I have read a few of Chelsea‘s books, and I have to admit this one was my least favorite. I feel as if maybe she is running out of things to write about.

I honestly couldn’t get through this book. From what I read it were a lot of thoughts that could have stayed in a personal journal. She casted herself as the hero of her story while displaying her narcissist tendencies and resentment towards men. It felt extremely preachy and like a book of personal affirmations. I put it down and haven’t felt the need to pick it up to finish it.

I've read other Chelsea Handler books and loved them. Sadly, this isn't her usual humorous book, it's more a self help book. Well, not even that...more Chelsea's all-knowing judgement of others, which is rich coming from someone who is only now becoming an aware person.


Thank you to NetGalley for the ARC for an honest review.

I have always thoroughly enjoyed Chelsea Handler's books and this one lived up to the others immediately, just a good laugh when you need it most.

Thank you NetGalley! I’m a big time Chelsea Handler fan and feel lucky to read her new book ahead of publication. In typical Chelsea fashion, I loved it. She always makes me laugh and I love how unencumbered she is in life. Definitely a good read if you like her novels

I can’t remember which but I’ve definitely read one of her books before.. this one was different from the norm. Self healing and post-therapy was interesting from what I’m used to comparing her to. I listened to her on the Call Her Daddy podcast mid-story and had to say that when she spoke of the book it was the Chelsea I’m used to. Her stories related to love affairs, hook ups and drugs are humorous and concerning, lol. She has a good balance with generosity for kids.. though being fierce in her commitment that she doesn’t want her own. I thought the style of the book with anecdotes made it digestible. Also, no one is safe from being named. Overall, entertaining.. but I didn’t get much else from it. Keep healing, Chelsea. Thanks to Net Galley for the ARC

Please note that this ARC was provided by the publisher via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.

There were some things I liked about this book- Chelsea has interesting stories and nuggets of wisdom. However, she also has moments of irrational logic and (what I think) are unfortunate decisions (for example, giving LSD to an elderly couple celebrating their 50th? I’m not a prude but that list feels wrong.

One of my favorite takeaways is the letters that she writes to herself and her ability to manifest. There are parts of her personality that I would like to see in myself, namely a strong sense of confidence and self-worth and motivation to go after what she wants.

I'm really loving Chelsea's more recent books where she get vulnerable and talks about her personal growth. Nothing will top Life Will Be the Death of Me for me, but this is a close second!

Chelsea Handler books are always a good time and this one was no exception!

This was a fun collection of stories that I really enjoyed! This book was more focused on the personal growth that Chelsea has gone through since her last book. I loved the message of humility and kindness that was infused with humor.

If you haven’t liked her other books, pick this one up!

Thank you NetGalley and the publisher for the arc.

I thoroughly enjoyed this collection of essays from Chelsea Handler, as she discusses her time in therapy, the pandemic, interactions with her family and friends, and working on becoming a better version of herself. I was familiar with her declarations of never wanting children, so the essays focusing on her role in the lives of many children around her were a nice surprise. There was a lot of self reflection and wisdom in here, along with Chelsea's humor. A quick read.

I love Chelsea Handler so much, and it has been a minute since I read one of her books, so when I saw I'll Have What She's Having I jumped at the chance to read it. I will say this felt a bit more self helpy than her other books, but I still loved it and was more than happy to read her thoughts on life and being a woman. These essays were a mix of informational, hilarious, and thought-provoking, and I learned things about Handler that I had missed since I don’t follow celebrity gossip.

I had to listen to the audiobook since I can’t turn down an opportunity to listen to her sexy smoky voice 😅 and of course I loved it. If anyone else read her essays I am sure I would hate it, and Handler’s delivery is perfection. Her nicknames for people are the best, and I cracked up during “Cross-Country Chicanery” where she proceeded to call someone Dipsy Doodle the entire essay. 🤣 That was at the start of the book, so you can only imagine what happened from there. She did address more serious topics as well and if you want an update on what’s going on in her life, these essays will give you that plus some history.

Read this if you are looking for self-reflection, a more subdued Chelsea Handler, and self help vibes.

