The book I read is not the book I expected it to be. In looking at the cover, I expected a light-hearted rom-com book, however there is no com in this slight rom.

The story is deeper that it is marketed as being. Very AA heavy. Some will love this fact, others, like myself, will be disappointed.

A no for me, but I did enjoy the writing and so I will try another book by this author.

First, I was surprised by how quickly this picked up and how easy it was to read. And then I was impressed by the story of alcoholism that was told. I can count three tv shows in the last 5 years that have used a spunky woman in recovery as their plot. I loved them, but they relied on her failure, either to get sober or stay sober and used her mess to entertain audiences. This is not that. It’s hopeful and sincere without rose-tinting the experience. I think what the author has done is incredible. The religious and forced-positivity of AA prickled at my skin but the character’s own monologue helped to dull it enough that I could continue reading. I’m really glad I did. There’s a romantic element but that’s not the purpose of the story. It reminded me of “Funny Story” by Emily Henry in that aspect. In fact, EH fans would really enjoy the way this was structured.

I really enjoyed this one. I struggle to say it’s a romance book as that’s just a sliver of the story. We get a full insight into the main character’s life through sobriety, and her love interest is simply part of it. The author did a phenomenal job of diving deep into some very complex emotions and relationships.

I was very fortunate to receive an advanced reader copy from NetGalley but all thoughts are unbiased and my own!

I really enjoyed this book! At times it felt a little slow so I’m giving in minus one star for that, but overall no other complaints. Emma, the main character, is facing the start of the rest of her life after reaching one year of sobriety. The emotions and topics covered were pretty heavy but I thought the author did a beautiful job covering addiction and loss. Definitely cried.

It is not a feel good book, but I felt satisfied at the end of the read!!

Definitely Better Now takes the readers on the Journey of Emma, a recovering alcoholic struggling to adapt to life’s new experiences. The book opens with her AA group throwing a 1 year sober anniversary party for her. After that, her daily life is recounted as she navigates work life, a new crush, her strained relationship with her mother and with her own alcoholic father, and her endeavors to form healthy friendships.

The book is slow-paced, and it’s more like a “slice-of-life” piece of literature. Emma’s character is well developed; she is absolutely not perfect, but she is constantly recognizing her shortcomings and trying to become her better sober-self. As I kept reading, I recognized how her behavior fit the pattern of an alcoholic, as it was described early in the book. I genuinely enjoyed that she’s mostly surrounded by supportive people who want the best for her. Not everyone is supportive when one decides to stay sober, but those who are willing to learn and adapt to a person’s choice become a support system for that individual.

Emma’s story was well written, and each character was developed as their own person and I could understand their reasoning after a while. I enjoyed the characterization and the development the most in this novel. Definitely a book I recommend reading to start 2025.

There are so many emotions! Such a thought-provoking, witty, heartfelt story surrounding addiction and grief. Finding yourself after being lost for so long is a hard journey.

Read if you enjoy:

🩷 Stories about addiction recovery
🩷 Second Chances
🩷 Family drama
🩷 Redemption
🩷 Loss rep and grief
🩷 Self love

I really enjoyed this book and read it in a day. The characters were a bit messy, but I loved them. I highly recommend.

Thank you NetGalley and Ava Robinson for the opportunity to read this E-ARC. All thoughts and opinions are mine. It was wonderful.

I found this to be a very well-written debut. The portrayal of a person dealing with such a life changing decision and then how those around her affect her while in the midst of it, was so wonderfully done.

4⭐️

An amazing debut novel by Ava Robinson! I am not well versed in the world of AA and this was an interesting insight.

Seeing Emma overcome and become a better and healthier version of herself in the midst of hardship was encouraging and inspiring. I’m glad the romance element didn’t overtake the plot and was happy to see growth of the FMC in multiple areas throughout the story. Perseverance, trusting yourself, and standing up for yourself are all such important themes for young adult women. This perspective through Emma was wonderful

And to see a healthy relationship and boundaries 👏

Thank you to NetGalley and Harlequin Trade Publishing for the ARC.

I don't know if I should thank netgalley for this or bill them for my therapy. Since I DID technically love this book, I guess I'll just thank them. I absolutely loved this beautiful, messy, heartwarming AND heartbreaking story. I loved Emma's transparent POV and seeing her grow throughout the story, perfectly describing the absolute storm of feelings that come with addiction and sobriety. I laughed, I cried, I wanted to slap some side characters on her behalf. I was hesitant to start this one, because of the main plot point (her journey through sobriety) but I'm SO glad I did.

