I've read 86 books in 2025 so far and this is my favorite one to this point!

This book is about a large Vietnamese-American family who come together in the modern day to learn how their (living) father is going to divide his estate. The father isn't there, but his lawyer is, and he gives them all tasks, many related to his chain of bánh mì stores and says that the person who does theirs first will get his estate. The mother is mysteriously missing as well and it's clear that we'll learn more about her wherabouts and reasons for leaving during the course of the tasks.

The adult children complete the tasks, while having to deal with their pasts and relationships with each other, and the reader gets to learn about the parents' backstories through a series of flashbacks.

The story is sweet, funny, heartbreaking, and surprising. The book feels easy to read but the content is layered and just like in Huynh's debut book, lots of things are happening in layers. I'm looking forward to rereading it and digging more into where there may have been hints and details, because I was so excited to find out what was happening next that sometimes I would find myself flying through.

Misc note: I've seen some platforms categorize this as non-fiction and others categorize it as a romance. It's neither of those, it's lit/contemporary fiction.

Read it, you'll love it, and read The Fortunes of Jaded Women by the same author too!

Thank you to Atria books for an advance review copy of this book. My opinions expressed herein are my own.

This story of strained family relationships highlights the damage that lack of communication can impart on siblings, parents, and spouses. The family patriarch, Duc Tran, is a Vietnamese immigrant who has spent his life chasing the American dream, but at a cost. His adult children are angry and hurt, but after an inheritance. Chaos ensues.

The appreciation I now have for any immigrant coming here with the American Dream is so much higher because of this book. Carolyn had me laughing & crying while I read this book. The will to push past any obstacle life throws your way the characters faced in this book. The plot was perfectly executed between last & present. I loved it from start to finish.

This book is about five estranged siblings and their father who makes them play a game in order to get their inheritance. The book has two timelines: present and 1980s Little Saigon in Texas. The present chapters made me laugh a lot. The siblings bickering with each other was hilarious. The past chapters were eye-opening because I had no idea Vietnamese refugees were treated like that back in the 80s. This was my first book by Carolyn Huynh and I loved it so much that I immediately bought her debut novel, The Fortunes of Jaded Women.

Thank you Atria and NetGalley for my e-ARC!

The Family Recipe has an adorable premise (and lots of drama!) about 4 siblings (3 sisters, 1 brother) trying to accomplish a task their father has left them in order to 'compete' to see who's gonna get the family inheritance when he passes away. It's like a dysfunctional family competition, but not a toxic one.
The book is told by different POVs (one for each sibling) and we follow a year in the lives of these people.
That premise alone really appeals to me. But the execution of it failed to keep me invested in the story.
This is not a long book, and there are too many characters to follow through in the period of time of 12 months, and it was rushed. I thought the story was too rushed so I couldn't care enough for all of them because I didn't feel like they were developed enough. Not enough pages for such a big premise.
It brings valid discussions, yes. But it just fell a little flat to me.
I'm sure other readers might enjoy this book better than I did.
And I do recommend it to readers who love family drama.

Thank you, NetGalley and Atria Books, for providing me with a free eARC of this novel in exchange for my honest opinion.

Thank you Netgalley for this ARC.

This was a fun read about a dysfunctional family that has to overcome their dislike of each other for the sake of the family business. Each character has their flaws but the journey is worth the read.

Received an arc of this book I wanted to like the book but could not get into. It just dragged for me

Another well written family drama by Carolyn Huynh! The first third of the book was a bit slow to get into as we got to know each character and their motivations behind how they pursued the family inheritance. I like books that have a surrounding mystery but I felt like this one took a little too long to get to. I appreciate that the author acknowledges that family relationships are complicated and while you can start making moves to repair them for the better, it's something you actively need to work towards everyday.

Thank you to NetGalley for an ARC.

