This is exactly the book I needed to read coming out of a long term mentally abusive relationship.

Anyone who has had experience with a narcissist should read this!

Thank you to NetGalley, Sheldon Press and Erin Leonard for this arc in exchange for an honest review

Discovering that the very qualities fostering healthy relationships can falter when dealing with a toxic individual is eye-opening. This insightful read delves into how emotional intelligence, essential for empathy, collaboration, and conflict resolution, can be manipulated by narcissists. A must-read for those left bewildered or hurt after encounters with such personalities, the book offers clear insights into narcissistic tactics and effective coping strategies. From workplace dynamics to personal relationships, it provides practical guidance, highlighting the limitations of empathy in dealing with narcissists. The inclusion of examples showcasing narcissistic behaviours adds depth and clarity, while the book's structured layout facilitates easy comprehension. A valuable resource shedding light on narcissism and empowering readers with actionable advice. Thanks to NetGalley and Hachette UK for this enlightening read. Highly recommended for anyone seeking to understand and navigate relationships with narcissistic individuals.

100% this is a five star book. If you’ve ever experienced (or think you’ve experienced) a narcissist in your life, you should get it.

I’m a fan of a self-help book & have read a couple of them on attachment & on narcissism. None has been like this. Each concise chapter is written in a way that’s easy to understand yet not too simplified that it feels hard to engage with. Solid scenarios help back up the author’s points, as do a wealth of citations so you know that this is a well researched book. Crucially this also gives you solid advice for various scenarios you might find yourself in an entanglement with a narcissist. The advice is practical and honestly feels really helpful. This is the first book from NetGalley that I will 100% be buying when it comes out.

Thank you to NetGalley, the author and publishers for access to this arc in return for an honest review.

I found this book extremely insightful and helpful.
I chose to review it based on the chapter on dealing with narcissistic behaviour in the workplace - it was spot on. The advice and explanations were so useful, and I will be putting them into practice.
I liked the way the book was set out - clear chapters, with aims & sections with different explanations.
Really good and useful book.
Would recommend to all who want to learn about narcissists and find details on how to overcome it.
Thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for an ARC.

How to Outsmart a Narcissist by Erin Leonard offers practical advice for first identifying family and coworkers with narcissistic tendencies and then offers practical examples of how narcissists behave in common situations. The key to outwitting these personalities is found in emotional intelligence which the author also highlights in the book. The self-help guide contains numerous references to additional academic documents and published articles at the end of each chapter.

Narcissists inhabit the world, and this incredibly helpful guide gives great tips on identifying them and dealing with their toxic behavior. Highly recommended!

Alright, let me spill the tea on "How to Outsmart a Narcissist":

- Guys, seriously, this book is a total eye-opener.
- It's all about navigating those tricky situations with narcissists like a pro.
- The real-life examples? They hit home hard, trust me.
- Suddenly, I'm feeling more empowered in dealing with those toxic personalities.
- It's like having a secret weapon in my pocket for outsmarting those narcissists. If you have the misfortune of having to deal with them.

This title was intriguing the minute I read it. I grew up with a narcissist as a parent. The book takes a close look at the features of emotional intelligence and the traits of narcissists to help people work and live together. I enjoyed this book and recognized several lessons and actions that can help when in situations with a narcissistic person.

This is a must read for anyone who has found themselves befuddled, shocked, angry, hurt or just plain confused following interactions with a narcissist. It details in clear, precise language the techniques that narcissists will use to infiltrate your life and how you can deal with them. The book covers many situations where you might encounter a narcissist, from the workplace (I found that particularly interesting and useful) to a romantic partner or a family member and how to deal with them (since using empathy won’t work with them). There were a lot of behaviors explained and some useful terminology as well. (I definitely learned some new terms!)

I also liked that there were little vignettes throughout with some examples of narcissistic behavior and how the empathic approach doesn’t really work.

I sometimes struggle with books like this because they can be quite dense, but this one was very readable which I appreciated.

This book put a lot of things in perspective for me, and even though I don’t read much nonfiction I really enjoyed it. I learned a lot!

It is very difficult dealing with a narcissist and this book gives excellent insight and understanding as to how a narcissist works.

The book also explains how to deal with narcissistic behaviour.

I found this book very insightful.

We deal with narcissists all over the place, and sometimes I feel we need a handbook just to get through the day. This is it! I totally recommend it!