I tried to take my time and read this one slowly so I can stay in a Cara Bastone world for as long as possible. It worked fairly well until the last third which I gobbled up in big bites. Thanks to @thedialpress for the ebook.

✔️ Grumpy/Sunshine
✔️ Hurt/Comfort
✔️ Protective Over Her
✔️ He Fell First

Lenny is mourning the loss of her best friend and just going through the motions of living. Her latest nannying job intros her to Miles, the uncle of her young charge. He's not great with kids and wants to be so sunshiney Lenny agrees to help him while he helps her navigate her grief journey. Of course all this time together leads to laughter, healing and love.

Banter was out of this world here - Lenny is a delightful weirdo and I loved how she was able to breathe levity into Miles life.

But my favorite parts are of him taking care of her. Being present and helping her figure out how to live again while honoring her friend.

I loved that he was able to relate since he'd had a massive loss as well. One of the things that bonded my husband and I were dealing with the declining health and deaths of my mom and his parents. It is easier to heal with someone who understands what you're experiencing.

The slow burn was delicious torture and I whoohoo'd when Miles and Lenny finally had a romantic moment.

5⭐️. Now how long til the next Cara Bastone read?!?

Steam 🔥🔥
Banter 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Swoon 💕💕💕💕💕

Thank you to Random House Publishing Group and NetGalley for the ARC of Promise Me Sunshine in exchange for an honest review.

Personally, Cara’s style of writing feels as if it was written to speak just to me and myself. I love everything about the feel of this book and the depth of its characters. Miles might be one of my most favorite characters I’ve encountered in a long time and quite honestly, we could all only be so lucky to have a Miles in our life. While Lenny’s character is also compelling and witnessing her growth was healing in so many ways, the intelligence and forethought the Miles continually expressed while caring for Lenny was incredibly inspiring and it honestly made me want to be that type of support for when someone else is grieving.

I think the fact that this book conveys that grief is not linear, it never expresses itself in the same way, nor is it rational really hits home for so many people. We all do weird shit when we’re grieving and we all need that ride or die there right by our side to make sure things don’t get too weird or to pull us back when things head to the dark side quickly.

There are so many times during this book where I cried with the characters and actually laughed out loud at the banter between Lenny and Miles. It was a roller coaster of emotions, but I think that was intentional and is a large part of what makes this book so special. An absolute must read this summer and I highly encourage you to pick it up!

This book encapsulates how overwhelming grief can be and how difficult it can be to navigate through the rollercoaster of emotions. People show their grief in different ways and there is no fixed timeline for dealing with a loved one's death. I felt every one of Lenny's fears, the love for her friend, and the hole that was left behind in her life. Reese and Ainsley and Miles had their own loss to deal with on top of a very complicated situation. Miles met Lenny where she was at any particular moment in time and never pushed her for more. I loved their interactions and how they were able to help each other. This book made me smile and cry, sometimes simultaneously.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for providing me with a copy. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

One of those books where you love the people because of their flaws. So real, so well-written.
Their growth was subtle and so well earned. This is character-driven storytelling at its finest.

This was a beautiful story. I loved how the writing was like hearing a story from your best friend. It was definitely more casual and relaxed than a lot of romances I've read. Super enjoyable to read.

While grief played a major role in this story it never felt too heavy. I appreciate how the writer made dealing with grief more approachable and there was never anyone trying to rush the process.

The romance burned so slowly but the payoff was worth it.

I wanted to love this book but overall it was just not for me. I’ve tried two books by this author now and I don’t connect with her FMCs so I never end up liking the overall story.

4.5 Stars!

A huge thank you to Random House Publishing Group and NetGalley for the ARC!

I loved this. If you've had to deal with grief or support a loved one dealing with grief, I think this is extremely relatable. It is a romance that, at times, feels lighthearted but also presents a very realistic picture of the true rollercoaster ride that a person's journey with grief can be. I would tread carefully if you've lost someone close to you recently because some of the discussions between the characters may be triggering, but I found the strategies that Miles teaches Lenny as well as Lenny's raw emotional state to be so helpful.

Sidenote: Alex Finke narrates the audiobook and does an amazing job of portraying Lenny!!

