Christine Pride's All the Men I've Loved Again offers an engaging exploration of past relationships and personal growth. The protagonist's journey through her romantic history is both relatable and insightful, shedding light on the complexities of love and self-discovery. While the narrative is compelling, I found certain plot developments to be somewhat predictable, which slightly diminished the overall impact. Nevertheless, Pride's writing style is engaging, and her character development is commendable. Overall, it's a thoughtful read that resonates with anyone reflecting on their own romantic past.

Christine Pride writes a lovely story about first love and second love and love a second time. It's also about growing up: what it's like being a child in the world and wanting to find your place in it, and not sure if you can 20 years later. While sometimes the characters did things that annoyed me I understand it. Everyone in the story felt like someone I could've known. This is NOT about an easy happily ever after with a third act breakup, but what it's really like to be in love for your entire life.

I didn’t totally know what to expect, but I loved this book. With the majority of it taking place in the early 2000s, I loved the nostalgia and callbacks to things at that time. The characters were well-developed but not overly complicated, which made it easy to dive into their storylines and focus on the plot development. I have seen a couple reviews saying they wanted more of Cora and Aaron’s relationship, but to me that’s kind of the point. The amount of time she spent with Aaron vs with Lincoln was part of why she was trying to convince herself that’s who she should be with. I could go on and on but I really don’t have anything I would change about this book. Every time I thought I wasn’t going to like the direction it was going, it turns out it made total sense and made me want to keep reading more.

Thank you for the ARC NetGalley.

3.5 ⭐️

I enjoyed the plot and the characters. It was a really cool concept for a book. I may try to read it again in paperback. It is very hard to read on the kindle. The font in the journals hurt my eyes.

"It was bewildering not to be able to tell if you were gaining something or losing something or both". This one really stuck with me. In my opinion, so much of this book was all of the place, slow to start, and lacking intention. But then their were lines like that one that just drew me in and made me realize this story wasn't sitting right with me because it was so much like real life as opposed to a carefully constructed fiction plot. I'm still not fully sure how I felt, at times it felt slow to start and confusing but other times it felt like talking to your closest friend. At the end of the day, it made me feel which is what reading is truly all about. Plus, the cover is such a good one!

Cora is like most of us women. She wants love and happiness and she will do almost anything to get it. When she falls for 2 men at the same time in college, it doesn’t turn out well. Now, 20 years later both men pop back into her life. I was on the edge of my seat trying to find out how or if Cora would get her happily ever after! Great book!

This was a sweet bokk, which one could think was Young Adult, but I really enjoyed it. Cora, the main character is frustrating at times, but you see her growing. Her relationship with her friends is interesting to follow.

Thank you to Atria Books and NetGalley for a digital ARC in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.

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This was a charming and endearing coming-of-age story! I loved the pacing of this book, Cora's relationship with Wes and her friends, and the time period the book is spread out across. I was frustrated with Cora's decisions in college but of course, I would say the same thing about my choices at 19 or 20 too. I think Pride did a solid job showing "the whole person" of both Cora and her love interests. My only complaints are petty: there are small details that are improbable/wrong that I can't get out of my brain. The two that I remember are: that there isn't a Formula One race in Charlotte and flights for Paris from the US basically never leave at 7 am. Thanks to NetGalley for the advanced copy!

All The Men I’ve Loved Again follows the story of Cora as she navigates adulthood and relationships. While the blurb suggests that this is a romance love triangle, it’s more a solo journey for Cora in her self discovery.

The first half of the book flashes 20 years in the past. Cora arrives at college where she makes her two best, lifelong friends. Cora grew up in a single-parent (father) home, the only Black girl in her school and environment. As she enters her first trial of adulthood, she finds her footing, makes connections with other POC for the first time in her life, and experiences her first love. I absolutely loved the inner dialogue of Cora. She’s a brilliant but anxious individual that many will be able to relate with. I also enjoyed the 90s and early 2000s nostalgia included in the early chapters.
The second half of the book is focused on the present day when Cora chooses which man from her past she would like to pursue. It’s an interesting story showing how we individually change along with our relationships as we go through life.

The reason I didn’t love this story has more to do with the editorial process than the author. The letters included throughout the story were so difficult to read because of the formatting. I was not able to read at all on my kindle because of the sizing. When I switched to the Kindle app on my phone, I was able to read, but it was a hassle and I found myself dreading those sections of the book. My hope is that this will either be fixed by publication, or the print version will be void of these problems.

Overall, a fun and insightful read that is heavy on the character development! Thank you to NetGalley for this ARC in exchange for my honest review.

The protagonist is my age according to the dates listed, but she actually "felt really old" in language use and style and references. I had trouble working past the dissonance and stopped after chapter 2 (5%).

The writing itself was easy to read and follow, and even though this story didn't work for me, I am looking forward to reading more from the author.. I purchased a copy of "We Are Not Like Them" and am looking forward to it.

Thank you to Atria and NetGalley for the ARC.

All The Men I've Loved Again is an unforgettable journey through love, identity, and the tangled web of fate. Set against the backdrop of 1999, Cora Belle’s story is both nostalgic and timeless, capturing the joy and heartbreak of first love, self-discovery, and second chances. The richly drawn characters, especially Lincoln and Aaron, make you feel every triumph and heartache alongside Cora. The novel’s emotional depth and unexpected twists keep you hooked, while its exploration of race, loyalty, and vulnerability resonates deeply. A beautifully written, heartfelt masterpiece that will stay with you long after the last page.

**A Thoughtful and Heartfelt Exploration of Love and Second Chances**

Christine Pride’s *All the Men I’ve Loved Again* is a beautifully written story about love, identity, and the complexities of human connection. Spanning decades, the novel follows Cora Belle as she navigates first love, heartbreak, and the lingering “what-ifs” that shape her life.