Painfully honest and laugh out loud funny, this endearing tale of a young alcoholic left me wanting to read more. I found the FMC to be so relatable, sober or not. She was self-deprecating in a hilarious way and was so cringeworthy with some of her encounters that all you could do was go along with her.

I loved the romance piece tied into this, and the lovely coming of age story for someone you just can't help but root for!
Kudos to the author for making this piece so relevant and easy to engage with!

Definitely Better Now is both a gut punch and also a warm hug of a story. While I’ve not struggled with alcoholism myself, Emma’s story still very much resonated with me and I absolutely adored her as a character. I loved her journey of opening up to people after spending so long isolating herself. I loved how she stood up for herself when she needed to and also learned to give others grace. I really enjoyed seeing her and Ben’s relationship evolve so much. Also, the look at breaking generational cycles was really interesting. And that ending, so beautiful and such a full circle moment. I think fans of Adelaide and Margo’s Got Money Troubles will really enjoy this one.
CW: alcoholism, grief, death of a parent, drug use, sexual harassment

Thank you to Harlequin Trade Publishing/MIRA for the gifted digital review copy in exchange for an honest review!

Oh, Emma. Some characters just burrow their way into your heart. You can see yourself in them. You have a soft spot for them. Emma was one of those characters for me. This book was a breath of fresh air. It was a quiet, touching story about navigating life in recovery. It takes a special author to write a story like this. On page, it seems like not much is happening at times but the character growth and story are simply flowing that easily. It’s easy to get lost in. I cannot wait to see what this author does next.

if you like books that are a little deeper and have a beautiful message then this is the book for you!! This story follows Emma who is a recovering alcoholic and shows us her journey through AA (which was so interesting to learn more about the AA process) we also get to see her mend and process her relationship with her father who is also an alcoholic. This was a beautifully written story of a girl who is trying to figure it out and make a better life for herself. As a person who’s witnessed people struggle with addiction, Emma felt so real and I just have such a soft spot for her. This book made me laugh, it made me cry, and it had me rooting Emma on no matter what. I loved the slight addition of romance through Ben and thought he did a great job supporting Emma. I also loved the journey Emma took to learn how to trust and let people in again. This is definitely not a lighthearted read but nonetheless it is beautiful and I adored it. It’s out NOW so give it a read!!! I feel so lucky to have received this ARC and I am so thankful 🥺🫶🏼 thank you thank you thank you harlequin publishing!!

Definitely Better Now by Ava Robinson was an amazing debut novel!

Emma is one year sober, and she feels like everything should have fallen into place by now. But there are many things that still seem to not be going right - her relationship with her dad, her inability to date, her job, and her feelings towards her sponsor and her AA group. Emma must learn that life is messy even while sober, and how to accept all aspects of life, as well as how to accept help and love from others.

As someone who has personally experienced addiction within families, I felt that this was such a great portrayal of that struggle. I loved how Robinson balanced the serious aspects of sobriety with the humor of daily life, embarrassments, and growing pains. I laughed, cried, and felt joy for Emma while reading this novel.

This is one I will definitely be purchasing a physical copy of to reread now that it is released.

Thank you NetGalley and Mira Books for the advanced digital copy in exchange for my review.

3.5 stars

Sometimes, a book captures a particular moment of a reader's life so effectively that it's scary, and that definitely happened for me with aspects of this debut from Ava Robinson. While those personal connections gave me some solidly terrible flashbacks and kept me engaged, I'd have loved to feel so dialed in all the way through.

Ava is 26 and she's been sober for a year. Like all freshly sober people, Ava has had enough time to start to enjoy some of the benefits of a life NOT muddled by debilitating hangovers, consistently cringy decisions, and even dangerous behavior. ALSO like folks who are at just that stage, Ava is navigating her way through some tough terrain. What's it like to be in a romantic relationship without alcohol? What's it like to try to be social around other "normies" when you're not sure if you can manage yourself in grown people's social settings? How, possibly, will you face lifechanging personal losses and changes without the escape alcohol can provide (and you don't know how to give yourself because you've always used alcohol for this purpose)? These and many other related questions and topics are expressed like an actual pro by Robinson. I feel confident saying this because I lived it and watched (and have continued to watch) many, many others do the same for multiple decades now. Robinson really nails the recovery experience, and for me, this is an absolute highlight of the book. It was also - even decades out - really tough to read because it's so well-articulated. Folks who are in recovery (or who have guessed they maybe should be) may struggle with how relatable parts of this are.

