Hall practically owns the M /M romance genre. Rightly so. This is another solid entry from Hall. BDSM is fairly portrayed and the relationship feels incredibly lived in.

Alexis Hall and unconventional pairings is one of my favorite things. Alexis Hall is in fact one of my favorite authors in the world and I will always read anything he writes. I don’t always enjoy everything but I most definitely enjoyed For Real! Laurie and Toby, with their age differences and differences in experience in terms of BDSM, are not a match on paper. Downright inappropriate at the barest glimpse. But they fit together so well. Laurie feels played out, done with BDSM and done with love, for sure. Practically done with life, the way he talks and things sometimes. Toby is just starting out and he’s unconfident, until he’s alone with Laurie and he absolutely blossoms. He’s unsure, but Laurie gives him confidence.

Laurie does jerk Toby around a little, giving him false hope. But he’s hurting himself in the process and not doing anything maliciously. He just doesn’t think he’s right for Toby, one of my favorite tropes. Not only is he denying himself happiness, he’s hurting Toby in the process by denying him the right to choose. It’s a well worn trope, but a good one, especially in a queer context, with a dash of BDSM thrown in.

Alexis Hall creates some of the most realistic characters I’ve ever seen. They pop off the page with their witticisms and complex backstories. The alternating POVs make the characters even more dimensional, offering insight into their motives and how they are perceived by outsiders. Laurie’s career, Toby’s grandfather, the setting, the sex scenes, all felt so wonderfully real. I couldn’t say if the setting was accurate to the real locations mentioned, as an American, but I felt immersed in the created world.

I highly recommend this book. It is spicy, it does deal with some uncomfortable topics like death and grief, abuse, and BDSM. But it also deals with character growth and development that is worthwhile to balance any discomfort. I cannot wait for more Spires novels, though Alexi Hall is so prolific, I feel like I could read a new book of his every month and still not run out by the end of the year.

This was actually the first book of Alexis Hall’s that I read and I was so excited to read it again on its release! It’s still one of my favorites and has such amazing representation for the BDSM scene. Unlike books like 50 Shades, For Real displays much more reality and nuances. The romance is so good! I love Toby and Laurie and this book will always be special to me.

An extremely enjoyable romance between an unlikely pair, that somehow just works. I read it when it first came out and it still delivers the heat, and works within the series or all on its own.

“I don’t see stars, but I see the spaces between them, and all there is . . . is him.”

Alexis Hall just knows how to write the scene! I loved every second of this, I love the way she makes worlds. Age gap is such a perfect plot point for this genre and style. It didn't feel cliche even once, it didn't feel rushed or out of place. There was so much love in these pages.

They're so different, and so goof for each other, and I will always remember how good I felt when I put this down.

I just adore this author and their books! I will always read things from Alexis! The stories and characters are so well done! I love all the feels and romance within these pages! Looking forward to more books! Highly recommend!

I first read For Real when it was initially released and my love for this book has only grown. There is so much heart in this book and I think it truly does reflect the real boundaries we put up to protect ourselves from the vulnerability of love. The annotations in this version were fun to read, but mostly it's always a treat to go back to this story that never fails to gut me and then put me back together again.

Ah, this book is sooo good! First, I love it when a title to a book actually means something (that's pretty rare in romance these days), and the title of this book contains multitudes. Second, no surprise that Alexis Hall would be the author to get me to rethink sub-dom relationships in romance, and for that matter, in real life. I've read some BDSM but it's typically not what I gravitate toward, and most of the time I find BDSM stories to be light on joy and emotion. This story made me feel SO MUCH. I think a lot of that has to do with the fact that, like all of Hall's books, this is a character-driven story. The set-up seems like typical age-gap: Laurie is older and jaded and bored with life, and Toby is young and enthusiastic. But I think both Laurie and the reader (at least this reader - me) underestimate Toby. He is real and unguarded and it takes most of the book for Laurie to figure out that is a *good* thing. The fascinating thing is how the sub-dom dynamic helps break down Laurie's walls. There's a lot here about trust and vulnerability, and it's written so beautifully, your heart aches while reading, and even after you've finished the book. Another gem from Alexis Hall (can you tell I'm a fan?).

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC I received!

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

This was not my fav from this author and I think it should’ve been a lot shorter, however, it wasn’t a bad read! The way grief was portrayed was beautiful and relatable. The age gap seemed extreme at 19 and 37 but it never felt icky. Laurie’s battle with himself trying to find happiness and Toby’s awareness of what he wants but inability reach for it made it an emotional read.

Alexis Hall owns my heart and my bookshelves. I am obsessed with this author, and I love this book. I love this entire series, but I think this book might be my favorite!

4 stars.

"For Real" by Alexis Hall provides a compelling, intimate look at a MM age-gap relationship, BD$M, and eventually, a heartstring-tugging romance. I have always enjoyed Hall's writing style, which is full of banter, humor, spice, desire, and a little bit of shocking content. While most of Hall's books are spicy, this may be the spiciest in terms of quantity alone. It is FULL of s3x scenes, so check the TWs in case. The power dynamics between Laurie and Toby, the main characters, are also explored in great detail. It's all about experience versus inexperience, lust versus love, young versus old, want versus need. I enjoyed this one quite a bit. It did feel a little too long, in my opinion.

