My Friends is a gut-punch of a novel - a raw, beautiful tribute to the friendships that carry us through the hardest parts of growing up and the way those bonds echo through the rest of our lives. It’s emotional, yes. It’s heartbreaking. It’s hopeful. It’s about love in its most stubborn, ferocious form.

Backman doesn’t just write stories; he writes emotions you can feel pulsing off the page. He doesn’t hand you a narrative - he invites you into it and forces you to reckon with your own memories, your own losses, your own moments of forgiveness. It’s the kind of novel that meets you exactly where you are, whether you're ready or not.

I’m not certain anything could top the Beartown series for me, but Backman continues to wow me with the depth of his writing.
This doesn’t just tell a story - Backman hands you your own heart and asks you to remember. This wrecked me, then healed me.

Special thanks to NetGalley and Atria Books for the e-ARC. My Friends releases on May 20. Pre-order it, hug your people, and get ready to feel EVERYTHING.

It's so hard for me to review Fredrik Backman's books because I feel like I can't do them justice. His books just work so damn well for me as a reader.

I love how he creates characters that I feel like I know right away, and the characters in My Friends are no exception. The structure also worked really well for me.

I honestly can't wait to reread this someday.

** I received an e-ARC through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

Backman's books are always gorgeous, but I think this is his best yet. Reflective, thoughtful, tragic and yet redemptive. Somehow felt like his most personal. I loved every one of these characters wholeheartedly. The ending is surprising without being ridiculous. A thoroughly enjoyable read.

“I love you and I trust you.”

My Friends is my most anticipated book of the year since this is one of my favorite authors! I have been eagerly anticipating his next book. It’s been a few years, minus the Amazon short story. He’s coming to my local bookstore/library for an author event, and I could not be more excited. Anyway, I had to emotionally prepare myself before starting this book. Backman is my favorite author, but he knows how to destroy my emotions. I am going to gush a lot, and I apologize in advance. I adored this book and came close to overtaking A Man Called Ove as my favorite. This is a story about amazing friendships, family, and love.

Backman has a unique writing style that starts slow and full of detail. You don’t know where he’s taking the story until it hits you in the face. My guesses were wrong many times! I was on the edge of my seat for most of this book. Some moments hit you hard, and it can sneak up on you. This story is in two timelines, and we learn about all the friends through stories from the past. A lot is happening, and you are constantly on your tippy toes. There can be so much heartbreak in Backman’s books, but that’s life. It feels so real and relatable because just being alive can be hard. The lessons he shares throughout are always inspiring and full of hope. Something I always see in his writing is how ONE SMALL decision, instance, or second can make or break someone. Many little butterfly effects can lead to major impacts. The world can be such an unfair and cruel place. It just takes one small act of kindness to change someone’s life.

“It’s a long life, but fast, one single step in the right direction can be enough.”

One of my favorite things about Backman’s writing is how characters can pop up for a small amount of time and make huge impacts. It’s something that he often does in his books. Louisa is a character that I felt for right away. She’s had a hard life and doesn’t know what to do. It is easy to fall in love with all these characters as the story unfolds. This group of friends that have come together because of their differences. They celebrate each other and love each other. Count yourself blessed if you are lucky enough to have friends who will do anything for you. Each one brought so much to the group and left their marks.

I will never be able to do this book review justice. It’s beautiful, heartbreaking, wonderful, and sad. I went through a roller coaster of emotions. I found myself crying many times and laughing out loud. This book is why I enjoy Backman’s writing so much. It’s such a journey and full of reflection. I read this book in two days. I hope he decides to keep writing because this world is a better place with his stories.

Thank you, Atria Books and Netgalley, for the e-arc. All thoughts and opinions are my own!

I finished the book a few weeks ago and haven't stopped thinking about it. The way Fredrik Backman writes is so beautiful and just makes you feel every possible emotion so deeply. I laughed. I cried. I felt everything. This book, while it has its light moments, definitely covers some heavier topics. Cannot wait to get my hands on the physical copy when it comes out!!

My Friends is a lovely portrayal of how a few friends spent a fantastical summer (full of terrible ideas!) and how they’re still living with (and grieving) the memories of that summer 25 years later.

Not one character turns out who they seem to be on the surface, and every single relationship brings a bit of surprise. No one brings characters to life quite like Fredrik Backman and this is another stunning example of the beauty of human nature. It gives me hope we’re all able to find the people who are “one of us” 😭

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𝐌𝐲 𝐅𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐛𝐲 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐫𝐢𝐤 𝐁𝐚𝐜𝐤𝐦𝐚𝐧

I was so so excited to pick up @backmansk’s upcoming release - thanks to @atriabooks for the gifted copy out 5/6!

