Wow. As a straight Christian with gay Christian friends, I was extremely interested in what the author, Justin Lee, had to say. He was so real and insightful. While I'm the first to admit that I don't spend nearly as much time in my Bible as I should, I also strongly disagreed with other Christians who believe that someone was destined for hell just because of who they loved. The author shares his story, but more than that, he shares his love for Jesus and his desire to follow God's will.

If you consider yourself to be a born again believer in Christ, regardless of your stance on same-sex relationships, I urge you to read this book.

I read this book when it first came out and found his story very impactful. He grew up in a loving Christian home and was so devoted to his faith he was called "God boy" at school. As he realized he was gay he naturally had a crisis and prayed and prayed for it to be taken away. Gradually he realized that this was how he was made by God. He started the gay Christian network and even coined the terms still used today by Christians as side A, affirming, and side B, non-affirming. What I find so charming about Justin is his willingness to continually love and engage with side B Christians. I do not see him as much in public life so I was excited to read the updated version of Torn. There are new chapters and new stories. It is worth the read even if you already read it. And if you haven't read it go get it!