I feel on the whole that I'm not the right audience for this book, and I hope it finds that audience--I am excited to live in a world where fun, speculative, sapphic romances are a thing, but unfortunately felt I know too much about the AO3 soulmate tropes and not nearly enough about tennis to click with this one. It just wasn't what I was hoping it would be, and that dissonance left me feeling disconnected further from the characters.

DNF at 60%. Heartfelt and fun, the heads have explosive chemistry, and I loved the tennis tidbits—the author knows her tennis and it shows. This book is a lot of fun, but I felt like it dragged a bit too much for my personal taste in the middle with the will-they-or-won't-they part and ended up not finishing between a lot of life things happening at the same time, but fans of pining will enjoy it a lot.

Backhanded Compliments had an interesting premise, but it did not fully work for me. The soulmates thing was not my favourite, and the constant Twitter references felt excessive. The main characters were often too immature for their age, and their voices were not distinct enough, making it hard to differentiate them. Overall, it had potential, but it was not quite for me.

True rating for this would be somewhere around 3.5 stars. I very much enjoyed the story, and I very much enjoyed the realness of the characters, but sometimes things just fell a tad flat for me. It was deliciously sapphic and I loved the spice thrown in. I think the main thing going against me for this one was that, while I love sports romances, I’ve never been a huge tennis fan, and this book actually does focus a decent bit on tennis. There are other parts of the book that just didn’t do it for me, but I did feel a strong connection in a way towards Luca, the way she acted and the things she said resonated with me, even bringing tears to my eyes on a couple of occasions. Overall good book, but not quite entirely my cup of tea I suppose.

I saw this book on NetGalley and it was available as a read now without having to wait for approval, so that is EXACTLY what I did. I’m glad I read it, and it certainly scratched a little bit of an itch (finally a decent sapphic romance).

3.75 stars

I have kind of mixed feelings about this book but I think overall I enjoyed it. There were definitely some things that didn’t work for me but I did enjoy other aspects of this book.
Let’s start with what didn’t work:
There is a magical realism/speculative fiction/fantasy/whatever you want to call it element to this book and if you are not reading the description VERY closely, you’ll probably miss it. This means that if you go into this book blind or even just skim the back you will probably be very taken aback when it comes up. I tell you this from experience because I absolutely did not expect it. Basically, in this universe, every person has the name of their soulmate on their wrist and when they touch that person the name turns black… yeah, idk. To me it’s giving Wattpad writing prompt or tiktok pov video. It felt very juvenile and a little ridiculous to me. The throng said, it doesn’t actually come up as much as you would think. It’s really only there to give the two main characters a reason to be around each other but I actually think they could have built this relationship without the magical element. It felt like instead of building tension and having the characters be drawn together by their own attraction the author just made them soulmates so they felt like they had to be near each other.
The other thing I didn’t love was that the characters just seemed very similar. They kind of grow into their own people by the end of the book but in the beginning I just could not differentiate them and with the frequent pov changes I kept forgetting who was who.
Despite all of the above, I did not have an overall negative view of the book. I liked the slow burn, rivals to lovers dynamic and liked how they slowly became friends first and then became more. You also get a lot of tennis without it being overly technical and you also get a lot of travel as a result of them being on their tennis competition tour. I also liked the side characters and their dynamic with the main characters.
This is definitely a book where it’s better to know what you’re getting into, rather than going in blind. But if you’re looking for a fun, sapphic, rivals to lovers romance I do think this one is worth giving a chance.

Thank you to NetGalley and Atria for the ARC!

I LOVED this book. It was my first Sapphic romance and I can’t wait to read more. The writing was very easy to read (even if I don’t like third person books). I didn’t know anything about tennis and now here I am, wanting to start playing tennis 🤭

This book was provided to me by Atria Books via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review!
Juliette and Luca are soulmates, but also rivals (like actual rivals who don’t like each other), and this to me was rivals to lovers done right. Their rivalry on and off the court created so much tension in a good way. Throughout the book, you are transported through different countries and tennis tournaments as you see Luca and Juliette both growing close together and pushing each other away, dealing with the stress of being a professional athlete while also trying to make choices for their own happiness. This book was a sapphic romance, but was so much more than just a romance, with discussions on mental health and setting boundaries, and there was such a found family aspect as well.

When the two were finally forced to spend time together and get closer, it felt so much more rewarding. It wasn’t quite a slow burn, but there are many almost moments that draw you in and have you rooting for the characters. The idea of a soulmate au was really intriguing to me, and reminded me of fanfiction in the best way! It was different and gave them a reason to start growing closer together.

I could perfectly picture all of the characters and the settings, and just really wanted to be friends with these characters.. I felt attached to the group of characters, and really felt like I knew them. And! The author has made playlists for the book which also really helped me to get an overall vibe of the characters and I think it enhanced my experience!

This book took me a while to finish, and I found that in part due to my busy schedule, but sometimes I just didn’t want to pick it up. It was slow to get into, and it wasn’t for a while that I was able to feel really interested in the characters and their story, but once it picked up I found that it was fun to read.

