In this memoir, the author explores her experience having a long-term chronic illness and the journey that eventually leads her to decide on choosing to die with assistance at Dignitas, a Swiss organization that performs medical aid in dying. Ms. Williams' experience in the medical system seeing multiple medical providers and unscrupulous charlatans while undergoing numerous medical procedures at their behest did get a little repetitive at times but then again-- imagine how much more frustrating it must have felt to experience that as opposed to simply reading about it. I enjoyed the descriptions of life outside of the illness as well. The discussion of medical aid in dying/assisted suicide is one that is near and dear to my heart, as a family member is currently considering it as an option, so I was eager to read another person's experience with the same organization. I understand where Ms. Williams was coming from and I wish her peace in her death. I'd recommend this book for anyone curious about assisted suicide or who doesn't understand why one might want to seek it.


Thank you to Netgalley for the ARC.

The author tackles a very timely and personal subject in choosing to end her life. I respect her journey and her ultimate decision. It was a thoughtful review life and struggles. I will be thinking about this book for a long time.

I found this book both interesting and informative, on the subject of assisted dying. I could really sympathize with Diana, when she was continously being forced off by doctors, but never seeming to to get better.
A very emotional book, and very well written.

Plagued by years of living with an undiagnosed illness, the late author Diane Williams made the decision to end her life and chose the day she would die with dignity. That practice not being legal in the U.S., she connected with Dignitas, a nonprofit in Switzerland, where this process is legal for individuals who are of sound mind and are able to personally administer their own potion, no one else can assist. (This latter point I learned from another book - In Love: A Memoir of Love and Loss by Amy Bloom.) About 80 percent of the book focuses on the challenges Diane Williams experienced not only with her illness that had no distinct pattern - there were periods of utter exhaustion, headaches, and later memory issues, but the added stress of not being able to get a true diagnosis. As well, she tried numerous costly unconventional and unproven routes doing her own internet research that seemed a bit suspect, that didn’t yield a specific diagnosis either. The author’s decision to go the death with dignity route - with Dignitas - occurs toward the end of the book. While there was brief information about how Dignitas works, I felt the book could been a lot stronger if more insights and details could have been shared about this part. (In that regard, Amy Bloom’s book shares a lot more insight that may be useful to readers.) I also felt that since this was the one major decision that the author felt she could and did make amidst all the other unknowns of her undiagnosed illness, that more focus would have been vested in this section. But I do understand the magnitude of what she was dealing resulting from thr overwhelming and final decision she made. I hope this book does “inspire meaningful conversations” as the author desired. Many thanks to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review this book.

Don't you wish you could understand the meaning of the term "dying well"? This book gives every reader all the information they need in preparation for the final life.

Thank you NetGalley for allowing me to read this ARC in exchange for an honest review


Title: Traveling Solo

Rating: ★★★★

In "Traveling Solol" author Diana William delivers a poignant and beautifully written narrative that chronicles the life of a woman who defies the odds in the face of chronic illness and misdiagnosis for over three decades. Through her struggles, triumphs, and ultimate decision to take control of her destiny through assisted suicide, this book offers a compelling exploration of autonomy, resilience, and the complexities of living with chronic illness.

The protagonist's journey is nothing short of inspiring. From the initial despair of being misdiagnosed to the relentless pursuit of answers and treatments, readers are taken on an emotional rollercoaster as she navigates the challenges of her condition. Despite the countless setbacks and moments of doubt, her unwavering determination shines through, painting a portrait of strength and resilience that is both admirable and deeply moving.

What sets this narrative apart is its unflinching portrayal of the protagonist's decision to end her life through assisted suicide. Through thoughtful prose and raw emotion, the author delicately navigates the sensitive subject matter, presenting it not as a defeat, but as a powerful assertion of autonomy and agency over one's own body. The decision is portrayed not as an act of weakness, but as a courageous choice made after careful consideration and reflection—a testament to the protagonist's unwavering resolve and unyielding spirit.

The writing itself is exquisite, with lyrical prose that captivates the reader from the very first page. The author has a remarkable ability to evoke a wide range of emotions, from heartache and despair to hope and triumph, making for a deeply immersive reading experience. Each sentence is imbued with meaning and depth, inviting readers to contemplate the complexities of the human experience and the fragility of life itself.

While "Traveling Solo" is undeniably a heartbreaking read, it is also a profoundly empowering one. Through the protagonist's journey, readers are reminded of the importance of self-determination and the inherent value of every individual's lived experience. It is a story that lingers long after the final page is turned, challenging readers to reconsider their own beliefs and perceptions surrounding illness, autonomy, and the right to choose.

In conclusion, "Traveling Solo" is a beautifully written and deeply affecting story of courage, resilience, and the power of self-determination. With its compelling narrative and thought-provoking themes, it is a book that resonates on a profound level, leaving an indelible mark on the reader's heart and mind. Highly recommended for anyone seeking a powerful and thought-provoking exploration of the human experience.

This poignant memoir delves into the journey of living with an undiagnosed chronic illness, navigating through suffering, and finding solace in surrender. Diana's struggle with debilitating symptoms, futile medical treatments, and the search for understanding highlights the challenges of unseen illnesses. Diana says “Not for the first time I wished I had a visible, bleeding wound that people could see, and that would elicit understanding and sympathy”

Despite the sadness, her story is laced with humour and love from supportive family and friend who are understanding, compassionate, empathic and by her side through decades of difficulty pain and distress.

Facing relentless suffering, conflicting medical opinions and no answers, Diana turns to Dignitas for assisted dying, realizing that surrendering can bring peace and strength. Her narrative prompts reflection on society's approach to death and the need for compassion in end-of-life decisions.

Diana's hope to shift cultural attitudes towards death and dying resonates strongly, advocating for the right to die with dignity. Diana says “Deciding to end one’s life is a personal choice. It should also be a human right” Her bravery in taking control of her final days serves as a powerful testament to the importance of autonomy in such decisions, I think Traveling Solo will inspire meaningful conversations, and I hope in the future more people will be able to have a dignified death.

This is a difficult read about a woman who had been suffering with a debilitating illness (MS) for many years, and then decided to end her life. Dignitas is a Swiss organization that does not require an individual be terminally ill to end one's life. After pursuing all available treatments, the author connects with Dignitas and, as per their legal protocol, makes arrangements to go to Switzerland and end her life. Her recollections and emotions all the way are poignant. There is no commentary or input from family members or friends. Her own exploration of her right to die in the face of insufferable circumstances is the subject of this book.