This novel was really tough for me to get into and follow. The writing was a little confusing and almost clunky. I didn’t feel the pull to pick it up and so it was a real struggle for me to complete. The themes are important, but I think the execution of this novel was lacking.

This wasn’t a book that captivated me and pulled me in. It was even confusing at times. A long, drawn out novel that goes nowhere fast but eventually you come full circle if you make it to the end.

this book felt so forced and unrealistic to me. I truly disliked most of the characters. It was very predictable. And just did not feel real. I was frustrated by the storyline and vthe decisions made. And despite the many years in between I felt as if there was minimal chracter growth and development.

Thank you netgalley for my advanced reader copy

I really enjoyed this story and it definitely kept me turning the pages until I found out how it ended. I had a little difficulty in some places because I wasn't familiar with the jargon used but it didn't detract from the overall story.

I had to DNF at 25%. I couldn't get into the story, Cora was a bit dull and naive and overall it felt like reading a diary of a teenager. Also, so far in and I am not feeling the connection between characters (beyond had a crush and then slept with him) and I think I would enjoy more if it was more current day?

Thank you to the author, Atria Books, and NetGalley for the arc!

The premise to this was super intriguing, but I honestly struggled to get into this one. It was probably a me problem though! I struggled a bit with the font choice that was sent to me - it was super small with a ton of words crammed on the page, making it feel really dense. I think reading it as a physical book would be better because it has a ton of potential, and I feel like other readers will love this one! Despite my personal difficulties, I would still recommend giving it a shot!

Maturing is part of life…. Looking back on past loves and how they changed our paths is a natural progression of time. But putting growth into perspective and being an adult are you one to romanticize your previous experiences just so you would or could say I would give it one more try? Or would you be able to realize before it’s too late that the relationship you had isn’t the one you want today? Follow Cora on her journey to see how she makes that decision.

"All the Men I've Loved Again" is a captivating novel that masterfully weaves together themes of love, loss, and self-discovery. Cora's journey, spanning two decades, is a testament to the complexities of human emotions and relationships.

Writing Style:
Pride's writing is evocative, with vivid descriptions of characters and settings. The narrative seamlessly shifts between past and present, allowing readers to witness Cora's growth and introspection.

Characters:
Cora is a complex, relatable protagonist, and her relationships with Lincoln and Aaron are multifaceted and authentic. The supporting cast adds depth to the story, exploring the intricacies of human connections.

Themes:
The novel explores themes of:

1. *Love and loyalty*: Cora's experiences with Lincoln and Aaron raise questions about the nature of love and loyalty.
2. *Identity and self-discovery*: Cora's journey is a powerful exploration of finding one's place in the world.
3. *Fate and second chances*: The novel's premise offers a thought-provoking commentary on the what-ifs of life.

Overall:
"All the Men I've Loved Again" is a thought-provoking and emotionally resonant novel that will appeal to readers who enjoy character-driven stories, romance, and explorations of human relationships.

Rating: 4/5 stars

Recommendation: If you enjoy books like "The Time Traveler's Wife" by Audrey Niffenegger, "The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo" by Taylor Jenkins Reid, or "Attachments" by Rainbow Rowell, you'll appreciate "All the Men I've Loved Again".

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this ARC. I enjoyed this book but it took me a little to get pulled in.

This book read a little clunky to me. I thought the main character was a bit annoying, so I could not connect with her very well. I liked the premise of this book, but I think there were aspects that needed to be changed in order for me to really enjoy it.

First off, this book is definitely more women's fiction than romance, and felt rather long to me as a result. I appreciated the deep relationships between Cora and her friends, as well as her attachment to her dad, but I could have done without most of the bits about Kim and Neisha's parents. Because I was expecting a straight-up romance based on the title and cover, the heaviness of some of the topics covered (like Lincoln's mom's alcoholism and a few plot points I won't mention here) made for a less pleasant reading experience. The pacing was also kind of awkward, with a handful of letters from Aaron thrown in at random moments, and I didn't feel like we got to know him well enough. In short, had I known to expect women's fiction rather than typical romance, I might have walked away with a more favorable view of this novel, and my review is influenced by this.

Though I didn't like some of Cora's choices, I liked her as a FMC enough, and she felt like a real human with complex emotions, as did Lincoln (even though I didn't like him right off the bat!). The early 2000s setting made for a fun flashback (though some of the references felt more 90s than 00s, making me wonder if this book was originally written with an earlier timeline), and the whole college experience felt authentic and took me back in a way no other book has done in recent memory. The writing was great, and I'd certainly read more from this author again.

