I did not like this that much. It was an interesting concept, however, the characters really irritated me. I understand that they were both going through a lot, but they blamed every other person in their life for their problems instead of accepting responsibility or trying to improve their life. It seemed like they didn’t really learn to improve, the author just had to wrap up the book. Honestly, I wasn’t really rooting for them to get together. I think they would’ve been better as friends. The ending of them getting together felt rushed and it didn’t really feel like they wanted to be together, it was just convenient.

My expectations for this one led me astray. there was barely any romance. it was definitely a slow burn, I'll tell you that. I will not spoil the reason that the two characters had a previous major tiff, but I will say it was not a good enough reason to justify such a response.

It was very heavy on grief and loss, which I don't inherently mind. I actually prefer when my romances have deeper themes in them. however, what I did not love was the weird hallucination/magical realism moment that occurred.

I really did not connect with the main character, and honestly I found her insufferable.

I really wanted to like this book, but I had trouble connecting with the characters. It took me forever to get through, . This book was not as much of a romance as I wanted it to be. This book covers topics of bullying, family issues, terminal illness and death, and even toxic workplaces.

3.5⭐️
✔️nods to classic literature
✔️slow burn romance
✔️heavy themes of grief, bullying and mental illness
✔️dual POV
I had the privilege of receiving an ARC of “The Book Swap” by Harlequin Trade Publishing and NetGalley! I have to start this review by saying this was a great debut novel for Tessa Bickers!

Going into this book I was expecting a cute and cheesy romance. The Book Swap is NOT a flowery rom com. There are strong themes of battling grief and bullying throughout the novel.

Erin(FMC) loses her favorite book To Kill a Mockingbird, which also houses her best friend’s last note to her. When the book finally turns up, it has been annotated by a “mystery man”. He also invites her to continue their book notes in other classic novels, shared through a book swap. Thus beginning our characters (re)connection. I thought the storyline premise was well thought out and written. My only issue was my inability to connect with the FMC. There is something about Erin that just didn’t resonate with me as a character. I empathize with her struggles but couldn’t relate to her in any real way. So it made it hard for me to root for her. Though we get lots of mentions about Bonnie(deceased friend) her character still felt foreign, which also made it hard for me to feel the impact of her loss.

All-in-all The Book Swap was a good read for anyone who loves classic literature and a slow burn romance! Happy Reading!💗

This novel was deeper and covered more ground than I expected. Based on the premise, I was expecting a light rom com but there was a lot more here - grief, trauma, bullying among others. In between the book note romance in the little library, characters deal with big life decisions. I held back tears on a plane reading this story and truly enjoyed the read.

The Book Swap is a slow burn with an engaging plot but I felt the characters needed a little more depth. However, it is easy to connect with the characters and find joy and magic in the storytelling.

Thank you NetGalley and Harlequin Trade Publishing for this eARC in exchange for an honest review.

I’m very indifferent about this book. It quite literally was the slowest burn I have ever read. I’m talking the couple doesn’t become a couple until the last 3 pages, so we don’t get to see much of them as a couple AT ALL, which I do not like. The characters were good and I liked the concept the book swapping, making them fall in love, but the fact that there was nothing after they got together, just really kind of ruined the book for me. It was so much build up for nothing. It’s actually disappointing to me.
Overall, an okay read. Good characters, with a good concept, but just a poor ending.

I think the premise of this book is a very engaging one, but I also feel like these characters needed a bit more depth to make their sadness/grief more relatable and believable. What’s more is it’s hard to follow how they’re falling in love, rather than just supporting one another over a shared bad experiences sometimes I felt as though the extreme detail detracted from the story, rather than setting the scene and helping me to feel more deeply. That said, I do think that Ms. Bickers shows a lot of promise and just a good solid editor can reshape this to fine tune it into a great book.

"The Book Swap" by Tessa Bickers is a delightful journey through the magic of storytelling and the power of human connection. Bickers weaves a heartwarming tale of friendship, community, and the transformative impact of books. As the characters embark on their book-swapping adventures, readers are treated to a charming exploration of different genres, perspectives, and emotions. With its cozy setting and endearing cast, "The Book Swap" is a celebration of the joy found in sharing stories and the bonds that form over a shared love of literature.