Backhanded compliments is a book that is perfect for fans of Challengers and just tennis in general. There are a lot of high energy scenes regarding the games that have you wanting to figure out who’s going to win. Unfortunately, as someone who does not know a lot about tennis, I was confused a lot. While some of it didn’t matter too much that I didn’t understand what was going on, there were a lot of scenes that talked about what was going on in the games (sets? matches?) and I felt like I had to pause what I was doing to go search up what something meant.

The timeline of things was not clearly defined, which for some may not be an issue, but I found it to be confusing. I genuinely thought everything had taken place over a month or two, but the book starts in January apparently and ends close to the end of summer. This may also be not knowing a lot about tennis or tournaments, but I still feel like that should be communicated? I assumed this whole book was very insta-love until I realized that it took place over 8-ish months..

Overall though, this was a fun book, and such a cute sports romance. I would recommend this if you are a fan of women in sports, tennis and/ or romances in general, and rivals to lovers.

Before I get into my review of “Backhanded Compliments”, I’d like to thank NetGalley and Atria Books for the eARC!

DNFed at 50%. I’m so disappointed, I’ve been so excited for this book to be released after hearing about it four months ago.

I didn’t feel the connection between Luca and Juliette at all. Both of the characters weren’t too interesting to me and I was pretty disappointed from the get-go.

I also thought that the soulmate trope could’ve been left out. (Yes, it’s a huge part of the plot but it was *so* unnecessary.) This book could’ve been a cute easy rivals to lovers book, had that trope been left out.

I was so excited for a sapphic book surrounding tennis but unfortunately, this book just fell flat.

Book Review: Backhanded Compliments by Katie Chandler

Few things hook me in a romance like razor-sharp banter, and Backhanded Compliments delivers in spades. Katie Chandler crafts a delightfully witty enemies-to-lovers story where every conversation feels like a verbal fencing match—equal parts clever, cutting, and irresistibly flirty.

The chemistry between the leads crackles with tension, making every snarky exchange even more satisfying. Of course, beneath all the sarcasm and perfectly timed digs, there’s real heart, which gives the story an emotional depth that caught me off guard in the best way. Sure, the characters can be maddeningly stubborn (I may have yelled at them once or twice), but that just made their eventual romance all the sweeter.

If you love romances packed with humor, tension, and just enough emotional chaos to keep you hooked, Backhanded Compliments is absolutely worth picking up.

Backhanded Compliments is a novel that, while engaging in some aspects, ultimately left me feeling a bit underwhelmed. The premise had potential, but the execution leaned heavily on the tennis aspect, making the romance feel secondary.

Juliette and Luca are supposed to be soulmates, but beyond that connection, their relationship felt more like a friendship than a deep romantic bond. While their interactions were pleasant, I never truly felt the chemistry or emotional depth that would make their romance compelling.

That said, there were parts I enjoyed, especially in the beginning. The writing had its moments, and certain scenes pulled me in. However, as the story progressed, I found myself wishing for a stronger focus on the emotional side of their relationship rather than the technical details of their sport.

Overall, Backhanded Compliments had an interesting premise but didn’t fully deliver on the romance aspect for me. If you’re more interested in the sports element than the love story, it might be a better fit for you!

Unfortunately I'm Dnfing this.
I was really looking forward to reading this because i love the idea of tennis soulmates, and it's sapphic. But I have to Dnf I struggled to connect with the characters, especially Juliette. And the main characters seemed to hate each other even when they started getting to know each other. Despite the intriguing premise, it just didn't hold my interest as much as i hoped.

Thank you Atria Books for the arc

Thank you to NetGalley and Atria for an eARC of this book now to an honest review.

This is one of those books where everything is technically okay (characters, plot structure, romance), but there also isn't anything memorable about it. I felt like I was just going through the motions, waiting for it to reach a peak that just didn't happen. I just didn't get the wow factor that plenty of other books give. Overall it's a decent read and I would recommend to someone asking for light reading or an inbetween/travel read. Kind of like a show you put in the background that you wouldn't mind missing a few minutes of.

The begging of this book was hard for me. I was intrigued and wanted to hear the store right off the bat, but I know absolutely NOTHING about tennis and there was a LOT of tennis lingo and phrases in the beginning. So much so that I almost DNF because I wasn’t sure I could keep up.

However, I pushed along and I’m glad I did! It was a cute sapphic love story. The soulmates thing was cute. It left zero room for any lgbt hate or queer uncomfortability in their world. And that’s a world that I would love to live in.

I thought the characters were very well rounded, relatable, and realistic. Luca’s anxiety was described in an accurate way, and not overdone. It was mentioned explicitly in the book, but it was in smaller ways that didn’t make it feel overbearing or like the author was drawing a ton of attention to it. There were so many small things that you had to look for. It was just Luca being Luca and navigating her life in the ways she knows how. I wasn’t a huge fan of the “love makes my anxiety go away.” Even though did say there was more work to be done with her anxiety and therapy and stuff, but I don’t ever like any ‘love cures mental illness’ stuff. It feels like it really downplays mental illness to me, but in light of how it was portrayed the rest of the book I am willing to overlook this lol.

