I will definitely be recommending this book to friends and book groups! It is thoroughly realistic, so even as readers are enjoying the book, they will sometimes cringe and other times laugh as the author captures college dorm life, young adults struggling to figure out where they fit in and who they want to be, heightened by Southern dialect and some not-always-good behavior. These college students are appalled at people who are “all old and thirty-eight or whatever.”

While there are diverse characters of all ages, there’s also a variety of motivations for snarky comments, rude behavior and uncaring attitudes: there's greed, physical longing, loneliness, and also - sadly- that pathetic sense of privilege. Set mainly on the campus of University of Arkansas, the plot revolves around Millie, one of the older R.A.s in a dorm. I was enjoying Millie’s interactions so much that I was temporarily a little disappointed around page 63 when the book’s emphasis switched to writer and part-time college instructor Agatha. However, Agatha’s career path intersected with Millie’s; I was pulled back in to the novel and read non-stop to the end. This novel kept my attention as characters waded through some awkward but believable situations. Not quite a 5 ⭐️for me but very close so I rounded up. There are no perfect people in this book, and one’s sympathies will fluctuate as people say “oh bless your heart” and then show with their behavior that they couldn’t care less about that person they had just addressed. Y’all come on and read this!

I really enjoyed the campus setting for this novel, which was a less plot-driven than Reid's debut was, and was more focused on the cast of characters and the stories that made them the way they are. I did at times feel it was meandering in directions I didn't need to advance the story, and the ending gave me some pause, but I am still thinking about the characters days after finishing this novel, and questioning their choices and outcomes.

Come and Get It is a gripping story about things happening within a specific dorm at college. I found all of the characters compelling, but that the plot moved slowly. The phonetics of the accent were an amazing touch as well.

Thanks to the publisher for an early copy through NetGallery. I found Come and Get It compulsively readable. It rides a perfect line of cringe and sincere that hit just right with me. Kiley Reid’s writing is fast paced and thought provoking. Other reviewers critiqued a lack of plot, However, I could have spent even more time eavesdropping on the lives of these college students. I thought the characters had depth, flaws, and some were endlessly frustrating. Overall, I thought this was another great book from Reid and I look forward to her next one.

I’m pretty neutral on this book. There were parts I enjoyed, such as learning the backstories of each character and seeing some growth and development from Millie. There were parts that could’ve been handled better, such as the climax and Kennedy’s character. I feel that if Reid had focused on fewer characters, the little plot that was given would have landed much harder. Instead, I didn’t feel connected enough to the people who turned out to matter. Tyler was a main point throughout the story, but we didn’t ever really learn much about her and she didn’t seem to matter much in the end. I enjoyed the wittiness and I can see how this could’ve been a smash hit for me - but it fell a bit flat.

Thank you to the author and publisher for providing an advanced copy through Netgalley.

There is barely a whisper of plot in this book that otherwise focuses on the mostly internal ambitions of a cast of characters of varying likeability. HOWEVER, Reid’s writing is just that compelling. I’m convinced no one except Reid could evoke an undergraduate dorm in such a particular and unsettling way. She perfectly captures the anxiety of being young and the attendant fear of making mistakes, or worse, being the least liked person in the room.

I don’t think there was really anyone that I was rooting for. I’m not sure if I think anything about it? But I loved her last one so so much, so maybe it just wasn’t the right time to read it. It was just ok to me.

Very character driven but other than that the plot just isn’t there. Not too impressed with this one.

I’ve seen mixed reviews for this one, but I really enjoyed it. This is a very character-driven novel with well-developed distinctive and engaging voices. It’s slower paced with the plot really only truly moving forward in the final section but filled with social commentary, ethical dilemmas, race and power dynamics, exploitation, and, yes, laugh out loud humor.

I really enjoyed the shrewd look into dorm and campus life in a southern college town. And if you’re wondering about the cover, it’s a reference to the mascot for the University of Arkansas, the razorback, which is a hog.

I’m still thinking about these characters and what happened to them next. When a book lingers, for me that’s a sign of one well-written.

My thanks to @putnambooks and @netgalley for the opportunity to read and review this book before its publication date.

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As a former RA myself, I loved this book. There were *several* main characters and many supporting cast; something that I enjoy in a book, although I understand that isn't everyone's cup of tea. I felt that they were all developed really well and showed such interesting and diverse personalities, and I loved that (to me) no one was a clear "hero" or "good guy" or "bad guy"... they were all just very human, making their human decisions and mistakes. Reid has such a nuanced style when dissecting race and sexuality through the characters and the microaggressions that they encounter in their lives.

If it were an option for me timing-wise, I could have easily finished this in a day or two. It was such a great read, and the writing style kept me interested and excited to continue over the course of a (too busy) week.
I haven't read the author's debut, Such A Fun Age, but now I am excited to pick it up!

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I personally found Millie to be such a relatable character... trying to be there for her family, never receiving "allowance", having to work 2+ jobs including being an RA to cover room and board.
I felt it in my bones when I read Tyler say "You guys work here and you're supposed to care about our well-being..."
The feeling of having students who felt like they were truly going through something, receiving stipends and allowance from here and there while working so much for so little, and the expectation that we're supposed to be these students' sort of "fill-in caregivers". It was something that I didn't consider the depth of until years after I finished undergrad (way back in 2012), and this book totally took me right back to that time and the complex feelings around it.