I love seeing more from new author Carolyn Huynh, since her first book, The Fortunes of Jaded Women was so much fun. She can deliver a complicated family dynamic without any issues. I didn’t buy the big reveal as well as some of the character reactions to certain things. Connie and Evelyn were a bit flat where there could have been more, and are we supposed to believe a 3 year old is texting/can read? If someone is texting for the child, then why not say that? Sorry, such a small thing to get hung up on, but atlas here we are. A lot didn’t go right for me, but all in all I really enjoyed Huynh’s writing style and looking forward to reading more by her.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

The Family Recipe by Carolyn Huynh

This book is deliciously messy in all the best ways— I love how this heartfelt, funny, and deeply poignant story about family, identity, and the complicated ties that bind us. Carolyn Huynh delivers another sharp and emotionally rich dramedy, filled with estranged siblings, generational struggles, and, of course, banh mi.

I think what make this book stand out is how Huynh explores the immigrant experience, the weight of legacy, and the search for belonging in a rapidly changing world. Through witty dialogue and rich storytelling, Huynh paints a vivid picture of Little Saigon communities across America, touching on themes of gentrification, family duty, and rediscovering one’s roots. The sibling dynamics are impeccably written—filled with tension, rivalry, and reluctant love that makes their relationships feel raw and real. I'm going to get a banh mi after reading this book.

"The Family Recipe" is about a Vietnamese family whose patriarch, the head of a sandwich franchise, goes into hiding. His four daughters must each revitalize one of his sandwich shops as part of the inheritance plan, while his son must marry in order to claim ownership. The story revolves around the finding of their father and discovering how the inheritance rules tie into their mothers' disappearance. Themes include generational trauma, racism, finding oneself and family. Recommended for readers who are interested in dysfunctional families and 1970s culture. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC. Pub Date: April 1, 2025.

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As a big fan of The Fortunes of Jaded Women, I was so excited to read Carlolyn Huynh's sophomore novel, and it did NOT dissapoint! Funny, heartfelt, thoughtful, and insightful. Loved all the characters, with their flaws and imperfections and general humanity. Loved seeing a broken family trying to figure out their next steps together. The historical part of this novel was also super enlightening: I didn't know much about the treatment of Vietnam refugees in the US after the Vietnman way, and knew nothing about the KKK involvement in that treatment. As sad as these moments in history are, I'm always grateful for books that give me exposure to these parts of our dark history. May we all be a little more like Georgia.

This book deals with racism throughout the US against Vietnamese people. The book goes back-and-forth between post Vietnam war versus today. Each chapter is told from a different Character perspective. This book shows the history of the KKK. A three star read.

***** I received an arc for my honest opinion from NetGalley****

Talk about a dysfunctional family! In Carolyn Huynh's The Family Recipe, patriarch Duc swears he will pass on his fortune to one of his five adult children at the end of one year, but they will have to work for it. The exception is oldest child and only male Jude, who simply has to get married (although that seems like work to him). Each of Duc's four very different daughters, all in their twenties and thirties, is charged with taking time off from her current life to renovate and reinvigorate one of the Duc's Sandwiches stores in Philadelphia, Houston, San Jose and New Orleans. The first one of the five siblings to achieve the goal their father has set for them will win.

Is that fair to the women? Where is Duc right now anyway? His best friend and the family's lawyer has been communicating with the family on his behalf. And how much is his fortune worth? Does any one of these five siblings even stand a chance of winning the challenge? For all of them, living with Duc hasn't been the childhood they needed. Their mother left the family two decades ago and doesn't want to be found. Duc's second wife has also left home and has a score to settle with him.

Duc was a lowly fisherman in his native Vietnam, but his banh mi shops had filled a need in the Vietnamese communities throughout his adopted home of the United States. His story takes up a large part of the plot. I found it interesting to read about those Vietnamese communities as they are today, and how the customs and lives of the residents have changed (or not). Unfortunately, the story in general left me flat. I felt that most of the family members were either unlikeable or quite shallow, to the point where I didn't care whether they succeeded at the challenge. Nor was I particularly interested in the family dynamics and bloodlines. However, readers who enjoy stories of dysfunctional families and how cultural backgrounds can affect lives in varying degrees may find this book satisfying.

My thanks to Atria Books and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and provide an honest review of this book.

