Loved being back in Rome, Kentucky with these characters. Emily + Jack’s sparring and banter is hilarious. You can’t help but fall in love with them. I love that you get the town characters from the first two books and updates on their story lines that don’t take away from this story.

A smidge spicier than previous books but not much. She does tell you in the authors note which chapters to skip if you want to keep the doors closed.

Can’t wait for Maddie’s story !

Thanks to #NetGalley and Random House - Ballantine for the ARC. Opinions are my own :)

#BegBorroworSteal

Wow wow wow, Sarah Adams has done it again. How do I even put into words how much I loved this book? Emily and Jack were two beautifully created characters that had so much heart and depth to them. The chemistry between them was flying off the pages - even when it was little zaps as they quipped back and forth as nemeses. I can’t even count the number of times I laughed, cried, squealed, and gasped while reading. Love love love this book. Until we meet again next time in Rome, Kentucky!

This book was everything I wanted it to be and more! I love Rome and the small town vibes are just so good! The love to hate connection between these two was so fun and I loved that even with all the ribbing they were really still friends at the heart of it. I adored the way he supports her writing and tries to do all that he can to help her reach her dreams. The emails were also a super fun edition and I especially loved the unsent drafts!

FULL REVIEW
To say this release has been highly anticipated is really an understatement. I love everything Sarah writes, but Rome, Kentucky is definitely a special place and the Walker family is at its heart! Emily might be my favorite Walker so far since she reminds me a lot of myself. The rivalry between Emily and Jack runs deep, but underneath its surface is some seriously simmering tension and chemistry! Their journey was rivals, to coworkers to friends and then more was such a fun ride. I LOVED the banter between these two and I especially loved that it doesn’t just stop when they realize their true feelings. The way Jack supports Emily and her writing dreams was so sweet and getting to watch their romance unfold was everything!

TROPES
😈Rivals to Lovers
🏘️Neighbors
📝Secret Writers
🏡Small Town
🗣️So Much Banter
🍎Teacher Coworkers

love this series so much!! the author writes the perfect amount of romance in her books with that added tension! love love love these characters

I got this book as an ARC from NetGalley and consumed it in 2 days. I love Sarah Adams and this book did not disappoint! It was funny and sweet and I couldn’t put it down. Already wanting to start the series over again.

I was disappointed in this one. The FMC was really frustrating with her self doubt and insecurities and it felt like she only moved past that bc she got validation from others. It took me a long time to read thing because I wasn’t hooked

I’ve been savoring this book ever since I received the ARC, and I can’t believe it’s over. I’m completely in love with this couple—I can’t even decide if they’re my favorite or if Annie and Will still hold that spot. Regardless, they have a special place in my heart, and I thoroughly enjoyed every single moment of this story. I’ll probably end up reading it again soon.

The only thing I didn’t love about this book was the epilogue. I expected more—I wanted more, needed more. A half-page epilogue just isn’t enough for me. I needed more closure: to see his father defeated, to witness both of their successes, and to experience their happy ending more fully. Instead, I was given another epilogue for Annie and Will. Don’t get me wrong, I loved it, but I wanted more for Emily and Jack.

4.5⭐️ but I’m rounding it up


<b> "Loving you is the easiest thing l've ever done." </b>

Sarah Adams is a GEM and this book is no different. She takes us back to Rome, Kentucky for what may be my favorite Walker sibling story. Emily and Jack have always been rivals but when they become neighbors, their relationship turns into something more. I always love a romance when the MMC is Down Bad and the FMC doesn't realize it. The slow burn of the transformation of their relationship was so fun to follow along with, and it's so refreshing to see two characters who are so authentically themselves.

Sarah - please write more Rome books, we love this little town!!

Thank you to NetGalley and Random House - Ballantine for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.

I really don’t know how Sarah does it. She puts pure magic into her books ✨ I loved “When In Rome” and I loved “Practice Makes Perfect” even more! But this one!! I honestly wasn’t expecting for this one to be my favorite. It was so so nice to see a vulnerable side to Emily. To really get to know her character. Jack and Emily are the enemies to friends to lovers story that I needed to read ❤️ The way they both can’t express vulnerability or be completely honest with anyone but each other, even when they were enemies, is truly the sweetest thing. I love that they are both teachers and writers! The book is definitely a love letter to teachers and to the oldest sisters out there.

