I chose this book because I’ve often been able to relate to this title. Too tired to fight & ready to give up in my relationship.

Reading this book, gave me so much insight on how one can find connection in conflict and how to “fight” fair. One of the major things this book teaches you is how to be humble and not defensive. How to validate your partner’s feeling or experience without having to diminish your own.

My favorite part of this book, was the real conversations between the couples and how they were walked through the 3 steps of each side of the equation to have a positive and genuine outcome that worked for their specific relationships and attachment styles.

I will say, that even though this book is a shorter read than what I’m used to, it took me a lot longer to get through the book and the content than I would have had hoped.

I volunteered to read a copy of this ARC through NetGalley.