Rainbow Rowell is one of my favorite authors. I love her writing style and her characters. I'm just not sure that I love her adult romances. So far her weakest books, in my opinion, have been Landline and Slow Dance. In the few days since finishing Slow Dance, the lingering issue I seem to be having is that no one--neither the characters nor Rowell herself--seems to have a stance on much of what is happening throughout the book.

(Spoilers from this point on.)

Ryan cheated on Shiloh. Shiloh thinks Ryan is a bad person, but it's her fault for marrying him.
Shiloh is sexually interested in men and women but only a few; she seems to have very little interest in having sex at all, in fact. Shiloh wouldn't define herself as a queer woman.
Cary is in the military, the Navy specifically. Cary never sees combat and, throughout the book, never grapples with or interrogates being involved in a military that is actively engaging in combat on multiple fronts. As an adult Shiloh completely walks back her strong anti-military stance from her teenage years.

There's probably a point about changeability and fluidity in here. There's probably a point about never fully knowing ourselves or the people we love. But it feels a little like a cop out at times.

Overall, I enjoyed the reading experience. I would be interested in going back to read it again after some time to see if I read it any differently but for now it's a solid 3.5 star read.

Like all of Rainbow's books, this was EMOTIONAL. Her characters are so real and flawed, but that is just what makes them beautiful.Overall, I really enjoyed this book. I found it unique and thought provoking- the type of book I know will stick with me

SLOW DANCE by Rainbow Rowell is about grown ups!

Nothing against the Simon Snow series, but I generally read books about grown ups...being a grown up. And I love her adult books! This is classic Rainbow Rowell, with a tightly wound, mildly-to-moderately neurotic woman and the man who loves her.

Shiloh and Cary were best friends in high school, then he joined the navy and she got married and they haven't talked in 14 years. But now she's divorced and he comes back to Omaha for their other best friend's wedding, hoping for a second chance. Or third, or fifth (they had some near misses, you could say).

It's so lovely. There's so much real life in it—growing up in poverty, divorce, raising kids that are not your biologically own—it doesn't shy away from heavy themes. But also it's just two sweet dummies (affectionate) who have to get on the same page so they can be happy.

There is also (I am delighted to inform you) an epistolary element in the form of emails. I love epistolary! I like pithy dialog, and what is more dialog than email correspondence??

SLOW DANCE comes out July 23, and I loved it and all its incredibly timely musical references.

Thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for giving me a complimentary ARC in exchange for an honest review.

"You can't make new old friends"

I had forgotten how good a Rainbow Rowell book can be. Slow Dance is the latest adult book by Rowell and I can't say enough about this story. Shiloh and Cary are childhood friends who lose touch until the wedding of their friend Mikey brings them back into each other's orbit. It's obvious these two were always destined to be together, but can they get out of each other's way to realize it?

This story had so much heart and charm that like another reviewer I read it so fast that when it was over I just wanted to flip to the beginning and read it again. A perfect summer read, and I can't recommend it enough.

This was such a beautiful read about a unique and unconventional romance. I really enjoyed it and loved these characters.

Shiloh and Cary were besties since high school but Shiloh was afraid of messing up a good friendship with love and always kept her feelings tucked away. Years and years pass as we see their friendship and love grow and mature. I have always loved Rainbow Rowell's stories and this one doesn't disappoint.

I loved this book! It follows the story of Shiloh and Cary, best friends growing up who drifted apart then reconnect at a wedding 14 years later.

It hit so many of my favorite tropes. One of the main ones being best friends who are super in love and everyone knows it but them. I love that dynamic.

The story switches between present day and 14 years ago “before.” Some is from Shiloh’s POV and some from Cary’s which I enjoyed. I stayed up till 2 am on a Saturday reading this and then spent all of a Sunday am at home cause I wanted to finish it. Had the perfect amount of angst, great character growth and development. Really engaging. The plot is really just the story between the two of them and their relationship so if you’re looking for something more plot driven and less character driven this might not be for you. It was just what I wanted and I’d highly recommend if you want a low belt slow burn character driven story about the realities of two people finding their way back to each other.

Childhood best friends to lovers and second-chance romance are ways to describe this book, but it goes so far beyond that. I was in my feels from the first chapter, and I only felt more angsty as the book went on and we learn about all the history between Shiloh and Cary. I was rooting for them so hard, feeling all that yearning and love and misunderstanding and heartache right along with them. Rainbow Rowell does such an excellent job of creating imperfect characters that are easy to love. I have a strong feeling this will be one of my top reads this year.

I liked the romance, but the book felt a bit too slow. Also, the chapters ended very abruptly. I liked having a romance with a single mom, and adults with real complications in their lives, but the pacing was off.