Jack is one of my new favorite MMCs! He’s just so swoon-worthy. The way he loves her for exactly who she is 🥹 I smiled so much while reading. I laughed and I teared up. This one gave me all of the feels. I fall more and more in love with Mabel’s character throughout the series. It’s always nice taking a trip back to Rome, Kentucky. I’ve been impatiently waiting for poor James to get his chance with Maddie. I seriously can’t wait for Book 4!!! This is definitely a new favorite ❤️

“𝗧𝗲𝗹𝗹 𝗺𝗲 𝗮 𝘀𝗲𝗰𝗿𝗲𝘁, 𝘄𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗶𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝗮𝗱𝗼𝗿𝗲𝗱 𝗯𝘆 𝗘𝗺𝗶𝗹𝘆 𝗪𝗮𝗹𝗸𝗲𝗿?”

We’re back in Rome starting 2025 off with one my most anticipated reads of the year!! I’m having a little trouble putting into words just how much I loved this book. Not only did it have some of my favorite tropes (rivals to lovers, forced proximity, black cat/golden retriever), but it had so much more than that. It told a story of the older sister that has always been the shoulder to cry on but never wanted to burden others with her feelings. The heartbroken woman that is scared to love and be loved again. The aspiring writer that has never felt good enough to take that leap.

Beg, Borrow, or Steal also came through with the banter and the tension. Rival/enemies to lovers is one of my favorites for both of those reasons. The sassy banter between characters that “hate” each other and the internal thoughts telling us that they’re actually loving the feuds have me kicking my feet! The sexual tension between Jack and Emily was insane. When they acted out the scene from her book… phewww. Jack Bennett has moved his way up to the top of my book boyfriends list. I mean, who doesn’t love a man in glasses?!

𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗗 𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗤𝗨𝗢𝗧𝗘𝗦:

“𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞’𝐬 𝐧𝐨 𝐞𝐬𝐜𝐚𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭. 𝐈’𝐦 𝐡𝐢𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐲 (𝐞𝐱-)𝐧𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐬: 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐦, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐦𝐞.”

“𝐉𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐞, 𝐉𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐬𝐨𝐧?” “𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡.”

“𝐈 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐛𝐚𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐧𝐨𝐰. 𝐈 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐠𝐚𝐢𝐧. 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐥𝐚𝐳𝐲. 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐞. 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐛𝐥𝐚𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐲𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐧, 𝐈 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐲, 𝐈 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐧𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞.”

⭐️: 5/5

🍒rivals to lovers
🍒fueding teachers
🍒neighbors / forced proximity
🍒small town
🍒black cat / golden retriever
🍒secret writers
🍒MMC with glasses

Thank you Dell Romance / Sarah Adams for the adorable PR box and finished physical copy of this book and NetGalley for the eARC!

Author Sarah Adams delivers a delightful small-town rom-com with her newest 2025 edition, Beg, Borrow, or Steal. Emily and Jack’s long-standing rivalry heats up when he becomes her coworker and next-door neighbor. Their banter is sharp, the tension is palpable, and their journey from foes was so heartwarming and enjoyable.

The cozy small-town setting and lovable side characters make this story shine, while Jack’s charm and Emily’s growth add depth to the romance. Though part of a series, it stands perfectly on its own—but it totally made me want to read the rest!

This is perfect for fans of rivals-to-lovers and warm community vibes and I highly recommend adding it to your winter weekend TBR list.

Thank you to Ballantine for my free review copy.

This book is very different from my usual reads but I wanted to try something in the romance genre. I liked it a lot more than I thought I would! There were lots of little moments that made me laugh and I found the characters endearing. I quickly realized there were books prior to this one that I should have read for some context, but they were not really needed- although I may go back and read them now.

6 stars!!! thank you Dell and NetGalley for sending me an ARC of this book. This is definitely my favorite book in this series so far, we'll see if Madison's story will change my mind. Sarah Adams always has a tendency to make me fall in love with each of her characters. I don't think I've read a lot of the rivals to lovers trope, but this was written extremely well. It made me cry and laugh throughout the entire book. Emily and Jack had a unique love story, and it was about time that they admitted their feelings to one another. I'm happy that I got to see the Walker siblings grow closer together especially after their grandma died. I agree with Maddie's statement when she said that it's healthy to cry occasionally so you don't have a massive meltdown down the line. I'm going to be so sad after I read book 4, I don't want this to be over quite yet. I might have to reread these three books before book 4.

Solid 4⭐️! I think a superior trope for me will always be rivals/enemies to lovers but actually the MMC has been completely obsessed with her the entire time 😭 & it was dual POV?! I eat it up every. single. time!! I feasted 😋🍽️ The fact that they’re both “moonlighting” as writers is so good too. (Don’t even get me started on that swoony “scene blocking” scene 🤭)

The banter was fantastic and I love their little text and email exchanges 🥹 thank you so much to Dell for the eARC!

