Sometimes it can be hard to remember that you are more than a mom. Mom, you are not alone. This book give special insight that motherhood is not your highest calling. Get it and read it!

I often wonder if there has ever been a time that is more confusing for women when it comes to being a mother. For many--single women and those who struggle with fertility in particular--the idea that motherhood is their highest calling can lead to feelings of inadequacy, inferiority, and some may even wonder if they are outside of God's will simply because they do not have children. Even for those who do have children, to place motherhood on a pedestal (as we are inclined to do) does a disservice to mothers. We all need to be discipled toward resting our identity in Christ.

Vicky Courtney's book is a step in the right direction. While I felt that the book is more of an elaboration of its subtitle than the main title, Courtney writes with wisdom, empathy, and encouragement to moms who may feel discouraged and weighed down by highly unrealistic and unattainable expectations on mothers today. *Motherhood is Not Your Highest Calling* is a practical resource that teaches mom-readers to set aside these expectations in favor of resting their identity in Christ.

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Vicki Courtney writes like the kind of mentor every Christian mom needs—gracious, grounded, and deeply rooted in Scripture. Her tone throughout this book is measured and compassionate, offering wisdom without condescension, and always pointing back to Christ and His grace.

One of the things I appreciated most was how Courtney speaks life into the next generation of mothers. For women raised by parents of her generation, her words feel both restorative and encouraging. She strikes a rare balance: she acknowledges the challenges of modern motherhood—especially the comparison trap fueled by social media or the pressure to measure up in Christian circles—without veering into guilt or legalism.

This is a solid and much-needed voice in the Christian parenting space. I’d gladly recommend it to fellow moms, especially those wrestling with perfectionism, shame, or the belief that motherhood is their only identity.

I needed to read this book right now. As a mom of 1 soon to be 2 I am always comparing myself to others. Also I grew up in a background where motherhood was the highest calling or so I was told. But what about the friends of mine who didn't have kids? What about the people who were still single? Did they matter? I've wrestled with these questions as well as my own considering I am a working mom.....and one who wrest!we was th that. After all shouldn't being a stay at home mom be enough.

I am thanjfu! The author acknowledged her past thoughts and hoe the Lord has grown and changed her. I appreciate the reminder that my first priority is who I am in Christ.

This book was just what I needed! Empty-nester Vicki Courtney, offers wise and encouraging guidance to mothers on their journey. Filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and a Christian worldview, she helps readers navigates and encourages us to root our identity not in our roles as mothers but in our foundational identity as children of God. Rich with Scripture, this book delivers insights that will uplift and ground your spirit. I will wholeheartedly recommend it to every mom I know, as its wisdom is applicable for mothers at every stage.

A huge thanks to Tyndale, NavPress, and NetGalley for this advanced, complimentary copy. All opinions expressed in this review are my own.

If you are put off by the title of this book, I encourage you to give it a look anyway. It is scripturally-based, and never once does the author disparage children or motherhood. The goal is for moms to remember that they are first and foremost a beloved child of God, and that their worth is not based on how well they’re doing at anything, even being a mom. Obviously, it’s important to do your best to keep your children safe and loved; this book does not refute that. But it’s full of encouragement for parents who feel anxious and overwhelmed about trying to get everything right. (No one talks about the fact that the Proverbs 31 woman had servants to help her, but that’s in the Bible!) It was honestly a breath of fresh air for me to read. There were a few small things that puzzled me (e.g., saying that refugee moms have “less stress” and “more joy” than the average American because they have less stuff… pretty sure being a refugee is quite stressful). Overall, however, this is a fantastic book full of good reminders and maybe fresh insights for some moms. If you’re struggling with mom guilt or burnout and you just want to cast your burdens on Jesus, this book will help you do it.

Thank you to NetGalley, Tyndale, and NavPress for the free eARC. I post this review with my honest opinions.

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