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Reconciling

A Lifelong Struggle to Belong

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Pub Date Sep 09 2025 | Archive Date Sep 01 2025


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“Larry Grant’s life is a model of what it means to rise above hardship, transcend preconceived notions, and live life in a good way. I’ve had the honour of meeting him, but this book makes me feel as if I know him. And that is a profound gift.” — Shelagh Rogers, Honorary Witness, Truth and Reconciliation Commission; broadcast journalist, CBC Radio

A personal and historical story of identity, place, and belonging from a Musqueam-Chinese Elder caught between cultures

It’s taken most of Larry Grant’s long life for his extraordinary heritage to be appreciated. He was born in a hop field outside Vancouver in 1936, the son of a Musqueam cultural leader and an immigrant from a village in Guangdong, China. In 1940, when the Indian agent discovered that their mother had married a non-status man, Larry and his two siblings were stripped of their status. With one stroke of the pen, they were disenfranchised—no longer recognized as Indigenous.

Reconciling is a series of conversations between Larry and writer Scott Steedman as they visit pivotal geographical places together, including the Musqueam reserve, Chinatown, the site of the Mission residential school, the Vancouver docks and the University of British Columbia. Larry tells the story of his life, including his thoughts on reconciliation and the path forward for First Nations and Canada. His life echoes the barely known story of Vancouver and spans key events of the last two centuries, including Chinese immigration and the Head Tax, the ravages of residential school and now Indigenous revival and the accompanying change in worldview.

When Larry talks about reconciliation, he uses the verb reconciling, an ongoing, unfinished process we’re all going through, Indigenous and settler, immigrant and Canadian-born. “I have been reconciling my whole life, with my inner self,” he explains. “To not belong was forced upon me by the colonial society that surrounded me. But reconciling with myself is part of all that.”
“Larry Grant’s life is a model of what it means to rise above hardship, transcend preconceived notions, and live life in a good way. I’ve had the honour of meeting him, but this book makes me feel as...

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This book was completely different from what I expected … and I loved it!

It was as if I was having coffee and a walk through my city with my grandpa, learning about Vancouver’s early days and what he experienced in his youth as he sipped, walked, and talked. The format was a welcome treat.

I had never heard of Larry Grant before picking up this book. I learned that this 88-year-old lives locally and is an Elder of both the Vancouver Chinese community and the Musqueam Indian Band. The focus of this book is on the 34-year legal battle Larry and his siblings have undertaken in order to be recognized as status members of the Musqueam Nation. I appreciated the effort Larry went to in painting his background for readers so that we’d understand the challenges he faced and why reconciliation, on several levels, is important to him.

Larry’s Indian status was taken from him, his siblings, and his mother because she married a Chinese immigrant. Under the Indian Act, status is patriarchal. I was absorbed in a great narrative, learning about why Aggasiz became the corn capital of B.C., that there was a residential school a mile down the road from me, the issues with renaming Trutch Street, the misuse of the term ‘ceded’ in conjunction with events I attend on Native land, the meaning of ‘musqueam’, the ‘Red Ticket Woman’ and the loophole in the Indian Act.

I highly recommend this memoir. Locals will appreciate a wander through Vancouver’s former days. I’m encouraged now to head out to my local university and see the places mentioned with regards to the reconciliation.

I was gifted this copy and was under no obligation to provide a review.

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