"I want to remember this day . . . . But I also want to have so many good days that this one gets lost in the plethora."

Shiloh and Cary were best friends, destined to be together but they were kept apart by the fear that romance would destroy their perfect friendship--so afraid that they stopped talking altogether. Since then, Shiloh started a family and has been running the local children's theater, and Cary raised though the ranks of the Navy. Fourteen years later, when reunited at an old friend's wedding, they are forced to decide what they are to each other, and how they fit into their new lives.

There are many things about this book that I am not normally so enthused about: miscommunication that could be easily resolved by a single sentence, small children embedded in a romance, However, I LOVED this book. I'm not sure if it was the endearing main characters, or the writing style akin to a stream of consciousness, or the friends to lovers... but my heart was so warm by the end. Rainbow Rowell was able to craft such a slow, sweet rekindling romance, while also showing us glimpses of past at the right times. She also managed to achieve a miracle: I didn't find the children in this book to be too annoying or get in the way of the romance too much, A victory in my opinion!

I haven't really reached for Rowell's books since her YA releases when I was in high school, but after reading Slow Dance, I am certainly more interested in what she has to stay about friendship, self-discovery, and love. I highly recommend this book!

So heartbreakingly beautiful. I found the main character incredibly annoying, yet somehow relatable. The characters are weird, the situations feel just outside of normal, and I cried the entire book. It really got to me emotionally, and I loved it.

Thank you to Net Galley for allowing me the opportunity to read a readers advanced copy. The title of this book is so appropriate, as the writing itself was a slow dance. The author alternates between the two main characters, and tells their love story by weaving current day and past together. I started out not loving the lead female character, but as her character is slowly developed, I understood her better and was happy for her at the end. What I thought was a slow start appears to be a deliberate act of making characters really come alive, sharing the good and bad as life happens.

This was a different kind of read from the other books I've read by Rowell. It gives a very honest portrayal of what it might be like growing up with unreliable parents and not feeling nurtured or protected. It also shows how that might affect adults—how safe they feel, who they trust, how they control their lives so as not to feel the powerlessness of their past.
The main character, Shiloh, is a single mom with two kids and an ex who sought his own happiness more than anyone else's, hence their divorce. Now Shiloh has to figure out if the one man she has loved for practically forever, Cary, could be her future.
It's not that Shiloh thinks she is enough—she never feels like she is, and that's why she keeps pushing him away, so sure that he has better things to do, better people to be with than just her. Her entire life is about making sure other people come first, making sure they're happy, looking after them without caring for herself. She has reduced life to being practical and numbed what she can so she doesn't have to hope life could be good anymore. And sometimes Cary seems to confirm that because of his own past.
All in all, Slow Dance reminded me in places of Landline in the fight to stay connected and not let people disappear because of a string of misunderstandings. It was a bit of a slow read, though, and it was easy to get frustrated with both Shiloh and Cary when they kept assuming they knew what the other meant or wanted.. Probably my least favorite of the five of hers I've read so far.
Many thanks to William Morrow and NetGalley for sending me this advanced reader's copy so I could give my honest and voluntary review.
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Slow dance was slow. I love character driven but there was zero conflict except for the two MCs figuring out how to not let their complicated selves and past get in the way of them being together now. It felt long for that reason. I love how Rowell writes in a way we can know the characters immediately, intimately, through their thoughts and actions. In this way it’s similar to Rooney’s normal people. But for me the depth was missing and I was not invested or connected to the characters like I have been in her past books. Thank you for the advanced reading copy!

If Rainbow Rowell writes it, count me in. She's just that good at crafting heartwarming and relatable stories that really tug at your heartstrings.

“Slow Dance” follows Cary and Shiloh, who were best friends throughout middle school and high school. Everyone thought they were destined to be together, but life took them in different directions—Shiloh went to college, got married, had two kids, and then divorced, while Cary pursued a career in the Navy.

Fourteen years later, they reunite at a friend's wedding, and it's clear that they can't ignore their feelings for each other any longer.

I've read Rowell’s “Landline”, “Attachments”, and “Fangirl”, and let me tell you, they all left a lasting impression on me. They're easily among the best books I've read since I was ten years old. And “Slow Dance”? It's just as amazing. I was on an emotional rollercoaster the whole time—heartwarming, frustrating, uplifting. I was rooting for Cary and Shiloh at every stage of their relationship.

Rowell created strong characters in Shiloh and Cary, although they're both pretty bad at expressing their feelings, which drove me crazy at times. But the slow-burn romance, fourteen years in the making, was so worth it when they finally worked through their personal insecurities and doubts.

The only downside for me was that the ending felt rushed. After all that slow burn, it kind of wrapped up abruptly. Still good, but rushed.

That said, let me leave you with these favorite lines of mine from the book and let you decide if you want to dive into it and fall in love with the characters.

