TJ Alexander always slays the trans romance books. I've loved all of the books that I've read from him,and this one is no different. It was just so cute. It was so hard to put down that I quite literally finished it in a day. Perfect holiday book but also all year since it takes place in Florida and they don't have seasons. Either way I really recommend it!

(4.5 Stars!)

I LOVED reading this book !

Eli, a trans man, returns to his hometown for Christmas and sparks fly with a former love.

Read For:
-Trans MMC
-Single Dad
-Second Chance Romance

I really enjoyed reading Nick and Eli's second chance! Truly the cutest story with so many laughs! I found the main characters to be endearing and funny. Their story felt relatable and understandable as they've both grown in the decades between their last romance but also each holds and deals with their own demons and insecurities that they're forced to work through.

I also found that the story itself was just so good! The side characters were endearing and so widely accepting and dependable. There are so many great moments throughout like recreating old family pictures, visiting a gay bar, and so many other shenanigans these characters get up to!

My only hang ups with this book were it was at times a bit wordy and also I missed Zoe at the end! I wanted her reaction to the epilogue! Otherwise, this book is a perfect holiday themed, second chance romance that will burrow into your heart.

Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for an advance e-copy in exchange for my honest review.

I absolutely loved this book! I’ve read tj’s other books & loved them and this one did not disappoint. I love the theme of it’s never to late to discover who you are. I loved the characters in this book especially nicks dad! I cannot wait for this book to be out in the world!

OMG, I absolutely loved this book and can't believe I haven't read the two prior books that TJ Alexander has written but I will correct that before the end of this year.
Second chances in New Port Stephen is about Eli, a trans guy, who goes back home to Florida for the holidays. As you can imagine, Florida is not the most welcoming state to trans people in the US right now and on top of that, you mix vacation with the family (such a stressful time) and to top things of he runs into Nick Wu, his high school boyfriend!
I loved how this book manage to talk about heavy topics with elegance and an other line of hope (ie Florida is restricting life saving hormone therapy for trans people, redefining your sexuality/gender later in life, etc). I loved Nick and Eli and how they slowly start re-conecting again and following back in love. This book made me cry, laugh and smile and I highly recommend it.

There are many things to love about this book! First, the protagonists are almost 40. I love that they are aging people who are finding love and making changes in theirs lives. Second, there is a trans man main character who is almost 40. The sense that he came to the place where he could be his gender in his 30s and be very settled in his skin. His characterization as such felt very real. Third, Nick is a great dad. The parenting and co-parenting with his ex was very beautifully handled. Lastly, this book is set in modern day Florida, a place infamous for its anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation right now. I feel like that was a brave choice and a good one. This book shows (which I'm sure is true in reality) that there are many people in Florida who do not support the current governor's war on - may I say? - everyone who is not white and cishet. I really enjoyed this story and will highly recommend it to readers who love LGBTQIA+ romance.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of this book!

I’m trying to make an effort to read more books with trans main characters so I immediately picked this cute little romcom up. Eli is coming home for Christmas in his hometown in red Florida when he runs into his ex who is now a single dad.

Loved reading a book about someone in the Alphabet mafia in Florida- yes, we’re here, we’re queer, and we’re vocal about how extremist this state has become under certain, ahem, leadership.

I read a lot of mm but most of it is by straight white women and I need to do better about reading queer stories from queer people because the culture and references are FOOD.

So many things to love about this book: second chance, my current home state, trans mc, bipoc mc, winter holiday, mental illness rep, and queer awakening.

Okay I had bangxiety going into this third act but the slow burn does pay off!!! No penetration which I know is realistic because not every queer couple engages in penetration but I did miss that.

Overall, I loved it. I will definitely be putting TJ’s debut novel Chef’s Kiss onto my TBR.

Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶️🌶️
POV: Dual 3rd

I loved this book! I was immediately drawn in and had a difficult time putting it down.. One thing that I really liked is that the main characters are 40ish in age. I felt like I could really identify with where they are in life and certain choices that they are making. It's nice to read a book where the characters aren't in their twenties. I also liked the side characters in the story. There were several laugh out loud moments for me which I enjoyed. The main characters have known each other for most of their lives and that really comes through in the writing. Everything felt very organic with their relationship. If you are looking for a funny, heartwarming read, this is the book for you!
Many thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for an opportunity to read an ARC of this book.

Words cannot begin to describe how much this book meant to me. As an avid romance reader, I find it frustrating after a while not seeing characters like myself in the stories. So imagine my excitement when I find out there's a Christmas romcom (one of my favorite guilty pleasures) with a trans-masc main character. While the execution was quite lacking in my opinion, I'm absolutely willing to let it slide, as I don't know if I've ever connected to a character in a romcom novel as much as I did in this one. While it's great that theres some awesome trans-masc rep in young adult as of late (and they're absolutely lovely!), it's so wonderful to get some trans spicy content that was done well.