The Family Recipe is a richly layered family drama that strikes a balance between humor and poignancy. It delves into deep traumas, love, and healing, all while exploring the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. The Tran siblings are not particularly close, and there's a constant push and pull between their desire for connection and their need to prove themselves. Each sibling harbors feelings of hurt and loss, exacerbated by their mother's abandonment during their childhood.

Their father, Duc Tran, is the head of a Vietnamese sandwich franchise and the keeper of complex family secrets. The story kicks off when the family lawyer, Uncle Huey, gathers the five siblings to reveal their father's inheritance plan. However, Duc Tran is mysteriously in hiding. The narrative weaves between the past and the present, offering different perspectives as the complex story unfolds.

The four daughters are each sent to one of the sandwich shop locations to revitalize it as part of their inheritance, while their brother must marry to claim his share. The overarching plot revolves around finding their father and unraveling the inheritance scheme, which is also tied to the big secrets surrounding their mother's disappearance years ago.

The siblings are flawed and damaged characters, both likable and frustrating at times. In their quest to save the franchise locations they've been assigned, they ultimately must save themselves. The story compellingly addresses generational trauma, racism, and themes of belonging and family. I particularly appreciated how the author shed light on the 1970s culture that influenced Vietnamese war-time immigrants. The inheritance requirements only further drive a wedge between the siblings, adding depth to their struggle.

Thank you NetGalley and Atria Books for the advanced reader copy. This is my honest review.

THE FAMILY RECIPE is the perfect balance of wit and emotional poignancy. While this story did take some time for me to get into, the distinctive character voices, the family history, the sibling dynamics, and the overall inheritance game kept me turning the page until the very end.

Carolyn Huynh is truly a master at her craft. I adore her exploration into themes of diaspora, racism, and generational trauma, while also creating real and flawed characters that jump off the page. THE FAMILY RECIPE is a heart-wrenchingly tender tale that made me laugh, cry, and hope.

Thank you NetGalley and Atria Books for providing me with an ARC!

Wonderful book. 1 brother and 4 younger sisters reunite in Houston to figure out their not dead, just MIA (on purpose) father’s inheritance. It's a competition. Who will turn Duc’s Sandwiches shop (that sell's bánh mì) into a profitable business. Each girl must go to a different location. The only boy, Jude, has a different task. He has to find a wife. Whoever first succeeds, gets the money.

Then there are flashbacks of Duc, his (ex) wife Evelyn, and his best friend Huey. After the Vietnam War, many refugees came to the southern part of the US. This angered the KKK, who targeted them. As a history teacher, I was thankful that this part of history was being told.

Part historical fiction, part family drama, part foody, this book has something for everyone. The characters were flawed, and deals with the plight of fitting in and finding a place to belong. One line that I loved was this, "Diaspora children were oxymorons; they belonged but also didn't belong, and no matter which way the pendulum swung, they were still tourists at the end of the day."

I’ve been looking forward to The Family Recipe ever since author Carolyn Huynh announced she was coming out with a new book, as I really enjoyed her debut novel The Fortunes of Jaded Women. In this new novel, Huynh has expanded her Little Saigon multiverse to additional diasporic Vietnamese communities in the US. The Family Recipe is fiercely clever, hilariously witty, and unabashedly honest.

The story is broken into multiple parts based on the stages of baking bread (because we all know the best banh mi shops make their own bread) and leaves a trail of breadcrumbs to uncover the family’s secrets. Duc Tran runs a bánh mì empire based in Houston. When he is ready to finalize his will, he has his five children compete against one another for the family inheritance - whoever succeeds within a year wins it all. The four daughters are set on a path to revitalize banh mi shops in Little Saigons of their assigned city - New Orleans, Philly, San Jose, or Houston; while the firstborn son, Jude, would need to marry someone. Bonus: all the children have Beatles-inspired names: Jude, Jane, Bingo, Paulina, and Georgia.