First I would like to thank NetGalley and Harlequin for sending me this advance reader copy. I truly loved and enjoyed this book.

The Book Swap pulled me in from the beginning and kept me enthralled through the entire book. The way Tessa portrays mental illness and grief is beautifully done. Her characters and experiences are relatable, and really portrays what changes you experience in your 30’s.

If you are expecting a lighthearted romance, this is not it. If you’re wanting to experience all the feels, then this is the book for you. Erin and James are both struggling with their own past and are struggling to move forward. It is fate that brings these old friends back together after the loss of their friend Bonnie. I really loved the growth in this book with the characters and the emotions felt, experiences of what they’ve gone through, and the second chance at love.

Definitely looking forward to more books by Tessa

**this book depicts death, grief, bullying, verbal abuse, and severe mental illness, if any of this topics are triggering, please do not read. You’re mental health matters.**

5/5📚💌 I. AM. OBSESSED. WITH. THIS. BOOK.
i want to thank @ for allowing me to read her ARC, i am forever grateful!

short summary:
erin and james are estranged, childhood friends that reconnect through a little library and their individual healing journeys.
after accidentally giving away a well-loved book (with notes in the margins) during a marie-condo styled clean out of her room, erin rushes back to where she thinks she left it- the little library down the street. in finding it, she also realizes that someone else has answered her notes, AND has asked her to meet her in another book, Great Expectations. from there, the book swap starts and little does erin know, that her most hated frenemy is the one behind the pages.

things i loved:
💌the writing, man, tessa writes some beautiful, introspective quotes. there were so many times i wished i had the physical copy so i could underline or highlight.
💌erin & james’ growth- though they each lost someone they loved, they were able to use their newly founded (mystery) relationship to help them heal from that, while also creating a connection.
💌THAT HAPPY ENDING- tessa had me scared there for a moment but man, oh MAN WAS IT WORTH IT.
💌the book lover plot- finding the man you love through the pages of a book has got to be one of the most romantic things ever.

something to note, i do wish there was a bit more romance, in person, between the two of them. but i also kind of understand why the author kept them apart for as long as she did- especially because erin was still learning how to heal and james needed time to rediscover himself w/out the burden of his parents.

do I recommend? 10000000% yes- and if you read it & love it, pls lmk so we can cry together.

💌notes:
-a path of rediscovery
-friends turned enemies to lovers
-healing journey
-bff dies from cancer
-both have issues w parents and are trying to find themselves in the midst of pain

Thank you to Netgalley and Tessa Bickers for an ARC of this novel in exchange for an honest review.

This is a book I desperately wanted to like. I think the concept earns it the rating, but the execution is the reason it’s not higher. I liked the characters, I loved the book swap itself, but the way the character history came to light was a bit jarring and never truly resolved.

Erin, our protagonist, is at a dead end in life. She works in a job she hates, her best friend lost her life in a battle with cancer, and her current intimate relationship is with her loser flatmate. That is, until she quits her job and impulsively cleans out her room. She accidentally drops a book with a note from her friend in a community library and everything changes.

James, an ex high school friend of Erin’s, splits his time in London and their home town. On his most recent stint in London he stops at the community library. He reads Erin’s book and returns it, along with one of his own, and they develop a relationship in the margins of the pages. As they secretly fall for each other both are working to improve their lives.

All of that is well and good. I love that Erin quits her job and has no idea how to get to the next phase of her life. I love that she has non-romantic relationships that she constantly works to improve. I love that James has friends and family that he needs to get closer to. I love that he gets everything he thought he wanted and needs to evaluate where to go next (in the same but opposite way as Erin does). What I don’t like is the rest of it. Erin is selfish and James is close minded. Their families push them for the entire book to realize what’s going on, and it takes the entire novel to finally accept themselves and their peers as humans. And the inciting factor that broke up their friendship in high school is WILD. I won’t spoil it but honestly it was a very jarring and, maybe this is a personal thing but it fully brought me out of the good feelings that the book swap itself gave me.

I’m glad I read this book, my dream is to share books with my loved ones and talk about them. But Erin and James are going to need a LOT of therapy before they can be in a successful relationship.

