The Third Element walks you through how emotions are key to the law of attraction.

Randy uses his own story as an example and then asks the reader questions so we can start exploring our emotions ourselves. He’s a man of science, so his strategy combines both science and faith.

Each chapter builds on the last and we are given actionable strategies to apply in our lives.

The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction by Randy Lyman is one of those books that quickly surprises you. While you might be expecting a typical personal improvement book, you will soon find that this one is a bit different in its approach. It blends science, philosophy, and storytelling with a profoundly personal sincerity.

Lyman takes a fresh look at the Law of Attraction, offering insights that go beyond the usual surface-level advice. Instead of just telling you to “think positive,” he digs into the deeper mechanics of how energy, intention, and consciousness really work.

The writing is thoughtful and informative without becoming dry. You can tell there’s a real heart behind every idea. If you’re into books that make you think, feel, and maybe even shift your perspective, this one’s worth picking up.

I received a copy of the book for the tour. This review is my honest, unbiased opinion.

This book is about how to unlock the life you want. Randy teaches how to embrace your emotions and accept your past to move forward with your life. I liked that he mentioned the potential critiques people would have for each point he made. He acknowledged that people could push against these theories, but these are the things that worked for him.

The Third Element is an inspiring read!

Thank you iRead Book Tours for providing a copy of this book as part of a paid campaign!

If you've ever felt like the Law of Attraction isn't quite working for you, The Third Element might be the missing piece you've been searching for. Randy Lyman, a physicist turned emotional intelligence expert, dives deep into the connection between science, spirituality, and emotional mastery to unlock true abundance.

This book explores how unprocessed emotions can secretly shape our reality and block success. Lyman argues that mastering emotions is the key to manifestation, bridging the gap between positive thinking and lasting results.

I have always loved trying out different ways for laws of attraction, and this book takes it a step deeper, guiding us on how emotions play a major part with relatable examples that make the concepts easier to understand.

🔹Why You’ll Love It
✔️ A fresh take on the Law of Attraction
✔️ Blends scientific precision with spiritual wisdom
✔️ Practical strategies for emotional healing and transformation

If you're ready to take your manifestation journey to the next level, The Third Element offers a compelling perspective on how emotional mastery can unlock your full potential.

Thank you to the publisher and Netgalley for my e-ARC of The Third Element!

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📖 enjoy reading nonfiction
✨ believe in manifestation
💭 want to have a life you love
🖊️ like making checklists

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If manifestation is so great, why does it feel like banging your head against a brick wall?

Sure, you may have the discipline—the drive, strength, and perseverance it takes to build the life of your dreams. Yes, you may have the intellect—the understanding that you have the power to shape your own reality and a foolproof, step-by-step plan to do so.

So why isn’t all the planning, hard work, and visualization working? And when you do finally start achieving success, why does it still feel like something’s missing?

When it comes to creating abundance or finding inner peace, most people assume that mind-body alignment is enough. But we’re still missing one critical element—the long-neglected key to manifestation.

Each and every one of us holds the answer to unlocking the life of our dreams: the power and limitless potential of the Third Element.

Join entrepreneur, engineer, and speaker Randy Lyman as he unpacks his own journey and shows us exactly how our emotional experiences—the pains, the joys, and everything in-between—are both our greatest obstacles and our most powerful assets.

And this book is going to show you how to use it.

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This is such a great read for people who want to make the most of their lives. It includes so much information to help you achieve your goals and then some. There are real world examples, which I always appreciate, because I like to hear about other people’s experiences, whether those be successes or failures or both! What’s unique about this nonfiction book is its seamless blend of science and spirituality! This makes for a new kind of perspective that you might not have seen before. It also includes the steps necessary to start yourself on this path. This book really does have everything to set you on the path you’re seeking!

In The Third Element, physicist, multi-millionaire entrepreneur, and emotional mastery expert Randy Lyman reveals how unprocessed emotions are the invisible barriers to success, fulfillment, and abundance. This transformative guide blends groundbreaking insights with actionable strategies to help you master your emotions, align your thoughts, and tap into your innate power.

▷ A unique, and truly fascinating guide that tackles topics we often overlook. Unprocessed emotions are the bane of human existence but there ARE ways of coping. And Randy Lyman provides new and exciting ways to process these emotions to live a more fulfilling life.

{I was gifted a complimentary copy of this book. All reviews are my own.}

I have read quite a lot of books about the so-called law of attraction. Most of them are super vague and end with something disappointing like implying that this works for everyone, yet if it doesn’t work for you, well, that’s your own fault because you must be doing it wrong and it’s on you.
This one? Not vague. Very clear, in fact. And not pushing pages upon pages of fluff, only to end up being yet another sales pitch for some paid manifestation course. Seriously, I’ve seen so many of those. Omg.
Ok, back to what this book is – EMOTIONS. It talks about emotions and emotional regulation as the missing element. Makes sense, as emotional regulation skills seem to be a major missing key to, well, to literally everything – if you want to achieve anything at all. I believe so many fail at what they do just because they are not too good with their own emotions, with their own attitude towards the way they feel, act, react.
I’d say it doesn’t really matter if you believe in the law of attraction at all – this book has actionable steps to recognize and manage your emotions, your emotional background, and your emotional reactivity. And that is a lot.

