Sometimes doing the right thing hurts. Sometimes becoming the person you are meant to be hurts. And sometimes, listening to your ancestors makes you strong enough to pursue the difficult path.

"I imagined my father saying with a smile, "See? I told you. All it takes is one woman and you can trun things around.'"

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Thank you so much to NetGalley, the publisher, and the author for allowing me to review this powerful book. This non-fiction book is incredible! It is so empowering and inspirational. Education is so important and this book details such an incredible story of fighting for women’s rights to education in Afghanistan. I learned so much and I am so grateful to the author for writing this book. I highly recommend everyone read this! Thank you again for allowing me to review this moving book.

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This is an insider's view of the Afghanistan and Pakistan border, by a third generation refugee girl, who found Pakistanis called her an Afghani and Afghan people called her Pakistani. Also because she was from a tribal family, city people looked down on her anyway. The real hero comes across as being her father, a big-hearted man of means who happened to have girl children before a boy, and so gave his time and resources to the growing girls. He showed the author how to meet the people in his tribe and care about their problems, speak up for them and help them.

Having been educated at home and schools, the author found it hard to explain to patriarchs why they would be interested in educating girls and women. The obvious answers to give - that women run the home and it's safer if they can read, plus they will educate both boys and girls at home - took her three months to find.

With some unusual choices, and heart-stopping moments - a bomb, deaths, the regular sound of gunfire in Kabul, sitting on a still plane for six hours waiting to get out of the country - the author fought bureaucracy and endemic corruption to bring education to girls in their homes. She's brave and determined, and while I hadn't heard of her, I don't use facebook or twitter so others probably have. The story is well written and highly readable. NGOs should read this book and learn the lessons exposed. For instance, stop funding school building when the locals blow up the buildings and girls are not allowed to go outdoors anyway. Distribute pre-loaded solar powered tablets. Great solution.

I read this e-ARC book from Net Galley. This is an unbiased review.

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