A DOOR BETWEEN US

I really enjoyed this book and love how the title itself resonates on so many levels! The setting was intriguing, in 2009 right after a controversial election in Iran that set off a wave of protests. Sarah and Ali had been betrothed before the election, but their families were on opposite sides of the political spectrum and many in the family wanted to stop the wedding because of the conflict, but the opening scene is that wedding. Because the culture and setting takes some explaining for a western reader please give the story a couple of chapters to warm up. I was a little bit frustrated by the explaining at first but was grateful for the grounding as the novel progressed. GREAT tension, unexpected humour and interesting characters. I love how many of the characters are vividly portrayed in non-hackneyed way. I also love the fact that nearly everyone is flawed. Bravery and humanity come out in surprising ways and from unexpected people. More than anything this is a story of principled and smart women who may live in a patriarchal society but still hold many of the reins. Fast-paced with commercial appeal.

Thank you, #netgalley for the e-review copy.

In the beginning it took me a bit to get into the book but then I was hooked! Reads like a historical novel into modern day Iranian politics with two families with opposing views. Intriguing, and an open window into another culture. More than anything I think it is a family saga, and love story . Great characters that kept me guessing of their intentions. There were Farsi words embedded in context throughout that anyone can understand. I look forward to more books from this author. Definitely a must for readers looking for a multicultural book at its source.

An engaging story about two Iranian families who come together during turbulent times in Iran, despite the many secrets and lies that persist around each of their family members. References are made throughout the story regarding the 2009 election and the many protests and demonstrations that take place as a result.

A Door Between Us is well-written and interesting. The individual characters are intertwined in such a way that made the book insightful and believable. I admired how the author also included characters who were true activists wanting to help their country, while also ending human rights abuses.

A Door Between Us is a poignant yet heartwarming reflection on the importance of breaking down barriers in an increasingly polarized, politicized world. It's a contemporary novel that will remain relevant and inspiring for many decades to come.

You can read my full review on https://readingundertheolivetree.com/2020/07/13/hope-and-resistance-a-door-between-us-by-ehsaneh-sadr-coming-september-1-2020/

I love love loved this book! I read an interview where the author said she wanted to take the reader inside an Iranian family, to help us develop empathy for a culture, and for characters living a world outside our own, and in my opinion she 100% achieved this!

The author has one of those unique talents where she is able to make us feel empathy for both sides. I cared so much about the characters, two families split apart by their political beliefs during the Green Wave protests following Iran’s election in 2009.

What shone through more than anything was each character’s common humanity in dealing with a core dilemma: balancing what you see as right at a political and national level with making the best decisions for the safety and protection of your loved ones.
Setting the conflict around a forbidden marriage, and re-found family just serves to up the conflict. But what I loved the most was the author’s ability to absorb me into a world in which I’m unfamiliar. I may never worry about my chador being too slippery, or be unfamiliar with Iranian wedding traditions, but after this book I feel a step closer to understanding and caring about a culture and nation that can sometimes seem inscrutable. All my congrats to the author on achieving such a feat! This is a real page-turner where you care about each and every character.

Wow. Sadr has brought Iran to life in this novel that starts with the wedding of Sarah and Ali and spirals into the unrest and chaos of the 2009 election. Sarah and Ali's families have different perspectives and the Green Wave. Sadagh, Sara's cousin, supports the government and theocracy, while Ali's sister Azar wants to see democracy- and those who were actually elected put into office. Nothing is clear cut, everything is debatable, up to and including Sarah's humane decision to help someone. 2009 seems very long ago - there's been much water under the bridge since then- but that summer and the Green Wave still echoes. If you don't know much about modern Iran, this might be an eye opener. It has lessons too for parallels worldwide. Great characters and storytelling, along with strong plotting make this an excellent read. Thanks to the publisher for the ARC. Highly recommend.

“I wrote <u>A Door Between Us</u> to make it harder to bomb Iran.” - Ehsaneh Sadr

I already had this book on my TBR, but when I read that statement I decided to bump it to the front of the list.

I didn’t know what to expect from A Door Between Us. As a debut, there weren’t any other books by the author I could compare it against. All I really knew was the setting and backdrop: the aftermath of the 2009 Iranian election. The Green Wave or Green Movement was completely new information to me; I had never heard of it before. For anyone else who’s going into this book without much background knowledge or that’s unfamiliar with Iranian customs, I’m happy to report that you do not need any of that before beginning. Sadr weaves history and context into any situation that calls for it, so there won’t be any frantic Googling to understand what’s happened.

