I'm afraid I found this dreary and too much of a struggle to finish. The narrative voice lacks character, the whole dysfunctional family thing is such a well-established trope that it needs something to make it feel fresh or different and this one didn't manage that. This may work better for fans of family sagas than fans of litfic - just not for me.

"The Dinner Party" revolves around Kate, who is in her mid-30s and living in Dublin. When the book opens, she decides to host a dinner party to commemorate the death of her twin sister. This event becomes a catalyst for unveiling a multitude of family secrets and past tragedies, highlighting the intricate relationships and unresolved issues within her family. While I initially found it interesting, the narrative structure threw me off with its fragmented shifts in place and time, making it difficult to piece together the story. There were other issues, as well. For this reason, I decided to DNF the book.

Had a hard time getting into this one, so DNF'd pretty early on. It wasn't a quick paced thriller like I was hoping it would be... one of those books where a whole lot doesn't happen which I don't always mind but not what I wanted in this case.

I couldn't really get on with this one, there was something about the way it was written that didn't gel with me, maybe I should've stuck with it a bit longer but it wasn't really my sort of book, although it sounded like it was from the cover.

Review: Dinner Party ★ ★ ★ ★ ☆
Author: Sarah Gilmartin
Publication Date: 07 March 2023
Publisher: Pushkin Press
General Fiction (Adult) | Literary Fiction | Women's Fiction

I received this book from Sarah Gilmartin and Pushkin Press, as an advanced eArc for my honest review any opinions that come from this review are my own. Thank you to both the Author and the publisher and Netgalley for allowing me to read and review this book.

This was a nice and easy read for me. The author kept me engaged the whole time I was reading. The story itself provided real-life situations that I could relate to. I see a lot of reviews saying it was slow-paced I didn't think it was it was paced nicely for me. It was a page-turner dripping with family drama and I ate it up.

Unfortunately this wasn't for me.
A bit of a "non-novel", nothing really "happens" if you know what I mean.
The story didn’t resonate with me at all. It lacks... something

I was lucky to receive an advance copy of Dinner Party by Sarah Gilmartin from NetGalley and the publisher in exchange for my honest review and opinion. I had a bit of a struggle reading this as it was a bit slow moving but I did stick with it and am glad I did. It turned out to be a really good book and I was pleased with the ending. Don't give up! It's worth the read.

I was delighted to be approved to read this book but sadly it ended up not being a book for me. I think perhaps it may be a case of right book wrong time as it seems like everything I should enjoy in a book but I just couldn't connect with it. I would try another book by this author in the future and I may well come back to this one but for now I unfortunately couldn't finish it.

A fantastic read that had me hooked all the way through, it is an absolutely gripping read. Be warned if you are going to read this book set aside a day or two because you won't be able to put it down

Sarah Gilmartin's "Dinner Party" is a family drama that starts with a disastrous reunion dinner hosted by Kate to commemorate her deceased twin sister's anniversary. Unfortunately, her mother couldn't make it. Kate's brothers and sister-in-law argue and criticize each other, causing her to feel even more fragile as her well-planned event falls apart.

Based on the title alone – Dinner Party: A Tragedy – I thought Sarah Gilmartin’s debut novel would be exactly my thing. Unfortunately it wasn’t.

To mark the anniversary of the death of her twin sister, Elaine, Kate meticulously plans a dinner party for her family. However, before dessert can be served, old tensions flare, revealing strained relationships.

The story then rewinds to Ireland in the nineties, when the family was complete – Kate’s parents, Elaine, and her two older brothers. We learn that her mother is an extremely demanding and narcissistic person, who presents one way to the world, and another way to her family.

When Kate’s father dies, and then Elaine, those remaining each deal with their grief differently.

First her father and then her sister – two deaths in one family in a matter of years. You didn’t come back from that. Hereabouts they were no longer the Gleesons, but the poor Gleesons.

Gilmartin focuses predominantly on the relationship between Kate and her mother, with Kate painfully aware that she will never meet her mother’s expectations.