I found this to be a very relevant read for our tumultuous present times. The idea of using emotional mastery is interesting, and I appreciated the author’s scientific explanation of how emotion is a part of our journey to achieving our goals and can be a barrier to success. In my experience, being able to accept professional feedback as someone’s way of trying to help you rather than getting defensive can make such a difference.

What if your emotions weren’t just reactions, but the key to success, fulfilment, and personal transformation?

In The Third Element, physicist, multi-millionaire entrepreneur, and emotional mastery expert Randy Lyman presents a fresh, science-backed perspective on how emotions shape our reality.

This isn’t just another self-help book full of motivational quotes. Lyman combines cutting-edge neuroscience, quantum physics, and practical exercises to help readers rewire their thinking, process unresolved emotions, and take control of their lives.

The Core Idea: Emotions as the Missing Link

We’re often told that success comes from hard work and positive thinking, but according to Lyman, that’s only part of the equation. The “third element” is emotional mastery: the ability to understand, regulate, and harness our emotions to unlock true potential.

Without mastering our emotions, we unknowingly create self-sabotaging patterns, holding ourselves back from abundance, happiness, and achievement. Through a blend of scientific principles and real-world application, Lyman provides a roadmap to reprogram our subconscious mind and break through invisible barriers.

What Makes This Book Stand Out?

✅ Science Meets Spirituality – A rare blend of physics, psychology, and personal development that feels both intellectual and deeply personal.

✅ Actionable Steps – Practical exercises to help readers identify emotional blocks and shift limiting beliefs.

✅ Real-World Examples – Inspiring stories from entrepreneurs, scientists, and everyday people who transformed their lives by mastering their emotions.

✅ Fresh Perspective – Moves beyond traditional “positive thinking” approaches, offering a deeper, more holistic method for self-growth.

Who Should Read This?
* Entrepreneurs & High Achievers looking for the secret edge in business and life.
* Anyone Stuck in Self-Sabotage who wants to break free of limiting beliefs and emotional baggage.
* Personal Growth Enthusiasts who love books that mix science, psychology, and self-improvement.

The Third Element isn’t just a book, it’s a roadmap to self-discovery and success. If you’re ready to break through emotional blocks and step into your power, this guide offers the tools to help you do just that.

The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction is a very powerful story that explores emotions and spiritual growth. The author Randy Lyman writes about his own experience and then asks questions to get you thinking about yourself. I felt touched and enjoyed exploring my emotions on a deeper level. The chapters are insightful and helpful. I particularly like idea of a guide to happiness. It's a raw and honest material which is both scientific and non-technical and the author has some wonderful knowledge which he shares.

I found Randy Lyman's The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction to be a powerful book to read. The messaging can be life changing. The author does a fantastic job in helping the reader in finding themselves in a deeper, spirtual selves. He teaches on how to better oneself, how to be happier, finding their purpose. I thought it was great for myself as I am trying to heal from losses of my significant other of 15 years, my best friend of 40 years, and lifelong toxic relationships. It helped me how to take those situations to use as a tool to learn and grow from them. It was insightful for me to see things in a different perspective. It really spoke to me in ways other self help books have not been able to do.



The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction will be getting a very deserved five plus stars from me. I would have given it one hundred if I could. I highly recommend it for readers who are searching for inspiring read on learning about personal growth. I would love for Randy Lyman to release more books like this one in the near future.



I received a digital copy of Randy Lyman's The Third Element: The Missing Key to Activating the Law of Attraction from the publisher, but was not required to write a positive review. This review is one hundred percent my own honest opinion.

"The Third Element" by Randy Lyman is a transformative and insightful guide. The author offers a unique and authoritative perspective on how unprocessed emotions can act as invisible barriers to success, fulfillment, and abundance. The book combines groundbreaking insights with actionable strategies that are both practical and easy to implement. Lyman's approach to mastering emotions, aligning thoughts, and tapping into one's innate power is truly enlightening. The wisdom and real-world applications presented in this book are invaluable and provide a clear path to creating a life of unlimited possibilities.

I found the concepts in "The Third Element" to be both thought-provoking and inspiring. The way the author integrates scientific knowledge with emotional intelligence is particularly impressive. Each chapter is packed with valuable information and exercises that have helped me gain a deeper understanding of myself and how to overcome the emotional obstacles that have been holding me back.