Overall, it wasn’t the best book I have ever read, I think with maybe more tennis or even sports knowledge I would have liked it a little more, but i quite enjoyed it! The romance was cute, great flirt banter, the spice was *chefs kiss*, the story was fun and unique. Wanted to give it a 3.5 but it’s gotta be a 3.25/5 only because half the time I was confused about all the tennis stuff. Still enjoyed it tho

Unfortunately I had to dnf this @ 36%. I really wanted to get into it, I enjoyed Luca’s character and was interested in seeing a soulmate au outside of a fanfiction setting.

It just really… dragged. I think most of what I’ve read so far has been tennis play-by-plays, and while I get it’s trying to call on the intensity of the actual game, on the page it felt really slow, and I lost interest really quickly. I loved Luca, but Juliette leaned a little too far into the pessimistic-about-love archetype and just felt cruel at times.

I’m sure there are people who will love this book, it just wasn’t for me.

3.5/5 stars


Backhanded Compliments had some interesting moments, particularly the exploration of the idea of soulmates. However, the detailed descriptions of tennis matches and play felt overly prominent and detracted from the rest of the story. Unfortunately, the soulmate concept didn't quite resonate with me either, but I didn't hate it.


I was hoping for a tennis story that would use the game to reveal character, like in Martin Amis' "Money". Instead, the tennis here felt more like a straightforward plot device. An okay read, but not entirely my cup of tea.

Thank you to NetGalley and Atria for an eARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

This is one of those books where everything is technically fine (characters, plot structure, romance), but there also isn't anything memorable about it. I felt like I was just going through the motions, waiting for something to really capture my interest, but sadly never got there.

I think it's the writing style. It's overly mechanical. I'm not going to say this book doesn't have voice, because all books do, but the one in this book feels particularly flat. Not a lot of variation in sentence structure. Lots of over-usage of character's names. Higher focus on external descriptions than internal ones. This is most apparent during the tennis scenes, which is disappointing since this is the main pull of the novel. I wanted to feel engaged during those highly competitive moments, yet the whole time I was waiting for them to end.

As for what I did like, Juliette's character development was nicely done, both with tennis and her stance on soulmates. I actually think the book would've been stronger if told solely from her POV. Also, her relationship with her sisters was precious.

This story wasn’t my favourite, but it also wasn’t bad. I found it a bit difficult to conceptualize a world in which both magic soulmate tattoos and Twitter exist, but the fan tweets sprinkled throughout the books were quite funny. I enjoyed the style and the voice of the writing, as well as fast-paced setting of the WTA tour.

I definitely connected more to Luca than I did to Juliette, and I really appreciated Luca’s growth around her anxiety. It was very vulnerable and real. On the other hand, I often found Juliette frustrating and I can’t say I really felt the chemistry between the two leads.

The family dynamics between the Ricci sisters were interesting, however I would have liked to either get to know them more or see less of them on page. There were lots of tidbits dropped in but never really fleshed out, making it difficult to distinguish what was important.

Overall, it was a fun sports romance with a magical twist and I enjoyed reading it over the weekend. Thank you to Atria Books for providing this ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of Backhanded Compliments.

Backhanded Compliments is a rivals to lovers sports romance following Luca and Juliette, with a speculative twist. The twist being, people have a “soul mark”, their soulmate’s name on their inner wrist as a tattoo. Except not everyone has them, and we don’t know when people get them, or how they get them, or literally any single thing about this magic embedded in the book’s otherwise normal reality.

The concept is very interesting, but the concept is not fleshed out kind of… at all? All I found myself thinking was if the next chapter was finally going to provide background to the idea that the entire love story revolves around, but it never happened. Unfortunately, this disappointment ended up coloring the rest of my reading experience :(

Thank you again to NetGalley and the publisher for an ARC of Backhanded Compliments in exchange for my honest review.

My favorite thing about this book was the title and cover. But to be fair, I really, really like the title and cover, so that’s not a total knock to the book! A sapphic romcom set around tennis is automatically going to be right up my alley. I really liked both of the main characters, as well as their supporting families/coaches. There were a handful of characters who showed up for a scene or two and didn’t really have a backstory or future story, so that felt random. But if you just kind of forget about them, the characters were great.

The book did include soulmate soul marks. I had never read anything with this in it before and it was not really explained in this book, so I had to look up what they were talking about. I didn’t think this storyline was necessary or value added. I think a traditional enemies to lovers would’ve been better.

At times I felt the book was going on too long. More pages could’ve been cut. Overall I did enjoy the journey of the two main characters, but I wish there had been more editing.

Thank you to the publisher, author, and NetGalley for providing me with an ARC in exchange for my honest rating and review.

For those people who have been craving a happy tennis romance in a post-Challengers world, this is a perfect sapphic romance. I really think this shines and will thrive within the sports romance genre– it hits all the right notes while being inventive in key and engaging new ways. I highly recommend it.