With relatable characters, a well-crafted plot, and a poignant message, this delightful and impactful novel reminds us that life rarely goes as planned. Potter's writing captures the essence of human vulnerability and resilience, offering a must-read for those who have ever felt lost.

Absolutely fantastic plot! Could not put the book down once I began reading it. Cannot wait for it to be released. I will recommend it to everyone I know!

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Promising start, but I shortly lost interest and never got back on track for me.

I really liked this story and the plot. I identified a lot with the main character!!

Thank you to netgalley and the publisher for allowing me to read this book in exchange for an honest review!

The premise and pull quotes drew me in but unfortunately I did not find Nell or her friends (other than Cricket) very charming or Nell's observations funny. The writing style did not work for me.

I do see this story resonating with readers looking for a lighthearted Bridget Jones-esque read with hashtags and diary-like musings.

Thank you very much to the publisher and NetGalley for the opportunity to read a copy.

I loved this book! It had some great laugh out loud moments and some sad moments but it was like looking in someone's real life. It was completely swept away in the story. Loved this. This is what we all fear if we have to start over again.
I just reviewed Confessions of a Forty-Something F**k Up by Alexandra Potter. #ConfessionsofaFortySomethingFkUp #NetGalley
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Nell is a forty-something year old book editor who leaves her California home after the breakup of her five year relationship. She returns to the English home of her parents with no idea of what to do with her life. As readers, we get to live in Nell's world for the next year as she searches for answers on how best to live life, until she realizes that maybe there are no answers. Maybe you just go with the flow and see where life takes you.

Although I felt the story bogged down a bit in the middle, I otherwise really enjoyed this book. It's full of great humor and good life lessons. I even highlighted several passages, which is unusual for me. Thanks so much to NetGalley and Harper Collins for the chance to read and review. (Not sure why this is supposedly pre-published since my google friends tell me the book came out in 2021, but oh well, not complaining. I always love a good free read. :))

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this advance reader copy. The title of course called my eye, and of course I was looking for something maybe a little light hearted compared to what I’ve been reading lately.. This book was hard for me to follow and I’m not sure why I typically can adjust the any book.. I really wanted to love the book and laugh and enjoy it, but at times, I was trying to analyze what the author was saying. I could not mesh with the words written.

Happy beginnings, something I've never truly thought about but a great way to look at things.

This book was a little vacation for my brain. I've never been to England but it seems lovely based on all I've seen in movies and read in books and this book was no different in that regard.

This book was cute and definitely made me laugh a few times. Nell is every woman at some time in their life. We all feel like we're failing (and maybe we are). Family, love, career, friends, etc., all the things, all the failures.

Honestly, this book reminded me a lot of the new show "Not Dead Yet" and I like that show so much!! Imagine my surprise when I look up the info on that show and it's based on this book!!

Lots of things in the show are different than the book though so that's something to note. There are no ghosts visiting her in the book, she's older in the book, etc.

In thinking about it I think I prefer the show over the book which rarely happens for me. I might recommend the book but it was only ok for me.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the chance to read this e-ARC.

The title and cover caught my eye immediately and obviously as a 40 something I was intrigued! I feel like we've all felt like Nell at times!

I loved all the characters especially Cricket and loved her backstop!

I did feel like it dragged on a bit however so that's why my rating is 3 stars

“The trifecta that is cheese puffs, a can of gin and tonic, and gallows humor.”

I received this book as a NetGalley e-ARC and I am SO happy that I did.

This book had me laughing out loud, reflecting on my life, and making me realize I’m not alone in the way I feel.

I adored the characters, even the ones I was meant to hate, because at the end of the day, we know them and they’re going through things too. I challenge you not to find someone you know reflected in one of these characters, you won’t be able to.

The life lessons you learn in this book while laughing it off with the main character and learning from her dear friend Cricket are just incredible.

I cannot say enough good things about this book. I’ll be buying it hard copy as soon as it’s published and wish it all the success on its US release!

Great. Now I need to see a chiropractor since this had me nodding my head in agreement for basically hours on end.

Chick lit? Yes.
Modern day Bridgette Jones Diary? Undeniable.
Funny, witty, relatable? Check those boxes too, ma'am!


