Great idea and concept for a book. A thoroughly enjoyable read. Highly recommended. .

I really like how this book is "not about conflict but about embracing conflict for greater love and satisfaction". In other words it doesn't shame us for loosing the plot ones in a while, instead it guides us towards being more aware, more in the now if you like, and understanding ourselves and our partners. A bit like meditating in a way is my first thought.. don't push the feeling or thought away, stay with and make the best of it! I really like what an easy read this is, its actually kind of funny with a lot of me nodding in agreement. There are real life examples that are interesting to skim through.. like looking in to other peoples windows. Also little tests to do to see what kind of fighter you are and what you can do to change yourself rather than the other person. So, I enjoyed this book but I didnt enjoy that it was a book, I would much prefer a "Novella" on the topic. I got bored, it didn't lead me towards a big AHA moment etc. basically, I am a fiction reader type of a gal and this portion was to big for me. If you do enjoy self help books and has a sense of humor I think you'd like this one.