A Forty Year Kiss by Nickolas Butler is a poignant and reflective novel that explores the complexities of love, time, and memory. The story centers around two main characters who shared a kiss 40 years ago and have lived their separate lives ever since. As they reconnect, the novel delves into their pasts, the choices they've made, and the what-ifs that have lingered in their minds. Butler's writing captures the essence of long-lost connections and the enduring impact of a single moment. The narrative weaves through their memories, creating a touching and heartfelt exploration of how love can shape and transform lives over decades.

Thank you NetGalley and Sourcebooks for providing this E-ARC in exchange for my honest thoughts :)

This was a sweet, slow burn, second chance romance. Can a love that was lost 40 years ago be rekindled?? I enjoyed this story, however I think a little bit more romance would have added so much to the story. Overall this was a solid read.

Unfortunately this book did not hold my interest. I may give it another shot at a later date, Oh well.

Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for the arc.

This book is about two people who are in their 60s and are looking for a second chance with each other. They were married for a brief time 40 years ago and Charlie has decided he wants to see if he and Vivian can make a go of it a second time. The story unfolds as the two rediscover one another. Some of what they find is downright ugly and painful, the depth of the story is refreshing. This is not a rom-com, this is very real and raw. It is a story to savor a bit as love, life, can be hard but worth the effort. Showing how priorities change and realization of what you might have missed out on pursusing addictions. A Forty Year Kiss is a beautiful novel of love, forgiveness, and redemption. Charlie is a likable character who has worked hard to deal with his problems, he still has one that will take work to get under control. Vivian is a giving woman who struggles to accept Charlie’s generosity. She is skeptical that Charlie is truly a changed man. Thank you to Netgalley, the publisher, and the author for the opportunity.

A Forty Year Kiss takes place in a small town and is about one couple who gets a second chance at love after their divorce forty years ago. The author wrote this well and all of the characters in this were so good. I was cheering on Charlie and Vivian from the start. This was such a beautiful romance story and I look forward to reading other books from this author. I highly enjoyed this read and would recommend it to any reader who loves romance. Thank you to NetGalley and Sourcebooks Landmark for this read in exchange of my honest review of A Forty Year Kiss by Nickolas Butler.

I really enjoyed this book! I found it easy to read and understand. I highly recommend this book! I really honestly suck at leaving reviews.

Not good. I’m not sure if it just isn’t my genre preferences - mature second chance love. But I found it very plodding. Don’t recommend.

I suffered reading through this book hoping it would get better. Sadly, it did not. Why?

Issue 1: The 2 main characters are very unlikeable and super cringey. They did not learn anything or evolve from start to finish.

Issue 2: Where the heck was the editor for this? Where was a proofreader, if the editor didn't want this job? Someone did not do their one job! When there was any dialogue in the book, it was hard to know if it was a discussion or the thoughts of the character. Zero quotation marks! This was an epic fail.

Cannot recommend. Not for me.

THanks to Netgalley, Nicklas Butler (not your best work), and Sourcebooks Landmark for an ARC in exhange for an honest review.

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I received this as an advanced reader copy and failed to read it before release date (2/4/25.) But I read it all today!

I thought this was a good book; very well written. It's a little slow and unrealistic at times, but a sweet second-chance romance.
We follow Charlie and Melissa as they meet up 40 years after their divorce from each other.
This story is full of feelings; love, loss, guilt, grudges, and forgiveness. Alcoholism is a decent part of the story, delving into how it affects individuals and families.
All in all, this is a good read!

A Forty Year Kiss by Nickolas Butler is a beautifully written book. The depth of feelings and the joy this couple feels is so real. Full disclosure - I'd love that story to be mine.

“I don’t think we’ve peaked. Not by a long shot. I think our best days are ahead of us“


Forty year kiss is a wistful, character driven story about a second chance between to old lovers. I am always down for a second chance romance but this one was something I chose to broaden my reading taste while having something to anchor me. I figured this be the only way I would read a story about two 60 year olds, because I thought, how could I relate to them? Well, all these pages later and I’m so glad that I did. This novel was great in its rawness regarding addiction, poverty, life’s disappointments, and the fear of love and being let down.
My heart ached for Charlie, it ached for Melissa, it ached for them all. This story was also uplifting and inspiring at times as well.

The book opens with Charlie waiting at a restaurant bar waiting for his ex-wife Vivian to arrive. The poor guy had got there an hour early to make sure he wasn’t late and that he was there before her so she wouldn’t have to wait on him. Early on in the first chapter you already can see how earnest and genuine he is, and how sincere he is in trying to impress her again. 🥺 we find out that Charlie has been a longtime alcoholic and that is the reason his marriage with Vivian broke down in the first place. But he’s changed in a lot of other ways during the time they’ve been separated, including his awareness of how alcohol effects him.

