Happiness Is Overrated

Simple Lessons on Finding Meaning in Each Moment

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Pub Date May 09 2023 | Archive Date May 16 2023

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Stop chasing happiness and reconnect to the meaning of each moment through this practical guide, told through vignettes of life training as a Buddhist monk under world-renowned spiritual leader Thich Nhat Hanh.

We spend so much time in pursuit of happiness—trying to purchase it, experience it, meditate our way toward it—but happiness is elusive and doesn’t last. According to the teachings of the Buddha, Cuong Lu writes, “Suffering is not a problem to be solved. It is a truth to be recognized.” Happiness Is Overrated invites us to look deeply at the truths in our lives—not glossing over or denying our suffering—and to focus on the meaning and value already within us.  
 
Each chapter of Happiness Is Overrated shares a lesson drawn from Buddhist psychology, accessible for all readers. Short practices at the end of each of the 30 short chapters help readers apply the teachings on their own.

Happiness Is Overrated helps us get in touch with our true selves and our true minds, through meditation and mindfulness practices that include paying attention to the breath, observing our minds, connecting with our hearts, practicing “interbeing” with others and the Earth, and more.
Stop chasing happiness and reconnect to the meaning of each moment through this practical guide, told through vignettes of life training as a Buddhist monk under world-renowned spiritual leader Thich...

Advance Praise

“In this enlightening guide, Buddhist teacher Lu lays out lessons on finding value in every emotion. The author skillfully distills Buddhist psychology down to graspable spiritual principles and delivers them in a compassionate tone, making for easy reading and lessons readers will be able to apply to their lives. This deceptively brief entry has insight to spare.”—Publishers Weekly

“An insightful, inspiring, uplifting, guide for building a meaningful life, and living it to the full. Written in an engaging and easy-to-understand style, what makes this book stand out from the crowd is its incredibly practical approach. It’s full of simple but powerful practices that anybody can do to enrich and enhance their life, moment by moment.”—Russ Harris, author of The Happiness Trap

“Cuong Lu’s poetic and simple teachings can lead one to immediate peace. Meditation is in between each word and the application of that meditation is in his teaching stories. In this sweet and gentle text, Lu makes it clear that happiness is overrated when the joy in our lives is giving and receiving. This book is truly a gift.”—Zenju Earthlyn Manuel, author of the Deepest Peace and Shamanic Bones of Zen

“Cuong Lu's simple, down-to-earth teachings—rooted in a unique blending of the Yogachara teaching of Consciousness-Only and the Vietnamese Zen discipline of mindfulness—reveal the profound depth of Buddhadharma. A lay dharma heir to the late Thich Nhat Hahn, whose wisdom lingers throughout this small gem of a book, Cuong offers 30 refreshing contemplative prompts at the end of each chapter, inviting you to inquire into what he calls the ‘raw mind’ of innate freedom and connection. This is a wonderful guide for all those interested in mindfulness and meditation.”—Guo Gu, author of Silent Illumination and Passing through the Gateless Barrier

“‘Please remember this is not a theoretical presentation… It’s a call for peace.’ Cuong Lu’s Happiness Is Overrated is that rarest of achievements: a deeply spiritual text providing simple yet profound bite-size, doable exercises offering a practical path to that place of great healing and lasting peace—our ‘true home’—which already resides within each of us if we know where and how to look. Like his beloved teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, Cuong Lu provides us with concrete ways to quiet, deepen and focus the mind on what truly matters in life.

          After reading Happiness Is Overrated, I found myself treasuring everyday opportunities to practice the exercises Lu so wisely and lovingly provides us. Suddenly, waiting in line at the bank, grocery store or post office are transformed from drudgery into precious opportunities to practice, to deepen, and to grow. And isn’t that what great literature does: awaken us to the possibilities offered in each moment? Happiness Is Overrated belongs with Ram Dass’s Be Here Now, Bo Lozoff’s We’re All Doing Time and Eknath Easwaran’s The Mantram on that most important shelf in any personal library—the one labeled ‘Books that changed my life.’”—Brian Lindstrom, filmmaker

“In this enlightening guide, Buddhist teacher Lu lays out lessons on finding value in every emotion. The author skillfully distills Buddhist psychology down to graspable spiritual principles and...


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PAGES 136

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Happiness is Overrated by Cuong Lu is an enlightening read that draws from the teachings of Buddhist psychology to explain the inherent value in each of us. Happiness, Lu explains quite succinctly, is not something to be sought externally as it already resides within. Short chapters explain the techniques in drawing upon this knowledge, and each ends with a suggested exercise to apply learned principles, most involving conscious breathing and the value of focus on the present moment. Overall, this is an illuminating read that is accessible to all, wherever one might be on their personal journey.

Many thanks to NetGalley and Shambhala Publications Inc for an ARC.

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Happiness is Overrated contains short chapters of various topics surrounding suffering and happiness. I liked the suggested meditations at the end of each chapter, along with various mantras to utter while meditating. This is the kind of book that you read a chapter a day.

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My review:
This is an accessible introduction to buddhist teachings that leaves the reader with the kind of lighthearted wisdom that grows more impactful the longer you sit with it. I liked the format with short sections (teachings) followed by a meditation / mindfulness activity. It’s the sort of book you can pick up and read multiple times and always get something new from it.

💕You might like this book if:
🔹 you are interested in mindfulness / meditation
🔹 you like books that provide thoughts to ponder
🔹 you are looking for some wisdom on how to live life at peace with yourself and the world around you.

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This book definitely had more pros than cons, and I think most people could learn something great from this book. I enjoyed that it was short and to the point. The chapters are filled with thoughtful stories, and there isn't a whole lot of fluff. The best part of the book is that there there are practical tips and activities ("apps") for you to use at the end of each chapter. This is a great book to read over a long period of time, and really take in the message and do the activities in an intentional way. Overall the message of this book is wonderful, and I look forward to using these practices more going forward.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a digital ARC of Happiness Is Overrated in exchange for an honest review.

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