It was eye-opening to read about the different Vietnamese communities around the US, especially seeing the real-life parallels with how a lot of historically, once-thriving immigrant communities are now struggling with neglected, dilapidated conditions, in the context of the daughters having to fix up run down banh mi shops across the country. I also like that the focus of this book is on sibling dynamics and rivalry in the context of intergenerational trauma. Huynh has a talent for bringing multiple lead characters to life with distinct personalities and authentic voices, while maintaining a cohesive and engaging story. When Jude confessed that for awhile, he only knew how to insult in Vietnamese because of his parents’ frequent arguments, that hit so hard.

This novel builds on actual key historical events that have largely been forgotten, particularly with the racism that Vietnamese fishermen encountered in Seadrift, Texas, including conflicts with the KKK. I didn’t realize that this had actually happened until I looked it up, and it’s tragic that this occurred as boats in the Vietnamese community are often associated with the long, arduous, and traumatic journey to America. But it definitely puts the father’s perspective into context within The Family Recipe’s fictional dysfunctional family.

Also, the book cover is everything, and I can totally picture the banh mi shop being anywhere in a strip mall in America.

10/10 read.

Thank you to Atria Books and NetGalley for providing an eARC in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are independently my own.

"Shouldn't you be saving your trauma speech for mother dearest instead? At least Ba stayed to take care of us. Our mother abandoned us. Evelyn abandoned us."
"Abandoned?" Jane said slowly, as if she was learning a new word. "Our mother didn't ABANDON us. She set herself free and managed to finally crawl out from under our father's thumb. Who can blame her for what she did?"
"What do you call leaving five children behind without a single, goddamn note? Jude retorded. "Self-Care Sunday?"

WOW. where do i start? The Family Recipe is an evocative, deeply moving story about the complexities of family, identity, and the weight of Vietnamese tradition. the book explores sibling rivalry and the bittersweet journey of understanding one’s place within both a family and a broader cultural context.

what makes this book stand out for me is the richness of its characters, each struggling to find their way in a modern world that often seems at odds with the past. as the daughters and only son of the Tran family, {Jude, Jane, Paulina, Georgia and Bingo} they navigate their unique challenges—reviving their father’s inheritance despites the tides of gentrification—they are also confronted with the delicate balance of holding on to their heritage while adapting to an ever-changing society which is the norm then for Viets.

their dynamic is so beautifully messy, filled with humor, tenderness, and the kind of emotional turbulence that makes these characters feel utterly real. Carolyn Huynh does a masterful job of portraying the nuances of immigrant life, capturing the tension between honoring old traditions and embracing the possibilities of the future. as the sisters and Jude each grapple with their personal struggles, their interactions are equal parts hilarious and heartbreaking, often blurring the lines between love and frustration.
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buuuuut just when you think you’ve uncovered the full scope of this family's story, a bombshell revelation changes everything. the family secret when revealed, is a revelation that forces you to reconsider all the carefully constructed assumptions you've made about the characters and their pasts. this twist adds an extra layer of intrigue and depth, leaving you reflecting on the true meaning of family and legacy long after the final page. it made my jaw drop, it felt like a car crash.

in many ways tho, the Tran's family story is a celebration of what it means to be connected—not just to the people in our lives, but to the history and culture that shape us. it also reminds us that sometimes, the simple act of sharing a meal can bridge the divides that separate us, offering the comfort and understanding we all crave. With sharp wit, emotional insight, and a captivating plot, this is a novel that will resonate with anyone who’s ever struggled to reconcile the past with the present and found solace in the things that bring us together.

5/5 all the way. better yet, infinite stars.

I received a free DRC of this book through Netgalley. It is interesting because I just finished another book which had a large family with a child named Jude in it just like this one. The two books have some similarities in that the children all had a dysfunctional childhood and need to re-learn how to interact with each other as adults. Learning how to be successful as adults in both romantic relationships and with siblings can take a lifetime to learn. This book helped keep each of the 5 children as distinct personalities and characters so it was easy to tell them apart. The idea of having the adult children compete against each other made for interesting reading, but also seemed to cause a bigger divide between each of them. Everyone including the parents seemed very human and fallible. I wasn't as big of a fan of the ending because it seems like another mistake to assume what someone would want instead of asking her.