This book broke me a little, healed me a lot, and had me laughing and smiling as I fell in love with Lenny and Miles on every single page!! I adored everything about Promise Me Sunshine. Ready or Not by the author was one of my favorite books last year, and this novel did not disappoint. Consider me a fan of the author for life.

YOU WERE ALL RIGHHHHTTTTTT 🥹🥹😭😭 That’s all, that’s the review!

Thank you @prhaudio @thedialpress for the gifted alc and earc of Promise Me Sunshine #PRHAudioPartner

First things first, Alex Finke is my new favorite audiobook narrator. A time was freaking had! I don’t think I’ve ever really loved the sound of someone narrating until now.

I instantly fell in love with Lenny, Miles, and Ainsley. They’re the kind of characters that are going to stick with me for a long time. Cara’s characters are written so authentically, you feel like you know them.

This is the first book I’ve read in a really long time that focused on losing a friend, a best friend. The author captured Lenny’s grief flawlessly. And I truly enjoyed the journey of Miles helping bring Lenny back to life.

I loved that this wasn’t only a romance. There are different relationships forming, soul searching, healing. I am in awe of this author. It was breathtaking, heart wrenching, and beautiful. This book is a must read!

I'm not even sure where to start with this review. Stunning! Is this a romance? I'm not sure I'd categorize it as one because I didn't feel like the entire story revolved around the two main characters' romantic feelings, but I guess it did revolve around their relationship, which was just so... perfectly timed. I suppose it is a romance, but it's so much more too. This is the story of Lenny's journey of grief and finding love even in the darkest time of her life. Knowing she's finding love when she herself hasn't realized it yet made this story feel extra special. The writing was just superb. This was my first book by Cara Bastone, but it definitely won't be my last. Off to read her backlist!

This book completely swept me away. Even while in a reading slump—and juggling travel and low motivation—it stood out like a beam of light. I genuinely savored every moment. The characters, the shared grief, and the way their emotional journeys were written… it was masterful.

The writing is stunning—full of care, depth, and emotional honesty. I felt so connected to the story, especially in how it portrayed the weight of loss and the quiet beauty of healing. Even though the pacing felt slow (more because of my own reading mood), I didn’t mind one bit. I was completely engaged and emotionally invested.

This book gave me feels when nothing else could. The thoughtfulness and heart poured into every page were palpable. It’s raw, real, and painfully relatable in the best way. Easily one of the most emotionally resonant books I’ve read in a while

Oh this book comes SO close to perfection for me. Cara Bastone's characters are so messy and heartfelt and real and the way this relationship slowly evolves just feels RIGHT. If you love the movie Uptown Girls with Brittany Murphy, you will love the relationship between Lenny and Ainsley. And if you have ever experienced grief and wished that you had someone just a little further along in the process to help guide you through, then this book will also touch a piece of your heart. My one complaint here was that the ending was missing something for me. Lenny and Miles finally admit their feelings so close to the end that I missed seeing a little bit of them comfortably together so we could all exhale into the moment. Drink this book: No one in the book really feels like a wine-drinker. But I still think that Lenny and Miles would appreciate a natty red blend from time to time.

"Lenny, when I look at your face, I feel like I'm finally home after a really long day at work." ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 😭

Rating: 4.5/5

- NYC setting
- friends to lovers
- slow burn
- grief journey
- no breakup
- 🌶️/5
- single pov
- narration by Alex Finke

POV: You're struggling six months after your best friend's death, but a new nannying gig introduces you to Miles, a man who's grieved before and offers to help you through the struggle if you help him bond with his niece.

1. Miles is EVERYTHING. He shows up for her in both small and big ways, like moving her into his apartment, gifting her the locket and washing her hair. He just wants what's best for her; to take care of her and ensure she's taking care of herself. Also, not only does he give us the one-liner above, but "committing the moment to memory." STOP IT RIGHT NOW!!
2. It's through Miles in a way that we see Lenny's character growth, even though it's single pov (which is what I think makes this book so special). Her journey is incredibly heartbreaking, heartwarming and humorous. From her relationship with Ainsley to her new friendships to reconnecting with her family, your emotions go through it alongside her.
3. The only way to read this is to listen to it. Alex Finke takes the book to the next level, ISTG. The audiobook is a masterpiece. I didn't want to stop listening.