👍🏼: It’s been a while since I’ve read a book by this author, and I forgot how much I missed his writing, his character development, and his ability to break your heart and put it back together again within one story. I absolutely loved this heartbreaking story of four teenage best friends, jumping back and forth from their memorable summer 25 years earlier, to their present day impact on a young girl, Louisa. There were so many humorous parts of the story, but also so many moving & sad realizations as the past and present unfolded. I loved every minute!

👎🏼: I have no notes! This was such a beautiful & memorable story - I wouldn’t change a thing 😂

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This book! Wow I just loved it! I was hesitant in the beginning because I was not sure how slow the storyline would be, but this book was just so great! The characters were everything! My favorite of his for sure! Please read this book!

This book was very classic Frederik Backman - and that’s a compliment. Jumping into another book of his feels like a continuation of every other story he’s written and that just makes me feel like returning for another warm hug.
This story was a tough read through some parts given the topics being covered and those these issues impacted. The lessons were deep and the way it was handled makes me want every single person to read this book so they can learn the impacts of their actions.
I walk away from this book was an added depth and appreciation for art and also for those who continue on after the death of a loved one. These were just covered with such care and kindness.

This book is devastating and funny and perfect and sad and wonderful and so hopeful and just so realistic UGH. I sobbed through most of this book to be so honest. The characters that Backman created in this book, as well as the relationships between them all was so insanely well done. Everyone everywhere needs to read this book immediately (aka when it releases on may 6).

Thank you to Atria and Netgalley for the advanced copy!

A foster care graduate, Louisa, has a chance encounter with the artist of her favorite painting. The artist is dying, and leaves this world-famous, valuable painting to this 18-year-old homeless girl. Louisa then befriends the artist's good friend Ted, who reluctantly tells her the story of the four best friends in the painting.

This novel was a sort of comedy of errors where nothing much happens. I found Ted and Louisa's relationship to be a little annoying and the flashback story of the four friends to be overly angsty and repetitive. I do enjoy Backman's writing and occasionally funny turns of phrase, but this was not my favorite of his.

Wow. No one writes like Fredrik Backman. He captures the essence of being human in a unique way. This book has it all--laughter, heartfelt emotions, melancholy, joy, suspense. It is heavy but in a satisfying way. It tells the looping story (in a Backman way) of four friends in a small town, age 14--how they saved each other, loved each other, and helped each other see the world. If you read this, be prepared for all the emotions--it has the full range and is definitely not one to sit and read in a day--it is just too full to do that. You need to savor it a little at a time. Highly recommend but be prepared to be thoughtful as you look at the world around you.

Please don't hate me for not loving this book. I love Backman's writing and was excited to read My Friends.

This story is about friendship, that one unforgettable summer in your teens, about loss and love for art. We start with Louisa, a foster care child that is wanting to see a famous piece of art in her town. She by chance meets that artist and they have an instant connection.

We have Louisa then crossing path with Ted, who was the artist's friend and they go on a journey that goes back 25 years of Ted, the artist and the friends that summer that inspired the picture.

Along the way, we learn more about Louisa as well and what she has been through. The story at parts moved a bit slow for me.

I thought it was interesting that we don't get the artist's name until almost the end. I am curious what is the purpose of that.

Thank you @atriabooks for a copy of this.

No one writes the human experience quite like Fredrik Backman. My Friends has his distinct writing style, dialogue, humor and meandering but poignant observations on life, friendship and art.

We follow Louise and Ted after they cross paths due to a 25 year old painting and learn the story of 4 friends, told in a dual timeline narrative. Although both Louisa and Ted read a little young for their perspective ages, their stories are a moving testament to the power of finding your people, the bond forged during those awkward and confusing teenage years, and how those relationships and experiences impact the rest of your life. These 4 friends witness and go through more than anything child should have to and the way Backman writes these traumatic events with his trademark humor with care and sensitivity is one of my favorite aspects of his writing.

My Friends is a story about friendship, love, trust, loss and grief along with being a love letter to art. I’ve heard many creatives talk about the need to create art, like deep in their spirit, they have to create art in order to keep going — and while I’m not a creative person whatsoever — I can relate somewhat because I am an avid consumer of art. Like deep in my spirit, I consume and enjoy art in order to keep going. And I think this book is a beautiful portrayal of that.


Thank you to Atria Books and NetGalley for an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review <3

My ARC was provided by the publisher via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review. Only Fredrick Backman can make me laugh as he tears my heart in pieces and mends them back together

My Friends is a story about art, friendship, and grief. It begins with Louisa breaking into a church that is hosting an art auction including "The One of the Sea," Louisa's favorite painting. While running from the police, she bumps into the artist himself, C. Jat, hiding behind the church. The artist leaves the painting for Louisa, introducing her to one of his best friends, Ted. Louisa and Ted embark on a journey back to where the painting was created as Ted tells Louisa the story behind the painting and the friendships that helped create it.