Interesting book. I was so intrigued by the mystery around the characters and their inner dialogue. But this books kinda lost me throughout. There’s too many characters, that are three dimensional but don’t intersect enough. I had a hard time without a thrilling plot driving it and was just disappointed after being so interested at the beginning.

I received an ARC from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
Kylie Reid is an observational genius. I could not get enough of how she described people in this book, weaving in comments and details that made me laugh out loud. Each one drills to the heart of a person, and they balance an acerbic insight with profound truth.

Come & Get It switches among a few main characters, but centered around Millie, a Black college student who had to leave school temporarily to help her family but is now back to finish her senior year and work again as a resident assistant. She takes her job and responsibilities very seriously, and despite having some misgivings about the year, she makes friends, makes money, and starts to feel positive about her future. Her life intersects with Agatha, a white visiting professor and author who teaches creative writing and interviews some of the students on Millie’s

A well-written but emotionally challenging read about women of all ages making poor life choices. Kennedy is a well-meaning but slightly neurotic first-year student with a dreadful accident in her past. Millie is a dutiful RA who finds herself caught up in a passion beyond her control. Tyler is the popular cute girl with a rebellious streak. And Agatha is a visiting researcher who gets tangled in all of their lives, including one relationship that leaps beyond the bounds of ethics.

Reid is a very readable writer. Her characters are unique and believable, and her dialogue realistic and suited to each character. I may not have been the exact target audience for this book - I gave it three stars just because I found it difficult to put up with all these people just doing the wrong thing. But I recommend it for a light beach read and some lovely realistic description.

I have mixed feelings about this book.

I liked Reid's previous book and was looking forward to reading this despite the mixed reviews. I will say that the first 75% of the book is just character studies. It introduces each character and sort of pulls back to give you a snippet of their life and how they ended up here. It's interesting but it reads a bit like a character study. Nothing major happens until around the end of the book where things crescendo and there's some good food for thought. But it requires that you have a lot of patience with this book that I think is too long for that type of buildup.

I still enjoyed my time with it and i like her writing and will definitely read her next book but this wasn't one of my favorites.

with gratitude to netgalley and PENGUIN GROUP Putnam, G.P. Putnam's Sons for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

This book mostly held my interest but nothing actually happened. I’m a sucker for books that take place on college campuses but this story centered around an RA names Millie and a visiting professor named Agatha didn’t give me enough action on o feel satisfied at the end.

Both of these main characters were likable, and we also got more insight into less likable characters like Tyler, Peyton, and Robyn, as well as heartbreakingly insecure Kennedy. While I enjoyed reading about the characters the plot just plodded along and then the book ended with nothing major really having happened. I found myself skimming a couple times because I was waiting for a climactic event. When that finally occurred, it wasn’t really all that climactic and it left me with questions to which I never found the answers.

Overall, not a boring read, really, but just one with no major plot twists. Not sure I’d recommend, though it was well written and I empathized with some of the characters. Thanks to Netgalley for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

I laughed so hard at the dialogue in this novel. Kiley Reid is a genuinely funny person. I found myself relating entirely too well to the southern university students that said such cringeworthy things. If I took myself too seriously I probably would have hated this book, but instead I just laughed at myself for being a white girl from the south with two many friends named Becca. Point taken. I was on the edge of my seat wanting to learn what would happen to these characters, and I loved their arcs. Would highly recommend.

I really liked Such a Fun Age and after this, I’m in the bag for whatever Reid writes next. She is such a careful observer of human experiences and puts them into words in exactly the right way so you feel them too. A lot of reviews complain about lack of plot, which didn’t bother me because I enjoyed the character studies so much, but it is the definition of a slow burn. Things happen, but not until the end. I think there’s something interesting to be said about parking lots as a recurring theme but I’m not sure what. Maybe that college in general and this college during the events of the book in particular exist as kind of an in between space where we go to sit and wait until we decide what to go with the rest of our lives?

This book explores the dynamics of college life among (mostly) women at a southern university – dorm mates, resident hall leaders, visiting professor. There are pressures of time, decision making, finances and moral choices that expose flaws in each of the characters. It’s a fun read, the voices are great and the themes are thought provoking.

I loved Kiley Reid's previous book, but this one didn't do it for me. It had good bones, but it just didn't capture me. I found myself bored and speed-reading. Reid is a wonderful writer, but a more compelling story (even a slow burn like her previous) is better suited for her style.

This is my first book by Reid and I have to say, I was slightly disappointed. I kept thinking that the many backstories from all the various characters in this book would eventually intersect in some shocking or delightful way or interesting way, when in actuality they did not & the result was a very clunky, disjointed story that never came together. I couldn’t get attached to any of the characters when their stories were so isolated. This felt very much like a first graph, it wasn’t awful but it wasn’t great either. This was a middle of the road reading experience at 2.5 stars!