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Thanks Netgalley for allowing me to read this book. This book captured my attention from the start. Three generations surviving and thriving the only way they know how. A must read.

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Within Arm’s Reach is a multigenerational story of a large, strict, Irish Catholic family, the McLaughlins. I was also brought up in this type of family so I immediately felt a connection to the family and to their story. I was also excited because I loved the author’s prior novels, Hello Beautiful and Dear Edward.
Ann Napolitano’s writing draws you in immediately. Each chapter is narrated by a different family member. I really loved reading each member’s perception of themselves and then reading how other family members really felt about them. The story was a lovely nostalgic journey for me. The story of the McLaughlin family is genuine and it portrays the good and the bad that we all experience in families and hopefully love wins out in the end. Within Arm’s Reach was actually written before the author’s prior novels. I am very happy that it is receiving the recognition it deserves. For me this it a five star book and I look forward to more novels by this author.

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Dear Edward remains one of my all time favorite books. Within Arms Reach was sadly not even close to the beauty of Dear Edward, but then I see that Within Arms Reach was first published 20 years ago!!

Within Arms Reach is about lots of dysfunctional people and their family trauma. Really not my cuppa tea.

Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC of this re-release by Ann Napolitano in exchange for an honest review.

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This story traces thru generations with each of their comments about the lives and the dead. Catharine McLaughlin Matriarch and grandmother trying to solve all problems she sees and hears about each member of the family as they each tell their story about how thy live and try to please Catherine. She finally decides that she was doing it wrong when the family gets together for one of the problems!

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This book has a very large cast of characters that make it a bit confusing when you first start reading. Luckily the author includes a family tree at the very beginning of the book to help keep everyone straight. Once you have that figured out, the story unfolds into a tale of three generations of an Irish family in America and their interactions. Messy and complicated just like everyone's family except this one is told by a master storyteller who knows how to make the mundane everyday life of a family interesting to read.

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Ann Napolitano is one of my favorites, but I struggled with this one. I’m not sure exactly what the plot was except to explore the effects of an unplanned pregnancy on different family members.

Each member of the extended family is dysfunctional in their own way, but somehow this one event seems to be the main trigger for causing strife.

At times funny, at times sad, and at times emotional, but this just didn’t work for me. I give it 3 stars. Thank you, NetGalley and Random House Publishing Group for the ARC.

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A multi-generational family story of the McLaughlins. While there are lots of cousins, who filter in and out, the main emphasis is on the grandmother, her oldest child, and her two granddaughters.

There’s lots of self-reflection from each of the main characters. Grandma’s worried that her stoicism may have stunted the family’s emotional growth. Daughter is in a loveless marriage. Granddaughter is a brilliant med student, but hates people. Second granddaughter writes an advice column, yet her own life is a messy series of one night stands. All in all, not much plot. Lots of Irish Catholic guilt.

This book was first published in 2004, and in view of the author’s recent successes, it’s being re-released. I think I agree with reviewers from the first time around whose average ratings were less than 3.5 stars. Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read and review this offering.

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Within Arm's Reach is the story of an Irish American extended family trying to make the best of life, love, and suffering. In this book we learn about how the matriarch lost 3 children as babies, and how her other children grew up to lead lives that seem to be somewhat devoid of emotion. There is not a plot, exactly, but the telling of what's going on from each family member's perspective, as one of the unwed granddaughters prepares to give birth to her first baby.

I was so excited to begin Within Arm's Reach, after reading both Dear Edward and Hello Beautiful. I dove in to the book and was surprised to not experience the incredible story that I anticipated. After a little research, I discovered that this was an early publication by the author, written prior to Dear Edward. I would suggest that if the reader is interested in Ann Napolitano's writings, that they instead read what is one of my most favorite stories, Dear Edward.

Thanks to NetGalley for allowing me to read and review Within Arm's Reach.

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Within Arm’s Reach is a family saga of a multigenerational Irish Catholic Family and their relationships. There are varied opinions and viewpoints regarding Protagonist, Gracie’s, unplanned pregnancy. The older family members are strongly influenced by family history, while some see it only from their own situation. My favorite character is the Matriarch, Octogenarian, Catherine. She is greatly revered in the family, and Gracie shares a special closeness with her. I am grateful for the opportunity of an advanced read. #WithinArm’sReach. #NetGalley

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Whew! This book has so much depth and emotion, almost too much for me at times. It is a very honest, real and not always likable, dive into people’s inner thoughts. Each chapter is a different family member’s view of life’s ups and downs.. There’s a quality to the story that no matter how much I loved (or didn’t love the characters) I wanted to know more and never once needed to figure out where I was with each character.

While I don’t think you need to know an Irish catholic family to love this story, Anne Napolitano does a great job of bringing you into the world of growing up with a giant Irish catholic family. It made me miss my grandparents, my wild Irish Catholic family and our giant gatherings.