This is a heartwarming and heartbreaking story in equal parts. It is told in bits and pieces focusing on various characters in the story, set in the summer the painting was made and in the present as Ted and Louisa are figuring out what their next steps are. The tone and dialogue is whimsical and lyrical, which I think is pretty usual for Backman's work. It might not be the most realistic, but it beautifully conveys the ways that the characters are feeling and comes back to the same themes and motifs throughout. Fans of Backman will definitely enjoy his latest work and anyone who is interested in bittersweet stories about friendship, grief, and nostalgia should check this one out.

My Friends by Fredrik Backman is nothing short of a masterpiece. It showcases the author's keen ability to capture the bittersweetness of being human; the poignancy, anguish, anger, disappointment, fear, hope, laughter, love, sheer joy and all of the other emotions which come with it. Readers across the globe will once again find themselves mesmerized by the heartwarming and heartbreaking tale Backman has placed within these pages and by the memorable characters he has created.

This is a book you deserve to experience, and I hope you do. Be prepared to laugh, to cry, to marvel at the wisdom contained here, and to be stopped in your tracks by the power of this novel. It's a read that has imprinted itself on me. I won't forget it, and I'm betting you won't be too many pages into it before you begin to feel the same way. It deserves so much more than a five-star review!

Thanks to this gifted author who continues to share his talent with us. Thanks too to Atria Books for allowing me to read a DRC of the novel via NetGalley. Publication is 5/6/25. All thoughts and opinions expressed in this review are my own and are freely given.

Fredrik Backman has become an auto-buy author for me, so I was extra excited for this ARC. I love the way he writes and captures people, which is true for this one as well.

The only possession she’s had her entire life, through every foster home, is a postcard replica of her favorite painting. “My Friends” follows Ted and Louisa’s unusual friendship as Ted describes the stories of his friend group that led up to the creation of Louisa’s favorite painting — created by Ted’s late best friend.

This novel captures all of the human emotions and how massive they feel at 14: being a kid, finding your place in the world, first loves (platonic and romantic), hating your parents and never wanting to be like them, yet are fiercely loyal to, and how friendship, even at a young age shapes the way you see yourself and the world well into adulthood.
There’s so many quotes I loved from this one 🥹 thank you NetGalley for the arc.

I loved it. My ARC (Thank you @atria and @simon) is brimming with tabs to mark passage after passage that I wanted to remember. Some of which I captured in my reading journal (scroll)

If I could only read one author for the rest of my life it would be Fredrik Backman. His writing always speaks to me on a deep level. He takes these seemingly normal people living normal lives and subtlety shines a light on the best (and worst) parts of what makes us who we are. His stories and characters make me think about big picture things without feeling like I’m being smothered by them. He delivers depth in such an accessible way. He brings people to life. I am still thinking about these characters and their story.

This story is a somber, sad, and beautifully poignant portrayal of friendship. What other words can I say? Genuine, heartfelt, clumsy, authentic, clever, heartbreaking, funny, emotionally resonant and wholly human.

One of the reasons Fredrik Backman is one of my favorite authors is his ability to make me laugh, ache with the characters and stop and ponder a quote and think, ‘wow, that was deep,’ all in short succession.

My husband was often confused about what book I was reading, thinking I was switching between books in one sitting, because one minute I’d read him a quote I’d laughed out loud at, and then a few minutes later I’d read him this profound and insightful quote that has broad application and implications. Backman’s characteristic ability to do both well, often on the same page, is what makes his books so enjoyable/fantastic/satisfying.

His metaphors and similes in My Friends are so hilarious. Since I read the book as an ARC, I’m not sure whether I’m allowed to share any, but this is a teaser to get ready to chuckle and wonder how in the world he made those connections.

The characters in My Friends are ones I wish I knew in real life.

It’s not until the end when all the pieces of the story come together. This, at times made me want to skip ahead a little, but I could never let myself do that when reading a book. I often felt like Louisa did as she was learning the story of the friends, I wanted to know the ending, but at the same time I didn’t, because knowing might spoil the reverie of the story.

Backman has done it again. I can’t wait for the next one.

Side note that’s unrelated to this book: follow Backman on Instagram to enjoy his humor outside of the printed word — I always know I’m in for a laugh when I see his posts on my thread.

I’m thrilled I’ll be going to Winston-Salem next month to hear Backman on his book tour.

My many thanks to Netgalley and Atria Books for the ARC. All thoughts, musings and opinions are my own.