You’re the Problem, It’s You by Emma R. Alban is a celebration of found family, and I absolutely loved it. Bobby Mason is a second son who feels directionless. Lord James Demeroven feels overshadowed by his past and stepfather, despite having his title. James carries an unrequited crush on Bobby from his school days into the new season, but his imagination regarding Bobby Mason is quickly replaced by a less than favorable first, second, and third impressions. Despite this, Bobby is asked to help James make connections and friends during the season - but why is he always so prickly? A true strength of this book is the cast of characters around Bobby and James - Gwen and Beth, the main characters in Don’t Want You Like a Best Friend, are equally fierce and mischievous. Bobby’s older brother, Albie, is the kind of sibling we all should hope for and Prince, Cunningham, and Thomas Parker make for an interesting cast of characters. With a little Mischief & Matchmaking perhaps James and Bobby could be more?

Emma R. Alban's novel, "You're the Problem, It's You," takes readers on an enthralling journey of complex characters, simmering tensions, and undeniable attraction. The story revolves around Bobby Mason and James Demeroven, two individuals at odds with each other yet undeniably drawn together. Alban's skillful portrayal of their relationship creates a dynamic and captivating narrative that keeps readers eagerly turning the pages. Bobby Mason, tired of being underestimated and overshadowed, yearns to make a meaningful impact in a world that seems content with mediocrity. On the other hand, James Demeroven, burdened by a history of disappointment and underachievement, prefers a life of anonymity and low expectations. The collision of their personalities creates an explosive dynamic that ignites the story with tension and sparks. Alban masterfully crafts Bobby Mason as a character who is unapologetically bold, reckless, and charismatic. His larger-than-life presence contrasts sharply with James's introverted nature, making him a blazing comet in James's otherwise dark and subdued world. However, this stark dichotomy also serves as the root of their conflicts. Bobby's exuberance and penchant for rubbing James's failures in his face threaten to dismantle the fragile safety James has built around himself. The novel delves deep into their intricate relationship, skillfully exploring the thin line between love and hate. Alban captures the palpable chemistry between the characters, leaving readers eagerly anticipating their every interaction. The author's ability to portray their complex emotions and simmering attraction adds depth and intensity to the narrative. Beyond the captivating romance, Alban weaves an intriguing subplot involving extortion and threats against their families. This external threat forces Bobby and James to find common ground and work together, leading to unexpected character growth and development. The suspenseful elements, combined with the magnetic pull between the protagonists, elevates the story to new heights, keeping readers engaged until the very end. Alban's writing style is immersive and evocative, painting vivid scenes and breathing life into the historical backdrop. The Regency era setting comes alive through her meticulous attention to detail, transporting readers to a world of lavish balls, societal expectations, and secret trysts. The dialogue is sharp, witty, and authentic, adding an extra layer of enjoyment to the reading experience. "You're the Problem, It's You" is a captivating and passionate tale that will leave readers enthralled. Emma R. Alban's adept storytelling, compelling characters, and skillful blend of romance and suspense make this novel a must-read for fans of historical fiction. Prepare to be swept away by the tumultuous journey of Bobby and James as they navigate their way through love, conflict, and self-discovery.

What a delight! I had so much fun with Alban's first romance in this series, and I was waiting on the edge of my seat for the series conclusion -- and it did not disappoint!

I really enjoyed (yet again) the film-like qualities of the book. Sometimes books can lean out of the novel realm into the screenplay realm in a way that's really noticeable and bad, but Alban skillfully strikes a balance that gives the reader the best qualities of both writing styles. I felt very visually and emotionally aware of what was going on in the book, which made it all the more captivating. (Altho I did feel the villain was a bit cartoonish.) The main characters are messy and go through a lot of growth to end up together, and it feels really well-thought out -- they're not properly enemies (moreso rivals), but the work they go through to get to the end of the story is really rewarding.

I also really loved that both the books in this series (and especially this one) emphasize how important it is to have family (whether by choice or birth) to support you. It's something that I feel is missing from a lot of queer romance, and I adore when I find them. So if this is also one of your fav tropes/themes/whatever, definitely give this one a go.

Overall, I had a very fun time with this book, even if I didn't love it QUITE as much as the first one. Strongly recommend checking out this series, and I cannot wait to see what Alban writes next -- definitely a new pre-order author for me!

This has a lot I should have enjoyed, but it did not end up working for me. I thought the setup of a historical lavender marriage between friends was charming, but there were too many plots and it was difficult to keep track of the status of everyone’s relationships with each other. I also found a lot of the emotional beats inconsistent. It’s a fine sequel and it was fun to see Gwen and Beth again and I could see how this could really be up someone’s alley. Unfortunately that someone is not me. I hope it finds its audience.

The modern title (a reference to a Taylor Swift song) is adorable, but then the writing just feels really old fashioned and overly narrative. This dissonance led to a generally awkward experience for myself. I stopped after chapter 1 (4%). Leaving five stars, as I don’t know who the target is and can’t say anything more, really.

Thank you to NetGalley and Avon and Harper Voyager for the ARC.