Something that I so appreciated about this book that there was some politics and hurdles of existing as a trans person included, but in a way that was balanced beautifully with humor. I am often hesitant to read books with trans characters or about the trans experience as it often feels like they're intended to educate those who don't live this life, rather than as being written for trans people. But the politics were never excessive, and the experience of encountering these issues was written in a very accurate and relatable way. I also really appreciate the scenes where Eli and his parents struggle to see eye to eye on issues, especially that baby picture scene. Those scenes captured perfectly the struggle of having a different experience and perspective as the person who transitioned in contrast to those of your loved ones, and at the same time while these issues come up, there are ways to correct in a respectful manner. In short, the trans experience was executed wonderfully.

While I really enjoyed this book, there were still some flaws that I couldn't ignore no matter how much I wanted to. Firstly, I think writing a character whose a comedian can be a tricky business, as they have to be funny. Unfortunately, for me Eli did not come across as funny, nor did what he found funny. On a general note, this book lacked the com, and I found myself rolling my eyes somewhat frequently. Similarly, the way the characters talked felt very stilted and forced. Of course, I don't read romcoms for their realistic portrayal, but it was to the extent that I was taken out of the story by how off the dialogue felt to me. These two elements combined made it so that the characters felt somewhat flat, and that I couldn't relate to them, even with all our shared similarities.

That's 3/3 of TJ Alexander books that have blown my expectations out of the water. No one writes such consistently real and personable and engrossing trans and queer stories, grounded. In each of their books, they bring such compassion and nuance to the intersectional queer identities that are so underserved. The queer questioning in their thirties millennials, one of them Asian-American, is just so well done. That experience personally resonates for me, as does the Florida setting, this in the current climate, with families that are trying their best despite the hostility again queer and trans people. I never understood the appeal of second chance romances until this one, but it may be an exception because it subverts the trope to serve the trans and questioning narrative journeys. Also, the writing is just so funny and engaging, I actually read it all in one sitting. Glad for the Netgalley ARC, but can't wait to reread as an audiobook upon release.

This book had me blushing in public and kicking my feet. A hallmarks Christmas time romance that I ate up in all of two days. A dash of reality of Florida which is truly unfortunate but a sweet second chance romance with some grade a steam. I fully intend to seek out the authors other works because this was so enjoyable.

<b>✰4 stars✰</b>

<b>This is a very cute and clever second chance romance!</b> It does take place around the holidays so you could certainly read this as a holiday romance but because it takes place in Florida, it does give off perfect beach or poolside read vibes as well.

Our main character Eli is a comedian so this entire book I’d riddled with witty humor.
Eli is back in his hometown for the holidays, which is a far cry from New York where he has been living. New Port Stevens is certainly not his favorite place in the world, especially with the negative memories and current political climate of Florida. Eli is trans and being back home is a reminder of a lot of things he left behind.
His parents accept him and are certainly trying but they do miss the mark a few times and it does end up being a story of growth between them too.

Nick is a single father living in New Port Stephens, and incidentally, Eli’s high school ex-boyfriend. They run into each-other at the store and reconnect. They hangout and catch up as friends, and it’s clear that Nick has a soft spot for Eli still. He might not realize it’s attraction at first but their connection is definitely noticeable.

Most of this story is them clearly being in love with the other and hiding it because they think the other doesn’t want anything serious. It comes off frustratingly endearing because you want them to admit it to each other already!!

<b>This story is a very lighthearted read with little to no angst.</b> You definitely feel for the characters but you won’t be taken through the wringer of emotions and left out to dry.
It’s funny and feel good with a well deserved happily ever after, which I think is perfect for the story of these characters.

<b>Highly recommend if you’re looking for a sweet ending and some good laughs!</b>

Thank you Atria Books and NetGalley for providing me access to an eARC of TJ Alexander’s wonderful new book! All thoughts and opinions are my own.

Second Chances in New Port Stephen by TJ Alexander is all about growth. This dual point of view romantic comedy stars Eli who has just lost his job as a comedy writer and goes home for Christmas to lick his wounds. Problem is, New Port Stephen, Florida isn't exactly the most welcoming place for trans men and he's not sure he belongs anywhere anymore. Our second main character is Nick who didn't expect to bump into his high school ex ever again, but here Eli is, still making his heart race. For the past few years, Nick’s world has revolved around his father, his daughter, and his job. Loved ones keep encouraging him to do things that make him feel good, will he finally start doing that when a certain comic comes back to town?

This book is about second chances and finding pockets of joy no matter where you are.

5 out of 5 stars!

4 solid stars!

Second chances in New Port Stephen is a funny lighthearted romance about 2 high school sweethearts reconnecting in their middle age years.

Tropes:
It was always you
Miscommunication
Single dad
Second chance romance

I really loved this book. I loved that the author really touched on a lot of tough topics without making the book overly heavy, it was still very lighthearted and cute. It also was extremely relatable and felt very millennial (you've got your boomer parents, kids saying atrocious things and music like party rock) I got all the jokes and little hints and now I feel old but I loved it.

The only part I struggled with was the overuse of the Miscommunication trope. It felt pretty dragged and kept happening (felt like no one could remember to ask each other how they feel??). It did make me want to bang my head against a wall occasionally.