Nell has retreated back to the UK after her long term relationship, business and vision for the future went kaputs. She's 40 something and this wasnt the plan! Her friends are married with kids, her parents rented out her old bedroom as an Airbnb and she's living with a guy who has very particular demands on what she can and can't do. Mostly can't.

Thank goodness Nell has found a small job which led her to form a very special friendship with an older widow. It's because of this friendship that she's starting to find herself again. And that includes sharing how she feels like a 40 something f*ck up in her new podcast because she knows she can't be the only one that feels this way. (She's right)

This was a light fun & easy read.

Thanks NetGalley and Harper Perennial and Paperbacks for this e-ARC so that I may share my honest feedback and review.

Funny and lighthearted. Too predictable for my taste though. Honestly I got quite bored and was just glad that it was over with. I’m not 40 yet but I still wanted to give it a read. I just don’t feel connected to the characters.

I realize that I read this book a year or so ago, so I am quite confused why it is on Netgalley. Possibly being republished? I don't remember all the details to see if there are any differences between the previous one I read.

However, I do feel that this book was a bit too long. 400 pages of Alexandra was a bit much for me. I also felt that the book could have used a bit more humor to balance the greif and complaints.

All in all, definitlely confused why I re-read a book, and it did not gain a better rating than the first time I read it.

As a woman in her 40's, I can certainly emphasize with the feelings that Nell has in terms of pursuing the life she thought she was supposed to have versus the life she actually wanted. We have all been heartbroken and jobless and unsure of what the next steps will be. Those levels of lacking self-confidence are truly exacerbated by posts on social media about how truly blessed and full of love for their perfect life. But as Nell can't to realize, we are all much stronger than we give ourselves credit for. Through her interactions with Fiona, Holly and Michelle, she realized that no one truly knows what to do all the time. Like Annabel said, we are all ducks at times. One of my favorite parts besides all the witty humor was her interactions and life lessons learned from Cricket. She was certainly a formidable woman who took risks. Once Nell put herself out there and said yes, her personal life in deepening her love with him and her family as well as her professional life with her podcast and play far exceeded anything she could imagine. This book is very insightful and inspiring.

Thanks so much to Harper Perrennial and Paperbacks.

Nell is forty something and has returned to London after breaking up with her cheating fiance. Things have changed. Her friends are all married with kids. She rents a room in a stranger's house. She get a job writing obituaries and an 80 something year old widowed woman becomes her best friend.

I loved this book! I laughed so much. I really appreciated how honest Nell was about trying to figure out her life. Cricket was a wonderful character and I loved her backstory. I cannot recommend this book enough. I want to be Nell's friend. Looking forward to reading more of this author and I think there is a sequel in the works!

I saw the title of this book and immediately wanted to read it, simply because there has not been anything else out there like it for women in their 40s. I thought it would be relatable being 40 years old myself. This book was full of laughs, and I really enjoyed reading it. I went in with no expectations and left with no disappointments in reading this book. No one's life is perfect, and you don't always end up where you want to but will always end up where you are supposed to, and this book really shows that aspect. It teaches you to appreciate what you have and find the humor in bad situations. It was a very refreshing story and will be sure to share once its released. Thank you NetGalley for the ARC.

Confessions of a Forty-Something F**k Up by Alexandra Potter was a different point of view to this married with one adult child Fifity-Something F**k Up. :)

Nell's trials and tribulations made me feel for and also laugh out loud in several places - no spoilers here, but I laughed when I probably shouldn't have.

We always wonder if the grass greener on the other side of the fence, and this book gives a good perspective of that to us middle aged married with children ladies.

Definitely worth a read and one that I will recommend to my book club.

Thank you #Netgalley for the read!

When Nell's life begins to crumble in the United States, she picks up the pieces and moves back home to London. Though the transition did not go as expected. Her friends lives have continued to evolve, there are kids, secrets and new friends, leaving Nell unsure of where he fits in. During this time she also rents a room from a quirky man named Edward, who is very set in his ways. She picks up a writing opportunity writing obituaries and sparks an unlikely friendship with a widow of one of her subjects. We follow Nell along as she reacclimates life in London. Many hilarious moments, wish I could listen to the podcast!

The title and cover are great! The book was fun to read as a forty-something! Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC. I'm giving it three stars. I wasn't overly entertained but I was still engaged while reading Potter's story.