Thank you to Netgalley and Tessa Bickers for an ARC of this novel in exchange for an honest review.

This is a book I desperately wanted to like. I think the concept earns it the rating, but the execution is the reason it’s not higher. I liked the characters, I loved the book swap itself, but the way the character history came to light was a bit jarring and never truly resolved.

Erin, our protagonist, is at a dead end in life. She works in a job she hates, her best friend lost her life in a battle with cancer, and her current intimate relationship is with her loser flatmate. That is, until she quits her job and impulsively cleans out her room. She accidentally drops a book with a note from her friend in a community library and everything changes.

James, an ex high school friend of Erin’s, splits his time in London and their home town. On his most recent stint in London he stops at the community library. He reads Erin’s book and returns it, along with one of his own, and they develop a relationship in the margins of the pages. As they secretly fall for each other both are working to improve their lives.

All of that is well and good. I love that Erin quits her job and has no idea how to get to the next phase of her life. I love that she has non-romantic relationships that she constantly works to improve. I love that James has friends and family that he needs to get closer to. I love that he gets everything he thought he wanted and needs to evaluate where to go next (in the same but opposite way as Erin does). What I don’t like is the rest of it. Erin is selfish and James is close minded. Their families push them for the entire book to realize what’s going on, and it takes the entire novel to finally accept themselves and their peers as humans. And the inciting factor that broke up their friendship in high school is WILD. I won’t spoil it but honestly it was a very jarring and, maybe this is a personal thing but it fully brought me out of the good feelings that the book swap itself gave me.

I’m glad I read this book, my dream is to share books with my loved ones and talk about them. But Erin and James are going to need a LOT of therapy before they can be in a successful relationship.

Thank you to NetGalley and harlequin trade publishing for an ARC of this book in exchange for my honest review.


I found this book cute and the references to the above book refreshing. I think for me the bookish content was the best part of the book for me. I found the concept of the book intriguing and the author did a good job bringing out the POV of the characters voices. However, I felt some of the language surrounding the mom a little harsh.

Thank you NetGalley for the advance reader copy to review!

This book took me by surprise and didn’t let up! As Erin’s world is turned upside down by grief, she finds a new start in the most unexpected of ways, by accidentally falling into a book swap with a Mystery Man at a free little library. But when Mystery Man turns out to be a heartbreak from her past, she has to choose whether or not forgiveness is worth a shot at happily ever after.

This is NOT a cozy rom com, but instead a journey of grief, purpose, friendship, and reconciliation. Lovers of literary classics and You’ve Got Mail will love this read.

As a regular romance reader, this book was a slower start for me, but there is a lot of backstory building in it. The story puts a lot of effort in revealing the characters’ heartaches and struggles, and in doing so it makes the redemption in the end so much more powerful.

Favorite Quote:
— “Sometimes redemption isn’t just about saying sorry, it’s about how you recover from the mistakes you make. Bettering yourself is the best kind of apology you can make.”
— “Philippa told me a lot of people respond in that way when a loved one is diagnosed with cancer. They feel forced to start the grieving process before that person is even gone. They start imagining a life without them. Preparing themselves, and then feeling guilty for being able to even consider it.”

Tropes:
—Sloooooow burn
—Second chance romance (kind of)

Trigger Warnings:
—Grief
—Death (cancer)
—Mental health (depression, bipolar)
—Bullying
—Family discord

Thank you Netgalley for the ARC.
I found this book to have a very interesting premise but hard to follow. In my opinion the main characters, Erin and James were entirely forgettable, so I had a hard time remembering any details about them. I did not REALLY believe the grief experienced by either of these characters throughout the story, though the book heavily relied on the grief aspect as a major plot point. To me this is much more about two people getting over the death of a friend than about falling in love. There was a lot of background detail that wasn't needed and the writing style felt a little overwhelming and was not an easy read. I think the idea of the book was great but it could use a fair amount of tuning up.

Thank you @netgalley and @htpbooks for my digital copy of this book in exchange for my honest review!

Our FMC, Erin, is dealing with a tough time after losing her bestie and quitting her job. Then she accidentally donates her fave book, “To Kill a Mockingbird,” with a card from her late friend to a community library. When she finds it again with notes in the margins, things get interesting.