Now, while the aforementioned element is spot-on, Ava's journey is a bit inconsistent in terms of pacing and engagement. Parts of this novel were too slow for me. While building romantic relationships in sobriety is a major hurdle, I also wish that hadn't been so much of the focus, especially where there are so many other interesting connections to be explored here. Part of this is Ava's age, I'm sure, but for a person who is finally starting to look inside and get to know herself, I'd have loved to see a little more exploration of other parts of her life.

Overall, I enjoyed this listen (props to the inimitable Karissa Vacker - as soon as I saw who the audio narrator was, I snapped up this option). I'll definitely be back for more from this author.

Painfully honest and laugh out loud funny, this endearing tale of a young alcoholic left me wanting to read more. I found the FMC to be so relatable, sober or not. She was self-deprecating in a hilarious way, and was so cringeworthy with some of her encounters that all you could do was go along with her.
I loved the romance piece tied into this, and the lovely coming of age story for someone you just can't help but root for!
Kudos to the author for making this piece so relevant and easy to engage with!

I've read lots of memoirs and fiction about people struggling with active addiction and the early days of sobriety, but this book that focuses on Emma's second year of sobriety, and her reemergence into the world, confident in her sobriety but not necessarily ready to share herself with the people around her. Managing situations sober for the first time makes a lot of things feel like they are happening for the first time to Emma, and she's learning a whole new way of managing people and experiences. I was really attached to this character, and this story, and ultimately it was a really warm, truthful feeling story.

Many thanks to Harlequin Trade - MIRA for the digital review copy.

Definitely Better Now was one of those books that grabbed hold of me from page one. The writing voice is spot-on, drawing us immediately into the awkwardness and confusion of Emma's interior world. I could relate to and understand how she arrived at her decisions, even if I didn't always agree with them.

The plot challenges Emma without undoing her in a way that felt true to life. There was just enough going on to keep the momentum, but not so much that the book screamed "hello I am fictional." Dealing with awkward online dating, trying to decide if your coworker is into you, and your dad being weird all at once is a lot, but it felt like a realistic kind of a lot.

I really enjoyed how Emma got to relearn autonomy. The specific AA group she's been in for the past year is incredibly structured and you can see her chafe against that at times. I was nervous for how that might play out, but really pleased with where we wound up.

In all, this book had me laughing and crying, which is always a good sign in my opinion. Definitely Better Now felt authentic and powerful without going over the top, and I can't wait to see what Robinson does next. I highly recommend this one to anyone who enjoys heartfelt novels about the challenges of life that ultimately have a realistically hopeful conclusion.

For those expecting a light-hearted, funny narrative about what it's like to be sober, this is not that book. It’s mostly quiet, and it’s heavy.

Emma is a 26-year-old recovering alcoholic, navigating life with two distinct personalities—Work Emma and Real Emma. She finds it safer to hide behind the professional, courteous persona she has carefully crafted. She’s determined to keep her sobriety —and the person she used to be—a secret, and making friends is difficult because most social interactions involve drinking. But when she’s reluctantly roped into joining the Fun Team to help plan the office Christmas party, she’s forced to interact with coworkers, including the arrogant guy from Finance. She’ll also have to deal with Ben, who makes her heart race—the guy she likes but doesn’t know how to date.

While I can’t say I relate to being addicted or going through recovery, I can relate to the part of her that's a confused introvert trying to find her way. Having used alcohol as a crutch for years, she's now learning to navigate a life that feels unfamiliar without it.

There's some romance in this book, but it isn't a major plot point. I liked that while being endearing and heartwarming, the romance didn't overpower the themes of recovery and self-discovery.

It’s hard to believe this is a debut novel—it’s well-written, insightful and the main character is likable. While the book doesn’t dive into any huge dramatic moments, it offers a raw and honest portrayal of Emma learning to live a sober life and starting to form meaningful relationships again. More importantly, it’s about her learning to love herself and rebuild trust.

My only qualm is that some parts of the book felt predictable and seemed to be more geared toward a mid-twenties audience.

Overall, despite tackling heavy themes, the book wraps up quite well and showcases incredible growth in Emma’s character.

Thanks to Harpercollins and NetGalley for the eARC.

This book is beautiful in its realistic depiction of someone dealing with life after sobriety. It has been one year since Emma has had a drink or done drugs, and of course life would come at her hard. This book shows how Emma deals with all the ups and downs of life once one is sober. I appreciate that it is not a light and fluffy path, but one filled with twist and turns. I also apricate hearing her inner thoughts on her interactions with the AA community, and people who once were a huge part of her life. I think having books like this that show life isn’t perfect allows others on this journey to find representation and know that it is okay to not be okay, and still find a way to hold on to your new beliefs.
Thank you so much to Harlequin Trade Publishing and Netgalley for allowing me to read an advance copy of this title.