The novel starts at the wedding of Sarah to her husband, Ali. Tensions have been bubbling in the months leading up to it, and they eventually spill over during the ceremony. Ali’s sister, Azar, and her husband, Ibrahim, are actively speaking against an authoritarian government, while Sarah’s family are loyalists to the current leadership. Her cousin, Sadegh, is even a member of the Baseej, a state-sanctioned policing force that is known for operating outside of the law.

Iran is a country that almost every American ‘knows‘, but without actually knowing much of anything about. What we know is that they’re a country that the US has almost constant friction with. The mindset that we’re the good guys and they’re the bad guys is a hard one to break out of. But part of what struck me the most in this book was how, well, familiar a lot of the conflicts felt. The protesting against a corrupt regime, political disagreements tearing families apart, so much of what I read about Iran in 2009 echos what’s happening in the US in 2020.

The Hojjati family, in particular, is so reminiscent of nearly every conservative religious family I’ve encountered, regardless of faith. They were an incredibly frustrating group of people to follow. There’s of course the members of the family who are true-believers in whatever the cause may be, but then there are those who somehow think that these topics have nothing to do with them. They are so insulated from the realities of the world that they assume by just keeping to themselves and not speaking up, they’ll magically be immune to its effects. There are no bystanders in a revolution. By not ‘choosing a side’, they are in fact supporting those currently in power.

Eventually, though, everyone is pulled into a high-stakes chain of events that can’t be deterred. Family ties and loyalties are tested, and not everyone makes it through to fight another day. The pacing is taut. Though not a thriller, there’s ample tension and action. I felt anxious for characters who were suddenly thrust into a dangerous situation. It wasn’t lost on me that these characters, though fictional, are likely rooted in the experiences of real people.

I think with A Door Between Us, Ehsaneh Sadr succeeds in her goal. Bombing Iran doesn’t hurt the people that our leaders think it does. That show of violence only reinforces the narrative of the Iranian government—that all Americans want to do is destroy them. Hopefully by better understanding one another, there may be more opportunities in the future to heal and move forward.

Intense political drama, and complex family commitments come together in this tantalising work of fiction circling the Green Wave movement in Iran.

Sarah's conservative family agrees to her wedding with Ali, against the wishes of the matriarch supreme. Both families stand on divided political grounds. As the newly weds are heading to their dream house, the are rendered late by a protest. This chance meeting turns out to be the loose thread that unfurls the picture perfect canvas of their lives.

This book is a fine example of the political becoming personal. The image of a nation trying to preserve it's sovereignty against foreign influences, and the youth it pummels into enthusiastic responses who carry out the often dirty task in the self assurance of one carrying out a divine mission.

The easy flowing narrative makes the reading swift, while the half obscured narration keeps you hooked, asking for more. The characters are crafted so as to appear real, and there is a sense of something lurking in the shadows, the imagery of the uncertainties of real life.

A DOOR BETWEEN US is a stunning novel about finding love, navigating hardships, seeing commonality when you disagree about deeply important things, and turmoil in our communities. One of the reasons I was so drawn to ADBU was that I don't think I've read nearly enough books set in or about Iran and featuring Iranian people and voices. Ehsaneh Sadr did a remarkable job telling the story of Sarah, Ali, and their families. Sarah and Ali are newly married as the 2009 Green Wave elections in Iran take place, and their wedding, subsequent actions, and new perspectives trigger a chain of events that has the potential to be revolutionary - and dangerous.

I was captivated truly every page of this book. Sadr's voice comes through clearly, but the characters and their experiences and inner voices flow seamlessly; I was never once abruptly taken out of the novel because something didn't fit quite right or seem natural. I also really appreciated, and do in general, that, although there is some level of trauma and deep injustices happening in Iran and to its people, there is also a levity and humor included in ADBU. That's how we really operate as humans who live in community, so I think it's always such an honest and even more raw and vulnerable - and strong - way of portraying characters to portray ALL of them, not just the sides that are too precious for humor or any levity. Alongside that levity, though, is some much-needed education for the reader on the realities of politics in that era; I remember some of the headlines vividly, but I know I didn't dive deeply enough into the context back then. I'm grateful to Sadr for providing me with a jumping-off point to learn more about it now.