I really recommend picking this one up whether it's the holiday season or not, it'll give you warm and fuzzy feelings ❤️

Thank you to netgalley and Simon and Shuster for the E-arc in exchange for an honest review!

10/10 no notes.

ok but really, so many things I loved about this, starting with the beautiful identity exploration and the seemingly perfect ally ship by our side characters.
I also deeply adored the second chance, childhood friends/lovers to lovers trope played out this way and I feel like really, I could have read this book for 500+ more pages.

also a perfect holiday season read for when we get there.

I can’t wait to get a physical copy and read it again.

4 stars

Thank you, Netgalley for the arc!

Eli is trans, almost 40, and back home in Flordia for the holidays with his family. He's recently lost his job but doesn't want to burden his family with the news. Eli runs into his ex, who he hasn't seen since he transitioned. The two reconnect and begin to spend more time with each other. It turns out you're never too old to discover who you are.

It's always been you
Second chance
Single dad

The authors' note and trigger warnings made me think this book would be a lot heavier and darker, but I was surprised by how light and fun it was. I enjoyed the overall theme that it's never too late to rediscover who you are. I thought TJ handled a wide range of serious topics (transitioning, politics, ew Florida, etc) very thoughtfully, and it never felt out of place. The family drama and antics felt so relatable, some parents have the best of intentions and still mess, and others never change (I'm looking at you, Kay). This book was a pleasure to read.

Eli is so funny, his inner monolog killed me, and I love how he just says whatever is on his mind. His Florida Man news headline thoughts were some of my favorite.
Nick and his precious daughter stole my heart so fast. I totally get where Eli was coming from and was just as smitten as he was. The spice was good and it felt natural and organic. Eli handled Nick's questions with care and in the end it made my heart melt with how much I adored these two characters. My only complaint was the miscommunication because it could have cleared up a lot if they just talked to each other about how they felt

This was a really great queer holiday read! I would definitely recommend adding it to your christmas holiday TBR. I was invested in the second chance romance between the two main characters from the beginning, I felt like their chemistry was really clear on the page. Some other highlights were the demisexual representation, and I really liked the kid character who was so cute and funny. I felt like the pacing was a bit off for me, which dropped it down to a four start read. I really loved the beginning but then I felt like it dragged a bit in the end.

This book took me on a delightful journey. The author skillfully weaved a heartwarming tale that not only entertained but also touched upon some important and often overlooked themes.

One aspect that truly stood out to me was the thoughtful and authentic discussion of demi-sexuality within the story. The way the author portrayed one of the protagonists' journey of self-discovery and acceptance was both insightful and sensitive. It's rare to come across books that handle such topics with the right balance of depth and accessibility, and I truly appreciated the effort put into this aspect of the narrative.

Another highlight was the depiction of respectful co-parenting after divorce. The characters of Nick and his ex-wife showcased a mature and considerate approach to parenting their daughter, and it was refreshing to see this aspect of their relationship explored in such a genuine manner. This portrayal not only added depth to the characters but also provided a positive representation of post-divorce dynamics that is often lacking in literature. His ex-wife was also a delightful side character.

Overall, this is a captivating read that skillfully blends romance, personal growth, and relevant societal themes. The intricate exploration of demi-sexuality and the portrayal of respectful co-parenting added layers of authenticity to the story that I genuinely appreciated. While the plot and characters alone are engaging, it's the way the author handles these sensitive topics that truly elevates the book into a well-rounded and thought-provoking romance novel.

I just finished this one and I really liked it! There were a couple of issues for me but overall the book was really good.

Eli is returning home to Florida to visit his parents. He came out as trans a few years ago and is a little more than nervous coming home. He runs into his ex boyfriend from high school, Nick, and they start catching up… and catching feelings.

I loved the trans rep in this book. The support and love from Eli’s immediate family, from Nick, and Nick’s daughter Zoe was so sweet! best friend Margot was a hoot. Eli’s parents mean well and Nick’s dad was awesome.

The one thing that really bothered me about this book was Eli’s immaturity. Nick was 100x more mature and was figuring out his own sexuality, while Eli was acting out. I kept forgetting that they are 39 years old because Eli definitely acts more like a teenager.

Overall though I’d recommend this one. Sweet moments, lots of laugh out loud bits, and a happily ever after.

Thank you NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Queer Holiday Vibes?! Yes, please!! Wow - this book was amazing! I loved the characters and following Eli’s journey. The storyline really sucks you in. I had a very hard time putting this book down and devoured it in a little over a day. It kept me wanting to know more! Reading this queer romance was like a breathe of fresh air!

Thanks to NetGalley for this eARC in exchange for an honest review!

Thank you to Netgalley for this advanced digital copy. This was a good read! It deals with the harsh realities of being a trans person in Florida in 2023 which is hard to confront. But the second chance romance of getting together with your teenaged love is always gonna get me. The miscommunication trope does come up in the course of this story which can feel frustrating. but Nick is much better at Eli at getting his feelings out in the open which does feel like a breath of fresh air.