Thank you to NetGalley, Alexis Hall, and SOURCEBOOKS Casablanca for the complimentary ARC of this book. All opinions are my own. I was not compensated for this review.

I've loved the previous two books in this series, so I figured I was sure to love this too. When I started reading, I quickly found out about the age gap, and I became deeply uncomfortable, because a 19-year-old is basically just a kid to me. The older MC (who's 37) at one point says "you'll think I was pathetic for dating you when you're my age", and I was like YES, truer words have never been spoken. I know this was going to be a romance despite that, so I took that as my sign that I needed to DNF. I seem to be in the minority here, but I find this age gap really uncomfortable.

For Real by Alexis Hall is a delightful and cleverly crafted exploration of love, intimacy, and the complexities of modern relationships. From my perspective, Hall's writing is witty and engaging, capturing the nuances of connection in a way that feels both refreshing and relatable. The characters are vividly drawn, each with their own quirks and vulnerabilities, making their romantic journey feel authentic and compelling.

I particularly enjoyed the playful banter and sharp dialogue, which added a layer of charm to the story. Hall skillfully tackles themes of consent, self-discovery, and the evolving nature of love, allowing readers to reflect on their own experiences. The pacing is generally well-balanced, though some parts felt a bit drawn out, which momentarily took me out of the flow.

Overall, For Real is a heartwarming and thought-provoking read that left me smiling. It’s a fantastic choice for readers who enjoy contemporary romance infused with humor and depth, and it showcases Hall's talent for blending playful storytelling with meaningful themes.

This is actually the first Alexis Hall I ever read, and it’s easy to recall why I went directly in search of the backlist. To me, it’s a really masterful book, though I don’t personally connect with it as much as I do with some of his other works. And for the re-release, I absolutely adored the extras, from the author annotations to the bonus story "In Vino."

What I noticed the most on this re-read, with about 300 more romance novels under my belt, is how well done the dual first-person POV is. I often struggle with this, because if the voices aren’t distinct, I find myself wondering whose head I’m in and getting frustrated. I could open to any page of “For Real” and know if I’m with Laurie or Toby, and I didn’t realize how much skill that takes until I’d abandoned quite a few books that lacked it. (I also recently appreciated the same thing about “Georgie, All Along”…the dual first POV works so well in that book too).

Anyway, this one has all the Hall hallmarks (Hall-marks?): gorgeous prose, believable friendships and family dynamics, humor, vulnerability…and on and on). I haven’t read a ton of kink, but to me it just felt like part of who these characters are and their relationship. And having now read the other Spires books, it was interesting to see some of the connections within the world.

A nice unique story but not my favorite by Alexis Hall. I liked the age difference. It was interesting to have a dom who was so timid everywhere outside the bedroom and a sub who was so experienced and confident.

Alexis hall is an instant read for me, and this was no exception. A wonderful look into power dynamics within a gay relationship, and how age and appearance mean nothing in the grand scheme of love

Ohh this book was very sweet. I did not know a lot about it going in, so when I realized it was BDSM I was like Oh ookay I guess we're doing this! What I loved.

-Even with some heavy themes, the story stays pretty light on the drama.
-The characters really help each other heal, making their relationship feel extra supportive.
-The BDSM scenes are super authentic and add a lot to the story.
-It’s an age gap romance that dives deep into their emotional connection.
-You get both sides of the story, showing one character’s fear of rejection and the other’s open-hearted love.

I have not read any other books in the series, but probably will go back and start from the beginning!

Instructive and surprising

Laurence is tired of everything. Six years after his last breakup, he's approaching 40 and struggling to get over his ex. That's when he meets Toby, a young, fearless and vulnerable boy who could very well show him everything he's missing out on. Toby doesn't know what he wants with his life. The only thing he does know, is that he wants Laurie. But Laurie can't fully surrender to him, because Toby is too young, too fragile and too intense. Nothing between them can be real.

This book took me by surprise, to be honest, but in a good way. I had never read a book with BDSM before, and I was intrigued. I'm not going to lie, some scenes made me uncomfortable and weird, but it's only because it's not something I like. However, the author really made it easy to relate to both characters and understand what this desire and need feels like. It was instructive in a way, to see them so vulnerable with one another. The romance in itself is sweet, and even if I'm not a fan of age gap romances, I felt like this one was dealt with rather well. Both characters were very real and relatable and flawed, which I loved, and the dynamic between the two was explosive and sweet at the same time. However, I did feel that the book dragged on a bit at some point, and the very long chapters added to this feeling of length. I still enjoyed the book, though.

I recommend if you like emotional romances with kinks.

"It's not what you do. It's what it means."

i always have an excellent time with alexis hall, and this book is no exception! while it's not my favorite of their backlist, i do love laurie and toby's chemistry and their story had me engaged. a nontraditional pairing, but i think that's part of the appeal for sure. very glad to have read this one!

I loved this book when it first came out and I still love it today. Laurie and Toby are a sweet, hot, emotional mess of a couple. The annotations were a hoot to read - it's so interesting to get a glimpse into the mind of Alexis Hall. Thank you to netgalley for the ARC. Opinions are my own.