Reading against a backdrop of war between Ukraine and Russia gives this book a whole new layer of resonance. I found the book to be engaging and thoughtful but there was something about it that didn't quite come together and I can't quite express what it was. Maybe the author also didn't know what the ultimate resolution would be and left it for the reader to make up their own minds?

There’s no doubt that your reading experience influences how you feel about a novel. With They Are Trying to Break Your Heart, it is the first time that having an ARC has worked against me. The formatting wasn’t quite right and it took me a while to get into it for the practical reason that I had to get into a rhythm of how to read it.

Even once I adjusted to the format, I was unsure of what was going on for the first part of the book. The narration follows three stories, across three time zones. It not only bounces between the narrators, but between present day, the time of the Tsunami and the time of the Bosnian wars.

The chapters were all signposted as to which date they were in. But this constant change meant that it was hard to get an initial hold on the characters – especially as they have changed from their youths to now. You couldn’t get to their essence, or see their development, when you were constantly reading back and forth. Especially as not all the characters exist in the different times!

That being said, the book grew on me as I went. It began to become clear how the stories were slotting together and once you could make connections, you began to understand the characters, their motives and who they were as individuals.

Anya is determined to get to the bottom of a war-crime story through her work with human rights, even if that means travelling across the globe to reunite with an old lover in order to get closer to her object of investigation. But the reader glimpses her uncertainty, her self-doubt that she shouldn’t be doing this, preventing her from being cold and calculating.

For the majority of the novel, William is a mess. But as events are revealed, it is easy to see why. Despite the jolts with the time, you can see William’s character development in the present-day narration alone.: you witness his battle with grief and whether, for the first time in years, he can start to move on and live again.

Marco’s character boils down to his quest for the truth, refusing to believe his adopted brother and hero could have committed the atrocities he is accused of. Marco learns to find peace through the novel and his character leaves you with a feeling of contentment that he got what he was looking for. The location as to where Marco was confused me – I thought they were in Cambridge, then realised he wasn’t even in England at that point!

They Are Trying to Break Your Heart got better as it went along when you start to realise how the stories might connect rather than isolated narrations. It also has more impact now I am looking back a few days after completing it.

Full of love and loss, this novel explores what you are prepared to do to hold onto the memory of the ones you love.

A book encompassing the complexities of the breakdown of Yugoslavia must be confusing and this one delivers. Everyone is seeking truths that others have hidden or distorted for various reasons. There's definitely a lot you don't really want to know and a lot of people are seeking but I was left unsure whether they ought to have been successful or not. It's typical though that I ended the book wanting the best story out of the options to be true even though the best case scenario was still awful.