This was insightful and a journey. I enjoyed reading the honestly and the raw truths of what life can be like in a world of so many sexual people. It was a great catalogue of what dating looks like, self-discovery, and openness to non-judgement.

Super interesting of a read, I love the writing the style and the journey Kriegel takes you on as a reader. Such a strong narrative base that it’s easy to pull lessons from to apply to your own life and relationship with intimacy. Would recommend!

I liked this book way more than I thought I would, I was expecting not to like it very much. It’s provided me with a new perspective which I am grateful for, seeing as how I am asexual, and it’s taught me the importance of intimacy. Not just physical intimacy, but also emotional intimacy. Was that an overarching theme (the emotional intimacy)? Not in my opinion, but I gathered that anyway. I don’t think my opinion about physical intimacy matters very much, but I thought this would be an interesting read and I was right! Thank you for allowing my the chance to read it!

A bold and refreshingly honest journey. Kriegel's voice is both relatable and empowering, inviting readers to reflect, laugh, and maybe even blush. This memoir is as much about rediscovery as it is about reclaiming joy—an intimate, surprising, and ultimately uplifting read.

very interesting book of woman who has growth with her relationships and finding more about herself through different partners through sex. she finds out what she wants more of and learns to get back on the horses again. loved seeing the text messages in the book

This memoir felt like a breath of fresh air, raw and beautifully honest. I loved how the story explores themes of shame, freedom, and the power of giving yourself permission to want and to be wanted. It’s a reminder that desire does not fade with age, and that intimacy can be reinvented at any stage of life. The mix of personal adventure and thoughtful reflections on women’s sexuality made this memoir feel both deeply personal and universally relatable. The writing style is warm and engaging, inviting readers to not only witness Kriegel’s growth but to reflect on their own relationships with pleasure and connection. It filled me with hope and excitement for what it means to embrace desire beyond society’s expectations. It’s a beautiful celebration of courage, self-love, and the thrilling freedom that comes from truly owning your sexual self.