“When I think of high school, I will remember that every good day started with you walking down your steps and getting into my car. I will remember that every bad day ended with meeting you out by the flagpole.”

“‘I just feel like I’ve wasted so much time,’ Cary said, trying to explain himself. ‘I want to get right with her. And myself. I want to start living and dying in the right direction.’”

Isn’t Cary every girl’s dream? 😍

“Slow Dance” hits shelves on July 23rd, and I'm thrilled I got to read and review this gem in advance thanks to Rainbow Rowell, William Morrow, and Netgalley.

I enjoyed reading a digital ARC of Rowell’s new novel for adults, #Slow Dance.
This ARC was provided by @William Morrow Publishing through @NetGalley.
After reading the book, my favorite novel by Rowell is still Eleanor & Park (a Young Adult novel.)

As in all her novels for adults so far, the setting is Omaha, Nebraska, which is also where Rowell lives. I like that the characters are flawed and realistic. There are “before” and “after” chapters, multiple timelines. Shiloh and Cary have known each other since high school, but they have been through many ups and downs and changes in their separate lives. At one point, they go 14 years without seeing each other. How will their story end?

I loved this so much. The beginning was a little jarring for me, maybe it was the pacing? But once RR found her footing with the story, I was beyond invested. This is a romance with plenty trials and tribulations, where the couple has to fight for their future, make concessions and compromises and sacrifices, where they have to overcome all their inner flaws and their messy family lives. It just all makes the ending so so much sweeter.

Shiloh and Cary felt very real to me. Authentic, imperfect, earnest. They weren't two centerfold models where their only flaws were her being too quirky and him being too brooding. They had very real wounds that needed to be patched up and overcome, and I loved seeing their growth from their middle school days to their thirties. Speaking of which...childhood friends to lovers? You know I'm always here for it. And Cary being a man in uniform? Even better.

If you like slow burn romance with lots of drama and angst and killer will-they-won't-they, this is the perfect book to stomp kick you right in the feels. Highly recommend.

Quite possibly the Rainbow Rowelliest book that Rainbow Rowell has ever Rainbow Rowelled. Which, if you've read her other adult fiction, should make plenty of sense. If you haven't, then idk how to explain it.

Am in a v emo place right now, and cried a few times while reading this. Read half of it in one sitting before bed, then the other half in a second sitting when I got up.

If you don't like stories where the premise hangs on mis/poor communication, you're probably going to have a bad time with this. But it worked for me.

It started off a little slow and hard to connect to the characters, but they (Shiloh especially) grew on me by the end.

It’s hard at first, because the “before” chapters are in random order and don’t explain when it is, so it takes a second to find out if they’re still in high school, or college, or middle school, etc. I think it would have helped the flow if there were at least dates/the era of their lives listed at the beginning of the chapters other than just “before”.

Shiloh was a flawed character in the “before” moments, and that made it hard to connect with her. Granted, the best characters are all flawed in some ways, but she was tough to take in. But I think Rowell tends to write more flawed, atypical characters, and I like that Shiloh grew as a person. She had a tough childhood and the “before” is mostly her in high school, so it does give extra reasons for her to be so manipulative and sort of a mess.

Not only were the characters atypical and flawed, but so was their relationship. It’s a big shift from the current era of romcoms where there’s conflicts but everything is a-okay, and I like that Shiloh and Cary were in their own way at first before things could happen as they were meant to. Love can’t make everything work, it wasn’t the right time for them, and they needed to settle in their own skins before they could connect with each other like they wanted. I do wish we had a bit more of Cary’s history, especially once we started getting his point of view, but he was always fun to read. His entire perspective is basically Shiloh! (it did get a bit weird at one point) and that’s always nice to see.

There are a couple of chapters I can’t quite tell if I’m missing pages or not? I don’t think so because the page always ends in a period, but it would be a page-long chapter that feels like it’s building to go somewhere and then doesn’t. The first few times it happened, I kept trying to close and reopen the app to see if it was a me problem haha.

It’s not a Rainbow Rowell book I’m used to, but it’s definitely still a good one.

thank you NetGalley for the arc

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for allowing me to read an advance copy of this novel in exchange for my honest opinion. I have been a fan of Rainbow Rowell since I read Eleanor and Park when it first came out, so when I tell you I screamed when I saw I was approved to read this book, I SCREAMED!!! I am so glad I was approved, because this is such a beautiful love story that I think everyone will enjoy. The fact that everyone could see that Cary and Shiloh would end up together, the mutual pining, the slowburn.....UGH!!! This is an amazingly written book with just amazing characters that make mistakes and are so REAL. I have always been a fan of Rainbow Rowell's YA, and now I know I love her adult novels too!