Her mother resented her being alive, and resented her claim on Elaine too. A child’s mother misses them most of all. She had said that to Kate… Her mother had told her to stop monopolizing the pain.

Although the idea of ‘who owns the grief’ is interesting, it was poorly executed, with the addition of distracting subplots (an eating disorder and an ill-fated affair for Kate). As a result, the threads of the various subplots peter-out rather than being resolved in a satisfying way.

My biggest issue with this book was the superfluous detail and, once I noticed the excess, it was everywhere. Felt like I was playing whack-a-mole but with flowery sentences. For example –

…the desk was a glossy, public prison of faux botanical hell. Although her boss Anthony loved to drum the marble counter when he came out to meet clients, to Kate it was just a cold, expensive piece of rock with the ghost of a thousand fingertips. And the stains! The cappuccino froth and ink marks – and once, a baby’s vomit – that tarnished the marble so quickly, so permanently if you didn’t catch them in time, each one noted in the imaginary but extremely real report card that Anthony kept hidden behind his eyes.

and

In the centre of the table, the rice was in a ceramic bowl with a clear glass lid.

and

A blister on her heel was flapping, half-open, a glimpse of ruby.

There were dozens of other examples but essentially united by either imagery being icky (baby vomit, blisters…) or too many words (glass is usually clear… but what does it matter about the rice, anyway?).

I received my copy of Dinner Party: A Tragedy from the publisher, Pushkin Press, via NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review.

1.5/5

I found this story of a dysfunctional family relatively enjoyable and certainly pleasant enough to carry on with, but it really didn’t seem to amount to very much in the end. It covers some weighty themes – anorexia, the loss of a twin, controlling mothers, grief and loss – but failed to bring anything new or fresh to the subjects, no new insights. I kept feeling that maybe I’d read it before (I hadn’t, I had to check) because I’ve read such similar tropes in so many other novels. So not terrible just not very good.

A well written character-driven family saga, “The Dinner Party” is a sad story of layers of grief within Kate’s family and the life long impacts on self and relationships of childhood trauma. Family should be a place of safety and solace. Kate craves this desperately but her experiences of family in the current timeline is tinged with tensions and unspoken (and spoken) competition with family members about who is grieving the most. Kate’s grief is all encompassing to her physical and mental health. And I was compelled to read on to see how she processes it. Whilst slower in pace than I normally enjoy, there was plenty in the characters to keep the pages turning. Thank you to the publisher and Netgalley for the advance copy.

Brilliant stunning book and the author is just the best. I found the characters relatable and loveable and loath able too!! Thanks for sharing early

Absolutely loved this book!

Sarah you are amazing!

I was hooked throughout and couldn't put this book down.

Thank you for accepting my ARC request

This book SOUNDED so good. The synopsis pulled me in. Unfortunately, the actual story did not seem to line up with the synopsis at all. There was nothing twisty or thrilling about the book. I gave up before the halfway point, and I rarely DNF books. I felt nothing at all for the main character and found the storytelling very disjointed. I had high hopes, but this one missed the mark for me.

I’m finding writing a review for this book a bit complicated. I always love family drama stories and this one is good but it is very slow. This story is about an extremely dysfunctional family that has a lot of mental health issues which affects the family dynamics over two generations. While I appreciate the seriousness of these issues it really made it hard to keep a good pacing throughout the story. I enjoyed that the book is in current day plus back to when the adult children in the family were little. Overall this is a good book but it definitely takes a while to get to the final chapter.

What did I just read? This book felt very drawn out and quite boring. I really struggled to finish it at all.

This book was a mess. The writing was sloppy and the story was not flowing. I also believed that the story was about a dinner party, but it just started with the disastruous dinner party with very rude guests and it got on my nerves the way they were treating the host, and the host seemed to keep apologizing for being the way she was. I had to DNF it. Sorry.

Really liked this book about a dysfunctional mother and her family, coping with the deaths of two family members with yearly gatherings. Each family member is coping as best they can with the dysfunctionalism they’re experiencing each day.