I enjoyed this book. I thought the characters and the narrative structure were very interesting. I would recommend this book to those interested in this genre. I would be interested in reading more from this author.

For a relatively heavy/dense amount of information I found myself zooming through this. The stories that are woven into the story really helped relate to the subject matter, and were a welcome reminder that there are others in the same boat.

Although I skimmed the childcare aspects, I found this book very useful, clear and concise. The layout was very difficult to read but was certainly worth navigating for the book/information provided.

Thank you netgalley for this Advanced Arc of this book

This is a Non -Fiction self help book that dives deep info (BPD) Boardeeline Personality Disorder & (NPD) Narcissistic Personality disorder ... wirh strategies and ways to deal with partners who have this and to create hopefully a more present environment.

Just last year I was diagnosed with (BPD) so I have wanted books that could help me understand it more but also to help me get a handle on things. I also have someone in my life who I Am trying work things out with who has a personality disorder as well

This has helped me with how to deal with myself and also situations when they occur a but better and I am planning to put this into action

If u want to know w bit more about trying to sort out certain things with people who come across as difficult or toxic then gibe this book a read and it maybe able to help u.

hmm. this was helpful in looking at myself more closely. i don’t know if my s/o is bpd or npd, but they are an alcoholic, and this was somewhat helpful with that also, because…. probably is npd. wish more people could find ways to think in more productive ways that minimize conflict.

Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners by Bill Eddy, Randi Kreger
I received an eBook ARC from NetGalley to read and give my honest review of.

I read the original Stop Walking on Eggshells several decades ago when it first came out. It's been considered required reading for those with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) for that whole time. It appears they're trying to make this book take a similar place in therapy.

Many of the "testimonial" or "recollections" seem to come from other people who have written books about BPD/Narcissism. I find myself not trusting those "truth's" very much. They're making money and getting publicity for their own books by being part of these books.

For the others, I have to wonder of Bill Eddy's Clinical Social Work therapy patients are aware they're being used as fodder in this book. I hope Mr. Eddy (an attorney) is able to prove he has the written consent of each persons recollections used in this book, even if he changed their names.

They way this book is written, those with BPD/Narcissism are horrible monsters and the partners are god-sent angelical beings.

As you can see, I didn't care for this book at all.

Edit: The formatting of this book, even as an ARC is atrocious. Made it nearly impossible to read at many different points while reading.

I do not recommend this book to anyone.

"Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners" by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger is an invaluable guidebook for anyone navigating the complex landscape of relationships with individuals who have borderline personality disorder (BPD). Building upon the success of their previous works, Eddy and Kreger offer practical advice, compassionate insights, and empowering strategies for partners seeking to foster healthier and more fulfilling connections with their loved ones.

At the heart of "Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners" is a deep understanding of the unique challenges faced by partners of individuals with BPD. Eddy and Kreger draw upon their extensive experience working with both individuals with BPD and their loved ones to provide nuanced perspectives and actionable tools for building stronger, more resilient relationships. Their empathetic approach acknowledges the inherent difficulties of loving someone with BPD while offering hope and guidance for navigating these challenges with grace and compassion.

One of the book's greatest strengths is its emphasis on self-care and boundary-setting for partners. Eddy and Kreger recognize the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and assertive communication strategies to protect one's own well-being while still supporting their partner's journey toward recovery. Through practical exercises and real-life examples, they empower partners to prioritize their own needs and establish boundaries that promote mutual respect and understanding.

Moreover, "Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners" offers invaluable insights into the dynamics of BPD and how they manifest within relationships. Eddy and Kreger provide readers with a comprehensive understanding of BPD symptoms, triggers, and coping mechanisms, helping partners to develop greater empathy and insight into their loved one's experiences. By fostering a deeper understanding of BPD, the book facilitates more effective communication and conflict resolution within relationships, paving the way for greater intimacy and connection.

In addition to its practical advice and clinical insights, "Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners" is distinguished by its compassionate and nonjudgmental tone. Eddy and Kreger approach the subject matter with sensitivity and empathy, recognizing the inherent humanity of both individuals with BPD and their partners. Through their supportive guidance and encouragement, they offer partners a roadmap for finding hope, healing, and renewed connection within their relationships.

In conclusion, "Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners" by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger is an indispensable resource for partners of individuals with BPD. With its practical advice, compassionate insights, and empowering strategies, it provides partners with the tools they need to navigate the complexities of loving someone with BPD while maintaining their own emotional well-being. Whether you're seeking to deepen your understanding of BPD or looking for practical strategies for building healthier relationships, this book is an invaluable companion on the journey toward healing and connection.

Thank you to NetGalley, the author, and publisher for an advanced copy to review for my honest opinion.

This was a great read! Def recommend for anyone who has dated a narc or grew up with trauma, abuse & narc parents.

"When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them!!!"

Pay attention to your partner being your dream in the beginning and note of how this changes! Stable partners don’t present as your dream partner and then POOF into a nightmare! And your relationship isn’t supposed to be CONFUSING! (We don’t know this when we come from trauma) and it takes time to really get this into your brain!

I really resonated with this book, being a child that had to walk on eggshells around her parents fragile egos/unhealed trauma, and then this became me walking around eggshells with all my past partners.

Randi/Bill really understand and capture what it’s like to be in relationship with narc/BPD people and how crazy making it is. They touch on how there’s really no changing for these type of people unless they are really super committed to changing & doing the work (I’ve never come across a person with either NPD/BPD that was willing to change. They sure did fake & pretend like they did though lol).

This book was a good reminder and refresher for me. There’s a lot of good info to take in around healthier relating, intimacy, how we end up walking on eggshells in the first place. Healing is about learning to take care of you first and learning to use your voice! Expose yourself to other ways of living & healthier relationships! Walking on eggshells isn’t normal & it took me a long time to learn and understand that & what a healthy relationship is! I highly recommend for anyone who has had to walk on eggshells with the people in their lives be it family or love relationship!

This book is a great informative read! From the first couple of pages I was fully invested. There’s relatable content, statistics, and insight to various personality types. If you ever questioned if you’re with a narcissist or someone with a personality disorder then I suggest this read!

If you are the target audience for this book, I definitely feel your pain. I’ve read the original over and over and over, seeking solace, and I’m a static there is a book with the same practicality and common sense targeted just for us. If you have someone like this, in your life, you need this book