Ann Napolitano is an amazing writer and it’s hard to believe this was written twenty years ago! I’d love to know what the McLaughlins are up to now!

Thanks to NetGalley for a copy for my honest review! The new cover is amazing.

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have read and loved both Dear Edward and Hello Beautiful, so when I was asked to read an advanced copy of Ann Napolitano’s first book which is being republished this June my answer was an immediate yes.

Within Arms Reach lets us meet the McLaughlin’s, an Irish American family from New Jersey. This story is filled with lovely tender moments and moments that will break your heart as you read about the three generations of this family and how they are navigating through their lives.

Her character development is brilliant. I felt connected to all of them as the story progressed which kept me turning the pages.

I highly recommend this book along with the other titles mentioned above. Napolitano story telling is down to earth and beautiful!

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Within Arms Reach follows three generations of the Irish-American McLaughlin family with grandmother, Catherine, at the helm. The family is disjointed and Catherine wants to remedy that issue. When her husband was alive, she felt that he kept them all together. When one of the grandchildren gets pregnant out of wedlock, Catherine feels that this baby is the one that will pull everything back together.

Multiple view points. The little family tree at the beginning of the book was very helpful, especially early on.
Family drama. Very character driven.
Trigger Warnings: Infidelity, Abortion, mental illness

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Within Arms Reach is the compelling story of the McLaughlin’s, three generations of an Irish- American, Catholic family. The story is told from six points of view: Children or grandchildren: Gracie, Catharine, Louis Leary, Lila, Kelly, (and a private nurse, Noreen Ballen).

Gracie job is to answer a personal column for a local paper, but her own life is in disaray. She's pregnant and decided to keep the baby. Gracie’s pregnancy has thrown the family into turmoil. Everyone expected Gran to be upset, even outraged - instead, Gran is happily making a baby blanket for her first great-grandchild.

Grace and Lila are the two closest sisters. They’re currently sharing an apartment while Lila finishes medical school. But med. school is not going well for Lila. Academically she is the top of her class but she lacks the ability to get along with, or show compassion for, her patients (or her coworkers).

And so it goes… each family member has their own dysfunctional situation. This is a family enmeshed in the need to put on a show for other family members but unable to successfully manage their own lives. "No one in my mother’s family ever talks about anything that can be categorized as unpleasant or as having to do with emotions. . . .” A story of love, compassion and family that I could not put down. Beautifully written, humorous, charming and emotional. A story about love, family and forgiveness. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Within Arms Reach is a reissue of Napolitano’s “debut” novel (before, Dear Edward and Hello Beautiful).

I received an advanced copy (ARC) of Within Arms Reach in exchange for a fair and honest review. Thank you to #NetGalley #TheDialPress #AnnNapolitano Publication Date: 5/28/24

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I was so excited to read this book after loving Hello Beautiful and it did not disappoint. I loved the character development, loved the setting and loved how the book flowed. It kept me intrigued from page 1 until the end. Definitely recommend!

Thank you to netgalley for the arc in exchange of an honest review.

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Such a delight - I love Ann Napolitano and this re-release did not disappoint. A story about families and generations that was the perfect, cozy read.

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Within Arm's Reach by Ann Napolitano shares the stories of three different generations of an Irish American family. Told from multiple perspectives, it explores the story of a grandmother whose traumas influenced her approach to life as stoic, her daughter and husband who have grown apart in their marriage while dealing with more personal struggles, and her grandchildren who has young female adults are trying to find their way forward in a world where they aren't sure who they are or what they want.
This book allows the reader an intimate glimpse into a complicated family whose present day has been greatly defined the traumas of generations past, and the lack of a common language in which to discuss their feelings. There is a lot for the reader to think about through those story, though I ended if feeling a little unfulfilled. I would also say that I found some of the main characters to be unlikable, though I know that sometimes readers need and or enjoy that! I would recommend this for readers who enjoy stories about multiple generations of a family., with complex characters, and don't need a neat and tidy ending.
Thank you to NetGalley and Three Rivers Press for an eARC in exchange for an honest review.

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I’m so glad I got approved to read the re-released first novel by Ann Napolitano! This was a novel about a large Irish Catholic family, told through the perspective of the matriarch/grandmother, mother & father, and daughters, Lila and Gracie. This book was such a beautiful exploration of family, expectations, religion, motherhood, relationships, and finding your place in the world.

I related to so many pieces of this story, and this novel had me reminiscing on my own childhood and my own (Slovakian) Catholic grandparents and the ways they had friction with generations that came after them. Napolitano does an amazing job of building characters that are flawed and sometimes angry with one another, but the thread that weaves this story together is love.

A really beautiful book!

