CANCER IS COMPLICATED is part memoir, part guidebook, with all of the raw vulnerability and ruthless organization that makes Clea Shearer such a dynamic force as one-half of The Home Edit team. This book is for breast cancer patients and their loved ones. I say breast cancer specifically rather than cancer in general, because while the recommendations at the end of the chapter apply to all forms of cancer, many of the examples within the book itself are specific to breast cancer.

I appreciate how the book is structured chronologically, from the onset of symptoms to diagnosis, treatment, and post-treatment. Just as in her professional life, Shearer has a gift for distilling the complicated, messy, and emotionally turbulent aspects of the cancer experience into digestible parts that readers can absorb. The rollercoaster of emotions Shearer felt was palpable. So was her warrior spirit. The practical suggestions at the end of each chapter felt doable if you're a cancer patient or loving someone through this experience.

However, CANCER IS COMPLICATED suffers from the same problem that other public figures have with writing about their personal experience with cancer: they are writing about their specific medical experiences through a lens of privilege that most people do not have. Namely, access to a world-class healthcare system, rapid diagnostics, and personal access to a top-tier medical team, among other privileges. Shearer addresses this somewhat in one of the earlier chapters; however, I think she could have gone deeper with an exploration of systemic healthcare inequities. For instance, including statistics for breast cancer with BIPOC women would have helped expand the reach of readers.

That being said, CANCER IS COMPLICATED is helpful for those looking to get cancer support, whether it be through Shearer's characteristic organized tips or a warm virtual hug in the form of her uplifting words.

I’ve not had breast cancer. But, I know too many women who have. While everyone’s resources and story are different, a book like this is in great need. Whether you are facing the disease or know someone who is, this is a great resource. As Clea points out, so much of what we think we know about cancer comes from the past and the TV shows we watched growing up. A lot has changed in both treatment and side effect management. I particularly liked the “One More Thing” bits of practical advice between chapters. These nuggets are useful for all. Kudos to Clea for sharing her story, as well as her family and friends who helped her along the journey. I think this is an essential for all women. Pick up a copy when you get your first mammogram!

I received this Advanced Reader Copy via NetGalley.

This is a great reader for anyone who has been touched by cancer. For cancer patients, you will feel seen reading about Clea's experiences and will relate to her honest recollections of her cancer journey. For those who love someone with cancer, it will help you understand more of what they are thinking and feeling throughout the process.