Many thanks to NetGalley and Atria Books for the opportunity to read this ARC and give an honest review!

This book is five stars for a Happily Ever After. A Black woman chooses love on her own terms. I want a book about Cora's dad or about a group of distinguished Black men. The crux of the story is that love can be simple and overwhelming. The romance is meaningful. The timelines are perfect for the story and carry a strong pace for fulfilled characters. The nostalgia is also just enough and serves a purpose for Cora's story.

Two stars, I hate to say. The nostalgia of the early 2000s and the writing were my favorite parts, but Cora. Ugh. Not my favorite FMC.

Thank you, NetGalley and Atria Books for the e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.

What if the two men you loved in college come back into your life 20 years later? This is the premise of All the Men I've Loved Again. Cora Belle, a shy, introverted woman begins her freshman year in 1999 where she falls in love with Lincoln, a Southern boy who plans on moving far beyond his challenging upbringing. And when life with Lincoln takes a bit of a detour, Cora meets and falls in love with photographer Aaron.

Never being able to commit to either man, the book fast forwards 20 years in the future when Cora is approaching 40 and both Lincoln and Aaron reenter her life. While I loved the premise and the "what ifs" of this book, I couldn't help but feel that both Cora and several of the other characters seemed two dimensional. I could understand an indecisive 20-something Cora, but an almost 40-something Cora who is still perplexed and puzzled with life felt a little annoying.

Call me prudish, but the sex could have been toned down a bit; overall, I found the book a solid read with some interesting twists at the end.

Thank you to #NetGalley and #AtriaBooks for this electronic ARC of #AlltheMenIveLovedAgain.

All the Men I've Loved Again by Christine Pride peaked my interest with just the title. This is a coming of stage story with a little love triangle mixed in. This was a cute, fun read.

Thank you to NetGalley, the author, & the publisher for an ARC copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

This was a sweet story, but a little low on substance and dialogue. Cora’s indecision on pretty much everything over the 20 years this story unfolds jars a little. I wanted to see some progressive of character. Cora is sheltered and shy when she leaves for college and falls for the lovely Lincoln. He is kind, confidant and knows what he wants from his future. Cora finds herself adrift so much, Lincoln’s certainty is a draw she can’t resist. And then she meets Aaron, who she connects with instantly. Things don’t go the way she hopes and she finds herself alone twenty years later and reconnecting with them again. Will she make a choice this time or let others make the decisions for her?
I would have liked less Cora inner thinking and more active prose and dialogue. Her friends were very two dimensional which was sad. I think some chapters from Cora’s upbringing would have broken the endless Cora thoughts. Snippets from her past to help us understand what drives her (or some reasoning for why she isn’t driven).
Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC

3.5 Stars rounded up

First love, personal growth, & what if's are all explored in this heartfelt novel. While this was an enjoyable read, I feel like some of the romance could have been developed further.

All the men I’ve loved before is literally everything in the title! It had to do with Cora who goes away to college, she is finding herself then enter two guys who she falls for. Fast forward to today, 20 years later and they show up in her life again and she is faced with similar situations and feelings. So much drama, with some funny situations in there as well. It has a little bit for everyone! Go pick up a copy as soon as it comes out!

This was a meh for me.

A complex character with too much going on: it just wasn't my cup of tea.

I wanted Cora and her father's relationship to be more real; it just felt too fake to me.

This book is a realistic depiction of first loves, coming into your own, family and friendship.

Christine Pride did a wonderful job bringing Cora to life and giving her a lot of depth and growth through the book. My favorite part of the book was the connection Cora had to her friends and also Cora’s relationship with her father.

I love that this book took place over decades and there was some back and forth in the timeline to keep it interesting overall. Unfortunately I found the love interests to be a bland and one dimensional.

Personally I really wanted more of Cora, her connecting to her African American identity and forming community, her growth in self assurance and confidence. She was a wonderful character to follow from her college years to adulthood and I think a lot of readers can connect with her. This book does a great job of dealing with some harder topics such as being child free and unexpected pregnancies and I enjoyed exploring that.

Overall I think this was a great book in terms of coming-of-age stories and once Cora, her friends and family are very interesting but the romance fell a bit flat for me.