I’ll be the first to admit that How to Steal a Million isn’t one of my favorite Audrey Hepburn movies, but Beg, Borrow, or Steal is without a doubt one of my favorite Sarah Adams books.

Jack and Emily were wonderful from beginning to end. The story shines with so much passion for the romance genre and what it means to find the one person who’s truly your kindred spirit. Adams’ writing continues to be a hopeful balm, and the Rome series continues to be a gift! No notes.

1000% my new favorite Sarah Adams book! This one hooked me right from the start. Emily is a firecracker with an utterly relatable need to hold back and be what people expect her to be. Jack is SWOON personified. Their dynamic is just delicious. I loved the banter and the way Jack takes care of her and just watching them fall in love. EASY 5 stars for this book!

I have loved this series from the beginning, but I think this could be my favorite. There was something about Emily that really resonated with me. Maybe it is that she is the type A older sister who teaches, maybe it was her snark and control. I don't know, but I absolutely loved her story. (I cannot wait to see if Maddie will get her own book as well.) This was the perfect read for the snow day shutdown. Thank you NetGalley for the advanced preview.

I enjoyed this! Loved getting to go back to Rome, KY with the Walker siblings. Emily was so relatable and made this book my 2nd fav (behind When in Rome). It didn’t do anything to change my life and not sure I will think about it much but Sarah Adams books are like cotton candy so I will keep reading them! 3.5⭐️

Thank you to NetGalley for the ARC!!!!! 🤍

Emily Walker and Jack Bennett have been enemies since freshman year of college. Everything for them was a competition. It didn’t help that they were in same major, so they ended up being in the same classes and fighting for the same internships. Their competition didn’t end when they graduated college though. They both ended up at the same elementary school in Rome, Kentucky teaching the same grade. Jack has always been likable compared to Emily. It drove her crazy. When Jack left mid-school year to Nebraska to marry his fiancee, Emily was happy she no longer had to see him everyday. The last thing Emily saw coming was Jack returning to Rome and becoming her neighbor.
Jack was happy to be back in Rome, Kentucky. He can’t wait to work on renovations for his house and write the next book in his mystery series under his pen name. What he didn’t realize is that he bought the house next door to his nemesis, Emily. Jack learns about her plans to run him out of town and can’t help the excitement he feels to thwart those plans.
Emily is closet romance writer. She has written a steamy romance book and doesn’t want anyone to know. One night she realizes that her siblings are chasing their dreams, and becomes upset because she feels like they don’t need her anymore. So she drunkly decides to submit her manuscript to a well known agent. The problem is that she accidentally submitted her manuscript to her boss. After she realizes what she has done, she frantically runs to Jack for help. She asks for his help to steal back her manuscript, and to her surprise, he agrees. Now that they are working together, they realize that they are more alike than they thought. Can they put their feuding behind them long enough to see if there could be something real between them? Or will they fall back to what is comfortable?

It’s so good to be back in Rome, Kentucky! Sarah Adams has done it again! This is my favorite of the series so far. Emily and Jack were perfect. Their banter was hilarious and the tension between them had me fanning myself at some points. I feel like Sarah did a great job showing the emotions and struggles that both Emily and Jack endured. Emily always wanted to help others so she wouldn’t have to deal with her own issues. She was scared of change. She also feared that she was too difficult to love and my heart broke for her. Growing up Jack had to deal with a narcissistic father who also drank too much. He would always try to diffuse a situation and please everyone, and this carried forward into adulthood. I loved that they both were able to help each other with their struggles and find love with each other. I also loved seeing the rest of the Walker family. I can’t wait for the next book in this interconnected series!

Thank you Dell and Random House Publishing for the eARC!

Oh, it's so nice to be back in Rome Kentucky! I have missed the Walker family and Emily did not disappoint. This book felt all too close to home, I identify with Emily more than I think I'd like to admit. And I enjoyed the buildup between Emily and Jackson and the juxtaposition between it's always been you and the enemies to lovers' aspects of this story. In true Sarah Adams fashion, the spice is at a very minimal level, and I think it helps to facilitate the growing tension between the MC's.
I enjoyed that the character growth was a major part of the story line and that all of my favorite couples from previous When in Rome books were present. I cannot wait for Maddie's book, and I sincerely hope James is her person!!