Enter James, back in town to look after his mom. He’s been through the wringer with bullies and losing people close to him, like Erin and her pal Bonnie. As he reevaluates life, he picks up Erin’s book from the library, sparking a connection through their notes.

This book totally caught me off guard! I thought it’d be a light rom-com, but it’s way deeper. Tessa Bickers nails themes like grief and healing, subjective perspectives of success and failure, parenthood, bullying, and parental relationships. It was a cute, cozy story that made me feel a million emotions. I will say that the first half was better than the second half which is my only critique!

The premise of The Book Swap is that two people connect via swapping annotated books. Which seemed right up my alley. I thought it was the premise for a cute little romance. And while the summary of the book does talk about how both the main characters are both dealing with grief of the struggle of pressure from family with mental health issues, I did not realize how pervasive those would be throughout the book./

This book suffers two big problems. It is marketed more like it's a romance when it clearly leans more lit fic. And it is not well done lit fic, in my personal opinion.

I feel I need to be completely honest and disclose that I DNF'd this at 10%. The writing itself was tolerable. It wasn't good, nor bad. Just sort of mid. There was a LOT of focus on outfits that Erin was wearing though they held no real importance and it gave me very fanfic vibes. But what really got me about Erin's POV was after she quits her job, she comes home to deal with the fallout of that decision, And Bonnie, her friend who is DEAD, is sitting in her room and cheering her on as she Marie Kondos her life. And it's just treated as a normal thing.

And then there's James. James's mom deals with having bi-polar disorder. His whole family seems to have been dealing with her emotional back an forth for years now. He's come down from his place in London to once again help her through a depressive episode. His dad is a one hit wonder who gave up a promising music career for his momm. There's a lot of complicated emotions there, which I don't mind seeing in books. However, it just didn't feel like it was done well. There were a few references to James seemingly blaming himself for his mother's disorder, which didn't make sense to me.

An important thing to note, THIS ARC DID NOT COME WITH TRIGGER WARNINGS. The efficacy of them aside, this is a book that clearly deals heavily with the topic of grief, mental illness, complicated relationships resulting from that, and such. And those should be clearly disclosed.

I also had formatting issues with my ARC. The version I downloaded to my NetGalley shelf app seemed to just be scanned from the print copy almost. The background was white and the font was skinny and black, which made it hard to read for me. I downloaded it to my kindle app, only for any word that started with f to have a space between the f and the rest of the word.

An incredibly enjoyable story from a debut author that was so much deeper than the cover of the book portrays. I thought that this book was going to be a light-hearted cheesy romance and it was not. The story was definitely a fun read, but the depth of the characters and the secrets that were revealed were so heartbreaking and touching that I will remember this book for a long time.

Erin Connolly has lost her best friend and is having a hard time moving on, when she decides to clean up her life and her flat and make some changes. She drops off several books that were cluttering her shelves to a free neighborhood library, but accidentally drops off her favorite book that she has written notes in the margins. After she discovers her mistake, Erin runs back to the little library hoping her book has been returned. When it is returned, but someone has responded to her notes in the margins, a conversation ensues and a relationship formed.

I loved each imperfect character and the real life struggles that each character was dealing with. This novel is not just an entertaining story, but the author dealt with problems that many of us may be confronting in our own lives. There were many lessons to be learned within Erin’s and her or pen pal’s lives, that I felt maybe I should be writing notes in the margins.

This was a fantastic book from a debut author. I will be excited to read more from Tessa Bickers.

Thank you Net Galley and Harlequin Trade Publishing for the Advanced Reader Copy. I will definitely recommend this wonderful book to my bookish friends when it is released September 3, 2024. #NetGalley #TheBookSwap www.Harlequin.com www.BookClubbish.com

I adored this book. After a couple books I found to be okay, I was hesitant to read Tessa Bickers’s “The Book Swap.” I’m glad I took a chance and decided to read this book.

The overview does a good job of preparing the reader for what the plot entails. The chapters tend to alternate between Erin and her “Mystery Man.” The reader finds out early on the identify of the “Mystery Man.” However, that fact did little to deter me from wandering how the author would develop and resolve the storyline.

Overall, I highly recommend this book. Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for my ARC.