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Some good chapters and definite improvement in writing from this author's last book. There are parts that really stuck with me. However, some parts felt a little out of touch with the average every day person. Not everybody can quit their job to be an influencer. 3 stars.

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I found the narratives in this book to be quite interesting and I really enjoyed them. This author’s work is very refreshing and I look forward to reading more of it in the years to come!

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Like Rallo's first book, a wonderfully insightful collection of essays for anyone in their early twenties feeling "out of place" or like they don't quite fit in yet. A compelling series of stories that will have you feeling much more "normal" for the feelings that always have you thinking "does anyone else feel this way?"

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As someone in a similar stage of life, I found many of Eli's experiences and insights relatable, especially her thoughts on friendship and personal growth. Her conversational writing style makes the book an easy and engaging read. However, some topics, like her struggles with the healthcare system, could have benefited from more depth. While the focus on friendship is extensive, it may not resonate with everyone, particularly those with different social experiences. Overall, Eli's honesty and relatable stories make this a worthwhile read for anyone exploring the challenges and triumphs of young adulthood.

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This is a comfort for any mid-twenty something. It truly makes you feel less alone and realize that we are all living life for the first time and kind of winging it.

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Ok – I LOVE Eli Rallo, but this missed the mark for me. I am not sure if maybe I am just a littleeee too old for her target demographic, but while her first book was poignant and relevant, this one was just... a ramble. The overall themes were good, but each chapter felt like a repeat of the same stories. I wish I liked it more because I do really like her as a creator, but this just wasn’t it.

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I think this would be a really good book for someone, but that person is not me. Eli’s voice is clear and the way she tells stories is interesting, but I personally struggled to connect to every story or idea. I’m in my mid twenties, but rather than feeling like this was relatable, I was more off-put by the idea that my experiences of choosing a “safer” degree or working a stable desk job were seen as less than while she endeavors for her creative career goal. I can SEE the point she wants to make, but it feels like she misses it slightly, it’s miscommunication more than anything.

I’d love to see her move into fiction work in the future, and think that could be a good place for her to build her voice and expand on her storytelling capability.

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I've been a follower of Eli's for some time on social media so I was excited to read her latest.. think she shines the most in this medium, and I found everything she covered to be extremely relatable. A solid read all around!

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As a longtime follower of Eli's, I was excited to pick up this book. I have yet to read her debut book, "I Didn't Know I Needed This," but "Does Anyone Else Feel This Way?" seemed much more relevant for the stage of life I'm currently in. I've watched Eli share her thoughts and insecurities on TikTok, many of which mirror my own. To see such a beautiful, intelligent, creative woman going through similar experiences as I've been through has always made me feel seen.

As a 23-year-old woman, I found many parts of this book relatable, and others not so much. Eli explores the topic of friendship at great length, while other topics I would have loved to hear more about were limited to just one chapter. For example, I really related to her discussion of being let down by the healthcare system multiple times as she struggled to get a diagnosis for a serious illness, and wish she had explored this experience in greater detail (although I totally understand how that could have been traumatic for her). I also really enjoyed the brief insights she gave us into her family life, and would have loved to have learned more about how her family has shaped her into who she is today.

As someone with severe social anxiety, I found many of the discussions on friendship somewhat lacking. Eli describes herself as somewhat of an extroverted introvert, but she seems to have found quite a few meaningful friendships with relative ease, so I don't feel like I gleaned much from her advice in these chapters. I also felt like parts of the book were somewhat redundant, given how many chapters were devoted to friendship and related topics. Overall, I enjoyed Eli's conversational writing style and her honesty in this book. I look forward to seeing what she does next!

Thank you to NetGalley and William Morrow for the eARC of this book in exchange for my honest review!

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A wonderful read!
Highly recommend!
Many thanks to NetGalley, the author, and the publisher for my ARC. All opinions are my own.

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perfectly relatable to a fellow 26 year old woman.. made me feel not so crazy! would definitely recommend to anyone in their mid/late 20s

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