Real Love Ready
A Guide to Relational Literacy
by Robin Ducharme
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Pub Date Apr 07 2026 | Archive Date Mar 20 2026
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Description
“A bold invitation to start doing the inner work that makes real love possible.”
—DR. RAMANI DURVASULA, Ph.D., New York Times Bestselling author of It’s Not You: Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic People
So many of us long for deeper connection, but we weren't given the language, tools, or courage required to create it.
Real Love Ready is the guide we’ve been missing. Drawing on years of conversations with the world’s leading experts in relationships such as Esther Perel, Dr. Terrence Real, Dr. Gabor Maté, Drs. John and Julie Gottman, and many others, Robin Ducharme distills their most powerful teachings into accessible, actionable wisdom.
This book invites readers to:
• Unlearn the myths that distort our understanding of love
• Build healthier, more conscious relationships, romantic, familial, and beyond
• Navigate conflict with curiosity, kindness, and integrity
• Cultivate vulnerability, self-awareness, and emotional maturity
• Expand your capacity to love wide, to love bravely, and to love well
Real Love Ready is a call to remember that love is not something happens to us. It's something we can learn, embody, and practice every day.
Advance Praise
“Is love complicated, or are we making it more complicated than it needs to be? In Real Love Ready, Robin Ducharme vulnerably explores the force of love beyond fairy tales and “happily ever after,” offering a timely wake-up call to become more active and intentional in cultivating love in our lives. The pleasure of this book is that Robin does not simplify or sugarcoat; instead, through the honest sharing of her own complex love stories and insights from relationship experts, she reminds us that to receive real love, we must look within, tend compassionately to our wounds, and till the ground of our souls to prepare ourselves for it.”
—Ramani Durvasula, PhD, Psychologist and New York Times bestselling author of It’s Not You: Understanding and Healing from Narcissistic People
“Robin Ducharme offers concrete and compassionate lessons designed to strengthen our intimate relationships. She is pulling for us to connect with authenticity, intentionality, and skill!”
—Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD, adjunct professor at Northwestern University, bestselling author of Love Every Day, and host of the podcast Reimagining Love
“Robin Ducharme leads with heart, in her work, in her voice, and on the page. In Real Love Ready, she gently guides readers through the brave work of unlearning dysfunctional patterns and creating healthier relationships, loving boundaries, and real emotional growth. The world needs this book more than ever.”
—Terri Cole, Psychotherapist and author of Boundary Boss and Too Much
“Real Love Ready: A Guide to Relational Literacy is a compassionate guide for anyone longing to live and love more consciously. Weaving spiritual insight, practical wisdom, and lived experience with grace, Robin Ducharme offers readers multiple pathways back to love, not as an ideal, but as a lived practice. This book is a meaningful companion for anyone ready to unlearn limiting beliefs about love and step into a more courageous, conscious way of relating.”
—Silvy Khoucasian, MA, Licensed Therapist, Relationship Expert, Speaker
“Robin Ducharme weaves the hard-earned lessons of her own healing journey together with insights from today’s most trusted relationship and relational experts to create a guide that feels honest, generous, and deeply human. Real Love Ready invites readers to unlearn old patterns, meet themselves with greater compassion, and practice love as a daily, intentional choice. A beautiful companion for anyone seeking deeper connection with themselves and with others.”
—Laura Berman, PhD, New York Times bestselling author, host of Language of Love Podcast
“When it comes to love, Robin truly gets it. Real Love Ready is less about finding the right relationship and more about re-educating ourselves in how love actually works. With warmth, clarity, and lived wisdom, Robin invites readers to unlearn the myths of love and practice something far more durable: relational literacy. She treats love not as a feeling or a fantasy, but as a daily discipline rooted in presence, honesty, and response-ability. This is a generous, grounded invitation to grow up in love, no matter where you’re starting from.”
—Zach Brittle, LMHC, Host of the Marriage Therapy Radio podcast, Certified Gottman Therapist, Certified Relational Life Therapist
“Drawing on grounded psychology and profound lived wisdom, Real Love Ready redefines what healthy, resilient love can be. Robin’s insights are a gift to anyone seeking deeper relationships (which is basically all of us). This book lights the way toward a more compassionate, courageous, and connected life. I’m better for having read it.”
—MaryCatherine McDonald, PhD, Author of The Joy Reset & Unbroken: The Trauma Response Is Never Wrong
“This book is a masterclass on how to love better in every aspect of your life. Robin has been a lifelong student of love and thus the perfect person to share the lessons she’s learned along the way. From her incredible life story to her work with the world’s leading relationship experts, Robin teaches us how to be Real Love Ready while walking the talk herself.”
—Rachel Greenwald, renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and international bestselling author
“Real Love Ready is both comforting and challenging in the best way; it leads with compassion and invites responsibility without shame. If you’re tired of chasing happily ever after and are ready to build a love that is conscious, enduring, and alive, this book belongs in your collection of relationship guides.”
—Bryan Withrow Reeves, Author of Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)
“Robin Ducharme has created a refreshingly grounded roadmap to love. Real Love Ready is not just a guide to relationships, but an invitation to grow and ‘love wide,’ revealing how love can be a daily practice that spills over into everything we do.”
—Damona Hoffman, TV Relationship Expert and Author of F the Fairy Tale: Rewrite the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story
“Robin has handed the mic to countless others, but now it is her turn. This is her voice. Her heart. Her story told without polish or pretense. A story that invites us to rethink how we love, heal, and come back to ourselves. This book belongs on every nightstand, not because it tells us what love is, but because it invites us to meet it with intention. Real Love Ready is not just a book about love, it is a hope movement. Born from someone who has spent years building relational literacy, creating spaces where people feel seen, heard, expressed, and human again.”
—John Kim, LMFT (The Angry Therapist), bestselling author of Single. On Purpose.
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Available Editions
| EDITION | Ebook |
| ISBN | 9781971942001 |
| PRICE | $9.99 (USD) |
| PAGES | 310 |