With richly developed characters and an emotionally resonant narrative, Pride captures the essence of coming of age—twice—and the challenges of rediscovering oneself in the face of love and loss. This novel is a poignant and hopeful reminder that life’s twists and turns often lead us right back to where we started, but with new perspectives and deeper understanding.

Fans of heartfelt, character-driven stories will find much to love in this dazzling debut!

my new years resolution is to not force myself to read books that I'm not enjoying. this unfortunately was one of those. I could not finish this. between the slow pacing (which is fine!) and then hatred for white women, this just wasn't for me. i really was looking forward to reading this. thanks netgalley & the publisher for the ARC in exchange for an honest review

I loved the idea behind All The Men I've Loved Before by Christine Pride, and I really enjoyed following Cora’s journey as she navigates love, loss, and figuring out who she is. The book does a great job of exploring the idea that there isn’t always a “right” or “wrong” person for us—just different paths to take—and I found that perspective really thought-provoking.

One of my favorite aspects was the nostalgia woven into the story. Reflecting on past relationships and how they shape who we are felt so relatable and added depth to the narrative. I also loved the unique use of letters, which provided an intimate glimpse into Cora and Aaron’s connection. However, while it was a creative approach, the way the story unfolded sometimes felt a bit disjointed, making it harder to stay fully engaged in parts.

The pacing was slow at times, and I felt the ending wrapped up a little too quickly, especially considering how much focus was placed on certain characters over others. Despite these challenges, I still enjoyed the themes of growth, self-discovery, and the complexities of love throughout the story. 3.5/5 stars.

Thank you to NetGalley and Atria Press for the opportunity to read this ARC in exchange for an honest review!

Thank you to Atria and NeGalley for giving me the opportunity to read and review this title.

Christina Pride has a beautiful writing style and really knows how to paint the perfect picture through her words, overall the themes and main idea of the book were captivating and enjoyable. However, I was very disinterested by the significant amount of pop culture references being made by the characters and I didnt completely agree with the choices being made by the FMC.

The last book I read that Christine Pride co-authored was an instant 5 stars. Needless to say I was ecstatic to read her solo debut. I absolutely loved the nostalgic vibe of this book and the way it was divided into two halves, past and present. Often authors switch back and forth between the two, but I actually prefer the way Christine did it- in two big chunks rather than switching back and forth every chapter or so. I loved the supporting characters but I didn’t agree with many of the decisions made by the main character, including the big one at the end.

The book is a coming of age story of finding love, losing love, and finding love again. Cora is navigating life and trying to find out who she is while trying to work through the growing pains of growing up and first love. While the book is set up to be a love triangle, I felt it was less of a focus of the overall story. The book was a slow read for me and I felt the ending happened really fast; which was also abrupt given the focus on certain characters vs. others. Overall, it was more of a coming of age story and trying to find oneself. Thank you NetGalley and Atria Press for the opportunity to review this arc in exchange for an honest review.

As Wes eloquently stated, Cora was floating through life without seizing her own happiness. She didn't realize that she deserved credit for finding her own happiness and not believing it was simply fate. Because of that, she veered off the path of least resistance and found the person who she was truly herself with. Like the photograph he captured her in the light of Paris, he captured Cora as a person full of joy and life. Lincoln may have believed that it was always her but as they grew older he wanted to mold her into what he wanted her to be. The life he had always aspired to given his upbringing that she would simply fit into. It may have been serendipity that Aaron and Cora found themselves back together at Neisha's party but it took years of not seeing each other that made them realize that they were each other's person. There was a reason both held onto the letters. This book makes the reader believe in love and that everything truly happens for a reason if one is open to it and will fight for it.

For my first review of 2025, I had the opportunity to read “All the Men I’ve Loved Again by Christine Pride. Thank you NetGalley and Atria Press for the opportunity to review this arc.
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Now on to the good stuff! At first it took me a few pages to get into the book. The main character, Cora, has a lot of internal dialogue, and it stressed me out how anxious she was 😩; however, it all came together later in the book when it’s confirmed that she struggles with anxiety, and has some unresolved issues from her past.
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Once I got into the book, it’s a clear Coming of Age story with a dash of Romance. The author makes you fall in love with Cora and Lincoln only to rip the rug from under you. Enter Aaron 😩 he wasn’t my fav, but as the story unravels and you learn more about Cora, Aaron and Lincoln, it becomes clear why this choice is so hard for Cora. Although these characters are well written I would have enjoyed learning more about Aaron and Cora’s relationship. I loved the nod to sisterhood. Cora’s relationship with Neisha and Kim added comedic relief and shined a light on the best parts about friendship.
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So who does Cora choose? You’re going to have to check this one out on Pub day to find out how it all ends!
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The title gives me pause as the book is 70% devoted to one love and less than 30% to the other. Be that as it may, this novel is about a neurotic middle class black girl who falls in love and gains two lifelong friends in her first year of college. Cora. raised by her father, Wes after her mother's death, is a driven, conflicted young woman. Meeting Lincoln, a handsome young man who works multiple jobs to support his education and two other freshman women, Neisha and Kim all of whom impact the rest of her life.

The book is well written and very readable, well characterized and informative. You follow Cora's growth intellectually and emotionally and her love of her father, two lovers and two best friends. It would have been more satisfying to have devoted equal time to the two men who impacted Cora's life and, perhaps that would have made her decision more understandable. It might also have earned a solid Four Stars instead of a 3 1/2.

Thanks to Net Galley and Atria Press for the chance to read an early copy.