This was Lenny Bellamy’s intense story, uniquely set up in three parts: After, Still After and Forever After. Each part is a timeline of how she copes with the intense grief after the loss of her best friend, Lou. We are with Lenny as she attempts to check off items from the “Live Again List", when Miles, someone who has survived his own devastating losses, agrees to be Lenny’s “list buddy.” Wonderful moments and the promise of new friendships fill the pages as Lenny continues to navigate her way back to learning to live again in her Forever After.

There were so many memorable quotes that I highlighted on my Kindle, but one of my favorites ties into the title and will stay with me:

“I can’t promise the sunshine. But I can do everything else.”

Thank you NetGalley and Random House Publishing Group-Random House/ Dial Press Trade Paperback for the opportunity to read the early edition e-copy of; Promise Me Sunshine by Cara Bastone, ( ❤️ the author whose words I allowed into my brain... see acknowledgments.)

Cara does it again! This book was beautifully written and handled grief so well. I loved miles and Lenny’s relationship, miles always knew the best way to help Lenny and read her so well.

WOW shocked by how much I enjoyed this one. I was uncertain at the beginning but quickly fell in love with ALL the characters and was having a blast (to the extent you can while reading about someone’s grief). I thought the banter was in all the right places. I loved the dynamic of Ainslee and her mom and how they still felt central to the story even as more of the B plot. I would definitely recommend it for those who like deeper/emotional romances! Similar to Abby Jimenez for me!

I loved this book so much and have nothing but good things to say about it! It made me feel all the emotions, and was full of love. I loved Lenny and her journey to live again while dealing with the greed of losing her best friend. I loved Miles and his care and love for Lenny and his family. And I loved their slow burn romance while he helps her through her grief.

Promise Me Sunshine by Cara Bastone was so good that I bought a physical copy when it came out. This one had me feeling all the emotions and was such a solid 5 star read for me! I will definitely be re-reading this one this summer!

Thank you to NetGalley, the author, & the publisher for an ARC copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

5/5 May be a top contender for book of the year for me

This book is a masterpiece! Cara Bastone has been an author I have loved since being introduced to her on Audible. Her stories are always theatric, sweet, funny, and well developed. I love that she expanded from the short audios to full romance novels.

Without giving too much away this book has a fun, quirky FMC, but not the obnoxious quirky some authors tend to reach when having a unique FMC. The MMC was the softest grumpy I have ever met, and while his grumpiness didn't fully show for a grumpy/sunshine trope to be in full effect, I loved his tender heart. The side characters: parents, friends, girl she babysat all had purpose and made the book even more enjoyable.

The romance was swoon worthy and the perfect speed of slow burn with very strong chemistry, but the real reason I want to rave this book is due to how beautifully it deals with heart wrenching grief and coming back to life after losing a person who felt like home. The FMC lost her soulmate of a best friend and was a wreck, the anxiety attacks, the guilt of having fun without them, the fear of forgetting them - all of it was so masterly done and felt real. I felt her grief and I felt her joy slowly come back as she finished her "life list." I know I wont forget this book for this portrayal alone.

I will recommend this book and Cara Bastone to literally everyone who will listen.

Book Tropes: Grumpy/Sunshine, Friends to Lovers, Slowburn, Nanny
Spice Level:2/5 - It had a single very detailed scene
Trigger Warnings: Death of a Loved One, Grief, Terminal Illness

Thank you NetGalley for this arc in exchange for an honest review!

I both equally parts love and hate this book. The writing is amazing lyrical flawless. I love the names of grief and loss that we explored with the main character.. I can’t imagine losing my best friend at such a pivotal age. However, tying in a romance to this plot, tacky almost I’m not sure if that is the right word. It felt like Miles was there to help the main character heal from her loss while simultaneously falling in love with him. As a psychotherapist, we have a term for this and it’s called trauma bonding. However, the romance was well developed, and I could see plausible cases that it wasn’t just based on trauma. I will keep Cara on my to Reed list, but this wasn’t my favorite..