The book is an engaging and practical guide to mastering the art of networking with confidence and authenticity. Drawing from her experience as a global event host and communications expert, Bruines offers actionable strategies for building meaningful professional and personal connections in any setting. The book covers everything from initiating conversations and reading social cues to maintaining relationships over time, with a focus on developing a genuine, approachable presence rather than relying on scripted tactics. Through relatable anecdotes and clear guidance, Bruines demonstrates how even introverts can become effective networkers by shifting mindset and embracing curiosity. The tone is direct yet encouraging, making the lessons both easy to follow and immediately applicable. This is a valuable resource for professionals, entrepreneurs, and anyone seeking to expand their network while cultivating trust, rapport, and long-term influence.

For the most part, this is an engaging and relatable read. While the book promises to help readers silence imposter syndrome, turn awkward moments into authentic connections, etc. much of the practical advice is subtly woven into the author’s personal stories and travel experiences across various countries and cities. So rather than a chapter-by-chapter breakdown of actionable tips, readers will find insights woven through the author's personal stories and global experiences

Themes like childhood bullying, living with ADHD, and adapting to international environments are particularly relatable. At the same time, the author’s strong support system such as caring parents, well-connected grandparents, and a loving partner may create a sense of distance/sadness for readers navigating similar challenges without that kind of safety net. Still, Lynn's grit is undeniable, especially in dealing with a serious kidney condition in a foreign country.

One particularly striking event is when the author requests a testimonial from a former manager, only to be denied on the grounds that her work wasn't satisfactory. She’s left with only a generic experience letter. This moment underscores the power managers hold over careers and the importance of navigating workplace relationships, especially when future opportunities depend on their endorsements.

interesting memoir and business guide that's well written and quite well done. would definitely recommend. 4 stars. tysm for the arc.