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3.5 ⭐️
This book was originally published twenty years ago & is being re-released given the author’s recent popularity. The writing & story gained momentum from a slow & unengaging start to an ending that is reminiscent of the author’s talent and is filled with memorable writing and thoughtful insights.
The new cover is a gorgeous improvement over the original.
Took a while for the title to resonate with me but ultimately found it quite fitting to reflect the characters' struggles and searching.
Told from five different characters voices, some of the endings seemed somewhat ambiguous but there is enough content included in their individual & collective stories that the reader is left with a sense of resolution.

With great thanks to NetGalley, Madison Dettlinger at Penguin Random House and Dial Press for this e-ARC!

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My thanks to Random House Publishing and Dial Press for the opportunity to preview this book, “Within Arm’s Reach” by Ann Napolitano (reissue coming May 28, 2024).

This is another wonderful family saga from Ann Napolitano. Originally published in 2004, this was her first of four novels (the most recent being “Hello Beautiful”, one of my favorite books of 2023). I’m really glad to see that this one’s back in print!

The story revolves around the lives of three generations of the McLaughlins, an Irish-American family in New Jersey. The story is narrated through the voices of six different characters, including the family matriarch, one of her daughters, and two of her granddaughters. Each of the narrators has a different perspective, a different and engaging story to tell us. These narrative threads reveal the loves, griefs, loyalties, and betrayals that have led to the family’s grievances and dysfunction. Their lives are fraught with suspicions, secrets, long-held grudges, sibling rivalry, mental illness, and unwise choices, These characters make a lot of mistakes (don’t we all). We learn how their pasts have led to the present situation, but we also see that people can grow and change in a way that gives them, and us, hope for the future.

It’s really quite a masterful piece of writing, especially for a first novel. The work is both ambitious and fully realized. Characters are interesting and well developed, and the pacing is just right. Once into the story, I just couldn’t stop reading. I found all of it compelling and, in the end, satisfying. I really loved it.


A couple of side notes (which I have not included in my social media reviews): As a long-time editor, I found a couple of recurrent grammatical goofs distracting. Several times, the characters claim to feel badly about something, rather than feel bad, which is correct. One feels good or feels bad. Badly is an adverb. Also, the author almost consistently follows many prepositions (most notably off) with “of” — e.g., get off of drugs, rather than just get off drugs, or shakes the tomato juice off of his hands. I realize that “off of” is sometimes useful for emphasis (get off of me!), but its overuse is annoying.

Why does Lila always refer to Weber as a boy? As in “Has a boy named Weber been here to visit my grandmother?” Lila is well into her 20s and presumably Weber, a fireman, is no boy.

Aside from these distractions, a very smooth smooth read. And I really did love it!

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4.5 stars rounded to 4 stars

I became a huge Ann Napolitano fan after reading Dear Edward and especially Hello Beautiful. In February 2023, I declared the latter to likely be my favorite book of 2023 and that prediction, unsurprising to me, became true on December 31, 2023. And that was after reading over 40 other pretty darned good books. Thus, when I was offered the chance to read the re-release of Ms. Napolitano’s 2004 debut novel Within Arm’s Reach, I jumped!

Within Arm’s Reach is a compelling family drama revolving about the large McLaughlin clan of New Jersey. The story is told from the points of view of 5 family members and a nonrelated woman. At first, I had a bit of trouble keeping everyone straight (this is a BIG family), but a little family tree in the front pages helped a lot. A myriad of different threads, subplots, and other issues grace this narrative, all of which drew me in. The novel touches upon many themes, including the loss of connectivity, sexuality and its meaning for different people, the messiness of love, pregnancy out of wedlock, guilt, shame, sibling rivalry, long held grudges, tradition, mental illness, the art of settling, and the huge challenge of holding a family together, which really is the most important thing of all.

I was shocked when I saw the low rating average of 3.35 on Goodreads. What??? Was this the book I just read and loved? The characters so well-drawn. I thought about the characters and their situations when I was away from the book and couldn’t wait to get back to them. Ms. Napolitano is a wonderful writer with whom I have strongly connected during the reading of three of her books. Maybe Within Arm’s Reach is not as polished as Hello Beautiful or as gripping as Dear Edward, but there was enough family drama to keep me riveted and musing on how I would handle the myriad of situations that came up. I admit it—I am a big, big family drama fan.

The only thing that disappointed me was the somewhat open-ended ending though I have to admit Ms. Napolitano left enough breadcrumbs for us to imagine how these characters carried on. But darn, I love epilogues, and I really missed having one at the end of this book. Oh well. Instead of spending time mourning the lack of an epilogue, I moseyed over to the Libby App and got in a very long line (several month wait) for the final Napolitano novel I have yet to read—"A Good Hard Look.” I can’t wait.

If you are an avid reader of family dramas and all that entails, forget the 3.35 composite rating on Within Arm’s Reach and grab a copy. Oh, and try to read it with someone you can discuss it with. A very meaty read indeed.

I would like to thank Madison Dettlinger of Random House Publishing, Net Galley, and Ann Napolitano for an advanced copy. Opinions are mine alone and are not biased in any way.

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