Audiobook Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

Chelsea Handler never misses with her funny and heartfelt stories! I loved hearing more about her relationships with ex boyfriends, friends, and family in this book. Chelsea has a way of making you feel like you were living in those moments with her and it's amazing to get to laugh along with her. I LOVED the letter to herself and her reminders to be proud of who you are and be a strong woman.

Obsessed with Chelsea and her other books so was psyched to get this one early! It took me a little bit to get into it, but I ended up thoroughly enjoying it - enough that I went to one of her book signings to get a hard copy! This one was a little more introspective than her others, with themes of gratitude and life lessons running through it, but it still had her typical humor and outrageous incidents only she could get herself into. I found myself cackling at parts, and didn't want it to end. Overall, I'd highly recommend this book (and her six others!), and can't wait to see what she does next. Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC!

I've always enjoyed Chelsea and her books even though I've not always agreed with her opinions or actions. This book was vastly different from her others- it was more self reflective and more honest than I think any of her past books have been. If you are wanting pure humor, this is not the book for you. Chelsea reminisces on her time during the pandemic as well as various recent breakups. She talks about deconstructing herself and looking inward- when you've had it all, how can you continue being happy. I enjoyed hearing about her journey towards gratitude and the process she undertook to get there. While there are some great funny stories here, I longed for even more of them in her book, which is why I haven't rated the book higher. It is a pretty short book though, so that was appreciated.

As a longtime fan of Chelsea’s comedy, shows, and books, I was excited to read her latest release. This was a departure from her previous work, highlighting her personal growth in recent years. There were some parts where I felt like it was venturing into self-help territory, but I appreciate that she has clearly learned a lot about herself and life, and she is hoping to share the wisdom with others. Definitely worth a read for fans of her work.

Thanks to NetGalley and Random House for the ARC!

This is a departure from Handler's earlier (funnier) work. It's a collection of essays about therapy, meditation, and personal growth. The humor and tone are inconsistent—one moment she’s bragging about her lavish lifestyle (ski houses, threesomes, and hired dog chauffeurs), and the next she’s preaching humility. And I don't think the anecdotes were fact-checked. At all. In my head I kept going "THAT happened." The opening story of selling alcoholic lemonade at age ten and making hundreds of dollars, followed by making even more babysitting someone older than she was, and then spending $3,000 on a first class plane ticket--wouldn't it have been more like $1,000 at most in 1985? And her being so nervous after a drug-sniffing police dog in Texas nearly got her busted that she drove all the way from there to California only stopping for gas--really? Seems like you'd need sleep or meth. I guess I've just read too many memoirs with fake stories that I'm extra suspicious now.

But if you're not a sleuth like me, the book’s biggest flaw will probably be its lack of relatability. Handler’s privilege (like buying a house in Whistler for skiing) make it hard to connect with her journey. While there are moments of genuine vulnerability, they’re overshadowed by her constant need to prove she’s a “good person.” People who are already fans of her probably already believe that, but maybe they'll enjoy the self-help journey anyway.

Thank you to the publishers and NetGalley for the opportunity to review a temporary digital ARC in exchange for an unbiased review.

I love Chelsea handler! I was so happy to be able to get an early copy of her book. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to read it.

In her latest book, Chelsea Handler really looked inward and focused on self reflection. It started at the beginning of the pandemic. Her sister and her family stayed with her and after they left, she started focusing on herself.

The part i enjoyed most was her relationship with her exe's daughters. Even though they were broken up, she still made a point of staying in their lives and being a positive influence.

This book is a far cry from her earlier books and shows how much she has grown as a person.

Recommended for: comedy memoir readers who enjoy Chelsea’s humor and crassness

Summary: This book is a memoir of Chelsea’s life mostly in the last 5 years. Including her many vacations to the North for the winter and various trips with her family.

Review: As always, I found myself LOLing often throughout the book. There were many chapters showing her growing maternal side, and I really loved seeing that, as well! On the downside, while this read as a comedy memoir, it tried to become a self-help book at times. When books try to blur the lines of genres, I start to lose interest.

Thank you NetGalley for the ARC. I love Chelsea Handler! She is real and so funny. This book will make you laugh out loud and possibly cry from laughing too much.