Vivian agrees to meet Charlie after he finds her on Facebook and is swooped off her feet by him. However, she has to battle the years of disappointments and struggles to allow herself to be happy and accept this new version of Charlie. It felt super realistic because it wasn’t like they ended on good terms. While Charlie has been living, albeit poorly, she’s been the responsible parent (her daughter Melissa) making ends meet in her second marriage. Followed by being a secondary caregiver to her granddaughters as she currently lives with her daughter and her two granddaughters. This causes friction across their reconciliation.

During the course of the novel the dynamics that run between them all get pulled and stretched and then come back closer together. I really adored the relationship Charlie and Melissa developed as well. This was indeed a great story about second chances at love and at life. The only con I really had was that the author wrote in 3rd person which is not my preferred method of consumption lol. Overall, like I said the story is well done that I was able to look pass it and continue on.


Thank you Sourcebooks Landmark for the eARC via NetGalley in exchange for my honest review 💕

*4.5 Stars On My Instagram Account*

"I dream about the mornings when we were lying in bed...I can still see the curtains in our bedroom, the white lace, moving with the wind...I dream about kissing you. Can I? Can I kiss you?"

The tenderness in the language used by remarkably poignant author Nickolas Butler, in his meaningful later in life second chance romance, A Forty Year Kiss, often left me breathless.

Charlie and Vivian were married for 4 years in their early 20s. Their divorce wasn't about falling out of love. It was about disappointment. Charlie's excessive drinking, fighting more than making love, and the bills piling up. Now 40 years later, Charlie has reached out to Vivian.

They both have led their lives. Vivian is a widowed grandmother. Charlie is divorced, retired from the railroad. His mind keeps going back to Vivian. The regrets, the mistakes, the what ifs. Vivian wonders about him too. Seeing him again still gives her butterflies. But all she can think is, "But please, don’t break this woman’s heart twice."

This writer doesn't use quotation marks. Reading the book is like waves lapping over
thoughts. It takes a moment to realize they are speaking not thinking to themselves. Listening to the audiobook, beautifully performed with quiet compassion, by Richard Poe, takes away this experience but doesn't change the honesty of the prose.

The author heard the starting quote above sitting at a bar. He took an overheard conversation and created a love story about an older couple, having their own secrets, lies, griefs, loneliness and finding the courage to try again. His brilliance makes A Forty Year Kiss the perfect Valentine Day gift.

I received a free copy of this book/audiobook from the publishers via #NetGalley for a fair & honest review. All opinions are my own.

The story of rekindled love after decades apart had potential, but the audiobook didn’t fully pull me in. The pacing felt slow at times, and I struggled to connect emotionally with Charlie and Vivian’s journey. While sweet and heartfelt, the story was also quite predictable, making it less impactful than I’d hoped.

Thank you to the publisher and to Netgalley for providing an advance reader's copy of this book. Unfortunately at this time I will be unable to read it and give it the attention it requires. I will return to the book and provide a review at the earliest possibility.

A slow, second chance romance with characters who flawed but trying really hard. Nickolas Butler presents the struggles of alcoholism and how it can effect one's life in an interesting relatable way. I did don't the lack of punctuation regarding conversation to be difficult and distracting. Thanks#NetGalley #Sourcebooks

I love a slow-burn romance and I love a literary one even more. A Forty-Year Kiss was both of those things, and I enjoyed it a lot. The lack of quotation marks was incredibly annoying, but I dealt with it, and I think ultimately this book will be forgettable to me. But while I was reading it, I was very into these characters and their story, and I really rooted for them to get their shit together and have their happily ever after. I liked it a lot.

A Forty Year Kiss by Nikolas Butler follows Charlie and Vivian who were once married. After 40 years Charlie never stopped thinking about Vivian. Not a fan of a second chance romance by this book was such a delight. I really loved the premise of this book. This is a wonderful story of love, forgiveness and personal growth.
This was beautifully written, I couldn't put it down. Highly recommended.
Thank you to Netgalley, the publisher, and the author for providing an arc of this book.

Thank you to Netgalley and Sourcebooks | Sourcebooks Landmark for an early copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. I did enjoy this book. This was the first book I have read by this author and I will be looking for more. Loved the storyline and the characters. I felt like I was there. I would definitely recommend this book.

This was a sweet read! I enjoyed the romance between the two main characters and the characters themselves were complex and grew throughout the story. I just wish we had gotten a bit more from the story. The pacing and romance was a bit slow for my taste and plot itself didn’t really feel like it had a big moment to it where we felt a climax for the characters or the plot. Everything felt like it was easily fixed without much tension. The text itself also felt a bit confusing to me since there were no quotations for dialogue. Overall though a sweet story that I definitely recommend looking into!

This book was such a beautiful, emotional read! It’s a story about love, timing, and second chances that completely pulled me in. The characters felt so real, and their journey—full of longing, missed opportunities, and undeniable chemistry—had me hooked from start to finish. The writing is heartfelt and nostalgic in the best way, making you reflect on your own "what ifs." If you love love stories that tug at your heartstrings and make you believe in fate, this one is a must-read!