One really important facet of this book is the language. There are Farsi words scattered throughout the novel, and it sounds like a native speaker would. This is a really impactful tool in centering the Iranian person's experience and perspectives, and it worked beautifully. I also found the family chart at the beginning very helpful; it would be a lot easier to flip back and forth to in a physical copy, but that's certainly not anyone's fault!

Overall, this is a sweeping debut novel about equality, whose voices get heard, what makes a person family, and all of the things that bind us despite our differences. I can't recommend A DOOR BETWEEN US highly enough! Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for this advance copy. It was a delight!

´Their greatest success is when they can destroy a people from the inside and make them turn on themselves and forget who they are´.



Set against the background of the protests of the 2019 Green Movement in Iran, A Door Between Us by Ehsaneh Sadr is a page turning story of survival in what looks like neverending times of religious dictatorship.

For the first time since the 1979 Islamic Revolution that overturned the dictatorship of the Shah with a theocracy, millions of people, mostly youngsters, were on the streets of Tehran and main cities to protest against what they considered the stealing of their vote. In the presidential elections, Mahmoud Ahmadinejad was declared the winner against Mir Hossein Mousavi despite verified claims of electoral fraud. Although Ahmadinejad was confirmed for a second mandate and Mousavi and his wife is since then under house arrest, and thousands of people were arrested and tortured, the scream "Where is my vote?" was a serious warning that young middle class people were having enough of the a situation that since then become worse.

Those challenges for the Islamic Republic are reflected in A Door Between Us through the interactions and serious challenges the main characters are going through. It starts with - for me, the unlikely - marriage between Ali and Sarah. I said unlikely because I have some doubts that people with such a different social and intellectual background in Tehran may ever accept to an arranged marriage. Another detail from the book that I´ve found a bit forced is the fact that the Basiji abusive interrogator Heydari beats Azar, a human rights lawyer with a copy of Karl Popper´s The Open Society and Its Enemies (a title very popular in Iran and adapted to the Iranian realities by religious intellectuals). But those are really details, because what really kept me highly interested is the ways in which the chain of events involving the characters was skilfully built as well as the dramatic changes the characters are going through.

Take, for instance, Sadegh, the member of the paramilitary Basij forces - which were attributed many abuses against the protesters. Based on his religious credo, he believes that the protesters are a threat to the Islamic Republic. He thinks: ´Yes, perhaps our government makes mistakes but what these people are advocating - overthrow of the government - will only lead to chaos and subjugation to the West´. But once he is able to see with his own eyes the extent of the abuses, until the end of the novel he changes his mind and can even critically assess the blind attitude of his wife, Sumayeh. What happen to most of the people in the book is to discover their genuine humanity and solidarity, no matter their degree of observance and social background.

And there are so many other questions raised that do affect people living under opressive regimes all over the world, like for instance, how far can you get with your fight for the truth? Is it worth to put your family and children under risk for freedom? Indeed, your fight will, if successful, also guarantee a different future to your children, but what if the fight will fail. One goes to Evin prison - a detention site for political prisoners in Tehran -, separated from his or her children, endures torture and interrogations and how can you change the system from there? A former political dissident told me long ago that when the gates are closing in the front of you and your freedom is stolen from you, different ethical standards apply.

A Door Between Us is emotionally and intellectually heavy. I particularly appreciated that the book does not have a thesis or is trying to convene a political message. Instead, it explores how historical events influence the life of simple people, which makes it a valuable contribution to the Iranian disapora literature.

This is my debut novel that I accidentally requested on NetGalley and then need to review so my review average improves! :)

It is an incredible thrill to have this book and these characters out in the world. There are few other works of fiction that represent such a diverse cast of Iranians, including both supporters and critics of the current government. Introducing these new voices and giving audiences an opportunity to relate to (and even cheer for!) people they wouldn’t otherwise get to know is what drives my writing.

If you’re interested in exploring a new and different part of the world through the vehicle of a page-turner, A Door Between Us is a good fit. It will also appeal if you like having your assumptions challenged and are open to learning how people who seem so different are actually exactly the same.

All my characters are based on compositions of people I’ve met or read about. Azar represents the thousands of brave activists and protestors who’ve fought for truth and justice in the face of forces determined to stamp them out. Sadegh represents sincere regime supporters struggling to reconcile their understanding of Islam with the misdeeds of their rulers. And Sarah represents the complex interplay of innocence and complicity in those who close their eyes to injustice as they are caught up in their own lives and dramas.

