I interviewed Dr. Zitter for a column I wrote, and I subsequently read her book. "Extreme Measures" wonderfully describes her thoughts on a more humane way to treat terminally ill people. I hope to hear more from Dr. Zitter in the future as this public debate continues.

As a hospice volunteer, I am constantly reminded that patients nearing the end of their life are still very much alive right now. I'm happy to see that more research (especially since Elizabeth Kubler Ross's work) is being conducted in palliative care and end-of-life care. These are important areas that are often missed with modern medicinal approaches. Great book for all medical professionals to read.

"This book is about how our collective tendency to ignore death, doctor and patient alike, fuels a tremendous amount of suffering. And about how we can move forward from this place. I hope that by being as honest as possible about my own shortcomings as well as my changes in thinking along the way, readers will see that we are in the midst of a paradigm shift. None of us has yet ‘arrived.’ One of my palliative care colleagues said to me recently, ‘The only reform that comes is from confession.’"

No matter your age or health condition, talking about death is hard; there never seems to be a "good time" to bring up the topic, as it merely serves to remind each of us of our own mortality. Yet it is, quite possibly, one of the most important, significant conversations you will ever have and I encourage (okay, I've been known to nag) everyone to seek out resources and guidance in an effort to GET IT DONE.

"This directive, ‘I want you to do everything, Doc,’ often ends the conversation between doctors and desperate ICU patients. We’ve got a lot of ‘everything’ to offer, and the patient’s words are considered gold. [...] When patients push for ‘doing everything’ in the face of no significant medical benefit, we must give them more time, more opportunities to process their shock and emotional distress about death."

Thanks to my experience in this setting I can tell you, with confidence, that there are many things human beings endure during an illness, a hospitalization, that are far worse than death. As an advocate of appropriate palliative care and end-of-life decision-making discussions, my goal is never to diminish the feelings, the emotional toll, of families; instead, I attempt to help them work through their feelings and begin to recognize what is truly best for their loved one.

Dr. Zitter has provided an amazing resource for readers both within and outside the healthcare field; by sharing her own experiences, the stories that she has gathered, she illuminates some of the most difficult situations and the impact on all of the parties involved. This book is not filled with medical jargon, biased commentary, or sad reflections; it is an insightful look into the unknown world of emergency and intensive medicine and the way in which the capabilities, as they have expanded, have increased the need for better communication.

"In order to rebuild this broken system, we must begin by facing our fear of personal extinction, and the resultant drive to find something, anything, to save us from our own deaths."

Those of you who have personal experience with these situations, via family members and loved ones, will relate, but I believe that there are connections to be found by all of us; I highly recommend this book and hope it will encourage you to work toward a conversation about what you would want if/when you are no longer able to express your wishes.

This book is an eyeopener in ways that I don't think any of us truly consider until we ourselves are knocking on death's door. A lot of the information contained in this book is worrisome -- mostly because it forces the reader to put themselves in that "End of Life' situation that is being portrayed, and come to their own conclusions about what they would want, to live or die, if it were them. My mind is actually still feeling uncomfortable about it, but I suppose that is just the nature of the beast.

I would recommend this book to those who are planners; those individuals who already have their funerals, health plans, obituaries, and everything else all lined up. It will probably give you several new things to think about. I'd also recommend this to anyone who wants a reality check, because the truth is we all need one and life is short.