What a riveting story about a part of the world I didn't know much about. It really opened my eyes to Iranian politics and culture, drawing us deep into the lives of Sarah, Sadegh and Azar. There were many tense moments that had me on the seat of my pants, at once fascinated and horrified by what was going on. A stunning debut!

This is a tenderly-told, modern story of Iran that deserves wide attention.

Sadr offers a glimpse into two families in present-day Tehran -- one more traditional that supports the government and another more revolutionary that support democratic reform -- told through the lens of one couple's marriage. The novel begins with Sarah and Ali's wedding, yet moves quickly into the wider story of a country split between those fighting for things to stay the same versus those fighting for change, and the personal toll that results.

I loved how each chapter was introduced by a news clip, taken from actual events during the Green Revolution in 2009. These set the scene and provided wider context for the very personal stories that unfold.

Though it would be tempting to look at these two families and Iran in general as either black or white, good or bad, Sadr reminds us throughout that it is not that easy.

I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in Iran, current events, historical fiction and family sagas.

One of the most shocking stories I have ever read. It is a complex story in which several characters make the story great. Sarah is excited about her wedding. The family of Sarah arranged the match with Ali. This union is promising the families are compatible. There is nothing that could go wrong. However, the elections of 2009 have caused some contention. Sarah and Ali have fallen deeply in love, and despite what their respective families think, they want to be able to get married. Sarah's cousin Sadegh supports the government and is a member of Baseej, the military volunteer who has arrested protesters against the regime. One day, Sarah impulsively gives protection to a girl who was participating in a protest. Sarah protects her in her car and then lets her go when she thinks there is no danger. This event triggers many difficult situations that she and her family have to face. A book that I took my time to read. The topics mentioned by the author are interesting because they describe the reality of Iran from the perspective of the female and male characters. There are times when I could detect abusive situations. I had to take breaks because they are not easy to read for me. But I kept reading because I wanted to know what was going to happen next. It made me feel sad, angry, excited, but also moments of happiness, and that is why I loved this book. I thank NetGalley and Blackstone Publishing for providing me with a copy of the book in exchange for my honest review.

I loved this! Devoured it in two days. Would definitely buy a hard copy and recommend it to others. Did a great job of informing about Iran without dumbing anything down or assuming readers had a bunch of background knowledge.

I came to Ehsaneh Sadr's A Door Between Us not long after listening to the audio book version of Marjan Kamali’s The Stationery Shop, which focuses on a young couple who meet and fall in love during the turbulent 1950s in Iran. Although I’ve had an Iranian-American friend for more than twenty years, between these two novels, I feel like I’m learning far more about my friend’s native culture and about a country that, for most Americans, is regarded as a political adversary.

Readers will be quickly drawn into Ehsaneh Sadr’s story of Sarah and Ali, whose marriage comes at a controversial period in recent Iranian history when the 2009 election led to charges of voter fraud and to mass protests in the streets. With families on opposing sides and a conflict raging between conservative and liberal viewpoints all around them, Sarah and Ali remain determined to go ahead with their marriage and to make their love work.

Not only does Sadr succeed in bringing Iranian culture to life and helping Westerners better understand a momentous historical period of which we saw and heard only snatches on American television, but she also helps us see how much our two nations have in common. Coming at the time that it did—a period of deep division in American politics, the publication of A Door Between Us enables American readers to identify with the differing political ideologies and perhaps even to begin to understand our own political climate a bit better.
Ehsaneh Sadr has gifted the world with an impressive, thought-provoking debut novel, and Blackstone Publishing continues to impress me with its outstanding authorial voices.

Thanks to NetGalley, Blackstone Publishing, and Ehsaneh Sadr for the Advance Reader Copy of A Door Between Us, a book I will recommend to many friends. My only regret is that I did not read this sooner.

On the way home from their wedding, amidst political protests, Sarah pulls an activist into the car to protect her, changing her new husband Ali's destiny, as military police drag him from the car. Sarah's cousin is with the military police force, and Ali's sister is a protestor, bringing untold shades of gray into this harrowing family drama unfolding within political turmoil in Iran. Sadr is an amazing storyteller, and I was fortunate to receive a digital copy of her novel from the publisher Blackstone Publishing through NetGalley.